A person’s unkindness is not born, but accumulated over the years, on the one hand, do not want to spend energy on useless social activities, on the other hand, do not want to insincere entanglements.
Along the way, we will meet all kinds of people. Maybe we will become friends, colleagues, relatives and family members.
Once, we often hear people say: “many friends many roads”, in fact, this sentence is not wrong, but should be said to the rich, powerful people listen to, like a very ordinary people, but just waste energy and time.
The same is true of relatives and coworkers. As you get older and experience life, you’ll realize that some relationships, even the most intimate, need to be cut off. Some relationships, even the most profound, need to be cut off, or they’re a disaster.
A person, do not be controlled by the so-called “relationship”, but to learn to walk their own way, even if the road is very lonely, but at least do not need in the so-called “worldly wisdom” to consume themselves.
I have to say, a friend in life is enough. As you get older, you’ll understand: cut your ties with relatives, cut your ties with your coworkers, find your best friend and live well.
When one is old, one must learn to cut off relations
As the saying goes: “poor in downtown nobody ask, rich in the mountains have distant relatives.”
Thus, there is a kind of relative who has nothing to do with you but thinks you are rich and powerful. If you are really down and out, you will not even see it.
It can be said that some of the relatives you think of are in fact very powerful, and they are the most easily to see you badly, of course, these will only talk behind your back, in front of you must be a variety of flattery, but it is hard to say behind.
Often the most “force” of relatives, even if you have the ability, also will have someone against, and even will slander you everywhere, or it is all kinds of flattery, with affection as a chip to get some interests.
There is no denying the fact that sometimes the closer a relative is, the less he or she is to a stranger. At the very least, he or she will not belittle you, or spread bad news about you, or “kick a man when he or she falls.”
When one is old, after the test of time, one sees too much clearly, especially in the matter of severing ties with some relatives, one must not be soft.
When you are old, you must learn to disconnect from your colleagues
Speaking of “colleagues”, you may have a vague impression, although they have worked together for many years, but there is really no friendship, more may be angry.
After all, the workplace is not a place to make friends, and there are plenty of people who do little things behind your back. If you have a simple mindset and treat your co-worker relationship like a friend, you’re likely to lose out because everyone will treat you like an enemy on your way up the ladder.
In fact, a lot of people in life like to screen colleagues when they finish work. It’s not about how much hatred there is, but when you experience a fake relationship, your heart will resist, and it’s better to forget it than to be tormented by memories.
Especially in the face of some troublesome colleagues, although they are no longer working together, they still borrow money from you. Although they had a lot of trouble before, they still want to get along with each other like friends, which is obviously some false affection. It is better to directly choose to break the connection instead of trying to manage it.
As people grow older, they become more open to the ways of the world. They may have suffered a lot because they did not feel good about themselves, but now they can see that they must break their ties with some colleagues and not suffer losses.
When a man is old, he must learn to find friends
When you are young, you always think that “there are many friends and many paths”, but when you become mature, you will find that you have three or five friends in your life.
Many people like to waste their time and energy on useless social activities, but do the people you call friends contribute to your life? Nothing but sitting together eating, drinking and playing, wasting each other’s time.
How many people will offer to help you if you really encounter something? Very few, maybe as few as no one, so we need to find three or five close friends, to maintain the friendship between each other is enough, really in trouble will not be no one to help.
The reality is such, do not feel and a person with brothers is very close, really had already slipped away, most are your life, and only the remaining three or five people, will become confidants.
When you are old, it is enough to leave a few friends around you to chat and enjoy a pleasant life together. It is also a kind of happiness to help each other when you encounter problems in the course of life.
Life is not easy, is to know and some relatives, some colleagues break contact, find a few bosom friends, their own good life.
For the rest of your life, cherish your relatives, colleagues and friends who have helped you, and be grateful. Stay away from those who slander you and hurt you behind your back. Don’t be kind to everyone.
Live a good life, keep the bosom friend around, this is enough.
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