Cure your anxiety:The more you mix down the years, the worse it gets

There are a few years down the mix worse and worse, has been regressing?

xxldh

Recently in the interview, saw a few such people. Many are four years must change a job, short may be 1-2 years to change once, change job position, platform is not much to improve, a good many years down to do seven or eight jobs, and not much progress.

Others are stable work, rarely change jobs, but many years down to just work in accordance with the rules, beyond the scope of the post many things do not understand, the more you do the more waste.

Others read a lot of books, a lot of masters, a lot of PhD, but in turn, work experience is too little, not enough experience, so the position is slow.

Above these are also famous school graduation, Tsinghua University, Europe and the United States to study there. To sum up, it is too difficult to play workers! Read less can not, more can not. Have been in a place no growth can not, change to change to not. Want to smooth sailing, step by step, step by step, too difficult!

neo cow 3

It is too normal, I graduated from college in Beijing, the European foreign enterprise welfare super good, directly to do gym card, in the China World Trade Yintai. When I went to the gym I also ran into Pan Shiyi once, called the old Pan … people also nodded their heads.

Now? Long ago rolled back to the Chengdu-Chongqing twin-city economic circle to discuss the mouth. Fitness all rely on Nintendo fitness ring. Used.

When the company’s brothers played soccer together and drank together, some of them started their own business and took Tencent’s investment, some of them have already become the boss, with hundreds of people under them, buying one set of house after another, in Beijing, tesla bought one after another.

And look at me? Still in beaten to death …… cried.

Kong Manzi

Fifteen years ago, my young monthly salary of more than 10,000, often praised by the company’s senior management, headhunting phone calls.

Ten years ago, my monthly salary grew slowly, the core members of the global technical team, headhunters occasionally call.

Five years ago, my monthly salary basically stagnated, technology obsolete choice was marginalized, no trace of headhunters.

Today, I am receiving unemployment benefits of $1,424 per month and am currently participating in government-organized unemployment insurance training.

If not for the fact that the investment has done well in the past few years, there are worse than my regression?

No money and ugly

Once when the group leader for many years, the most impressive one, the group leader meeting, Yinglit collapse, and so I finished the meeting, Yinglit down, my friends in the goods began to plunge, sold, I was subjected to four a word down board after cutting meat ……

The end of 16 ~ 17 years, first, the end of 16 years to buy about 100w five ocean bonds in 17 years a complete default, then, the family out of a very unlucky thing will not be detailed table, in short, very unlucky.

Then, a team leader meeting, on my unlucky egg sitting next to the leader, very quiet conference room, received a phone call, the leader would have been very dissatisfied with me, this time directly angry, the meeting announced that I jerked off.

Normal, the removal process are prior notification, and then quietly removed …… I really broke into the muzzle of the gun.

17 years is also my investment so many years the only loss of a year. Now think about it, that year is really too bad luck. Now, as the bottom, often out of the industry, when the driver, send a courier (invoices, contracts).

runrun88

I’ve been thinking about this for a while now. This morning I was reflecting on this issue, and suddenly I saw this. I looked around carefully and really found that most of the vast majority were not particularly well off past the age of 35. This is also true for me. Reflecting deeply on my own 12 years of working life, the first 6 years in the bank’s head office, in fact, can boil to retirement, but not willing, thinking of making quick money, into the wave of entrepreneurship, since then into a career of instability and turbulence. Mutual fund venture, mutual fund practice, mutual fund investment.

I have been focusing on this industry, and have published two monographs, “Blockchain: Reinventing the New Finance” and “Fintech Investment in One Book”. I think I know more about this industry, but now I’m getting older, the industry is in the doldrums, it’s still not good to do, it’s difficult.

Now look back and summarize.

  1. when you are young, too anxious to make money.

Always resigned to mediocrity, lack of patience, changing the industry.

  1. do anything, must look at the general direction, with the right industry is the king.

Anyone, it is difficult to resist the general trend, in front of the general trend, all the efforts are insignificant.

  1. at any time, try to open the mind of cooperation, learn to cooperate with others.

The past experience of growing up as a child has determined that I have always believed in individual heroism, lacked trust in others, and always struggled with self-effort.

Although I have achieved a little bit of success, I am still far from my goal and still haven’t made the class leap.

At present, I am quite happy to have a little time to mix with young people in the college. I’m trying to learn more about the humanities and the heart, and I’m trying to refine my knowledge.

It’s a self-analysis of sorts, thanks to the guidance of the gods of Tiberius! If there is anything I can do to help, you can write to me privately, I’m happy to help.

Vital

I worked as a maintenance electrician in a factory with a monthly income of more than 3,000 and 12% provident fund, and now I work as an electrician in a hotel with a monthly income of more than 2,000 and 8% provident fund. But the work environment has changed for the better, and I feel happier than before, plus the hotel food is very good.

jiangdaya

The work is worse than the owner said, the stock market is also cut year after year.

Work served, I indeed can not, the stock market does not serve, has been persistent, to October, Brother Yuzi lend a helping hand, pulled me up from the bottom of the well, before October, the goose is more than double the owner of the road described, and now, at least I can say, the stock market I did not lose money.

haha

lyd267

Although I am now unemployed, but I am not anxious, the difficulties are temporary, success is sooner or later

Because the empire of successful people must have 2 elements I have: 1.

1, lived in the basement

2, as a security guard

mrlee618

The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into. The former open small supermarket small restaurant husband and wife store, can earn a net 200-300,000 in Beijing a year. If you don’t go home to develop, your daughter-in-law continues to look after the store or find a factory to work in, and the man buys a 200,000 Sky Passat. Also do not have to play hard to drive, a day flow 800 on the car, after all, there are a few hundred thousand small 1 million savings in hand. There is also to see the industry, such as car 4s. stores rarely have 40 years old sales 50 basic no, this store is generally the franchisee owner of their own. The store is comfortable in house positions either their own people or to play some relationship with. Sales to a certain number of years will have to go away.

Harvest holder

These days have been listening to the former Boshi and Cathay’s investment director returned to the river in Fudan lectures. One of them talked about life career planning, a person should prove himself in the industry before 40 years old, and then find a business partner similar to Warren Buffett found Munger, and start a business together after 40 years old. I immediately popped up in my head the glorious image of Tianshu and handsome cow teacher.

ylshxajh

The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who have been in the business for a long time, and they’ve been in the business for a long time.

I’ve been looking for a job as a security guard for years, and I’ve been doing the same work, and playing games after work every day is the happiest time, and I haven’t regressed because I can’t go back.

The stock market is the only way to find the feeling of progress every day.

xiaofeng71

In 1998, I graduated with a master’s degree, and in 2006, I became an associate professor, and from then on, I put my horse to the south, and I gradually became a marginal person in the unit.

The clear-heartedness to know the fate of God

83 years

north qing rejiao financial professional graduation cpa acca second specialized humanities class

After graduation in the big four 6 years senior manager left

Foreign 500 Chinese finance second in command for 4 years

A large Internet company p9 4 years

Now mixed in a small Internet company with a monthly salary of only 4.5w with a bunch of children I did not even look at before, what I said they do not understand.

There are worse than me?

Of course, I do not feel miserable myself. Only work 2-3 hours a day boss will not fire me unless the company closed down on time to work with children without pressure free. This is the life I imagined.

caishendao

normal

How do you want to rise high from the earth’s gravity every day?

kongzhaolei

Stable regression …

elementary school good grades, beautiful math teacher often smiled at me

junior high school class president, the girl chased home to play love with me

High school class representative, the front row of girls always bother me with a little hair

University team leader, the department flower rubbed my bike but did not hug my waist

The first year of work, the company cashier is very gentle but has a boyfriend

Third year of work, married with a child and busy making money

In my sixth year of work, I got divorced and was introduced to someone by a matchmaker by chance

The ninth year of work, met the heart of the man but no big three residence

Now, children, houses, cars, but love is dead

Middle-aged greasy man

This year, 35, 30 years old when the ambition to reach the first 1 million in life. At that time thought it was the starting point, now see may have been the culmination of this life.

The stone at the foot of the mountain

More than 20 years ago, I have always been the first overall in the class test, never the second, the class of more than 50 people. 13 years ago, my annual balance than the current annual income. 3 years ago, the boss gave me the most red packets company every New Year. Now, the company that worked for 10 years is basically going out of business, and I’m not doing it anymore. Own from the previous look will not even look at the business to do, the monthly income is not enough to cover expenses. Occasionally depressed, most of the time high spirits, in doing things for themselves, must be able to succeed, must be successful.

Solguy

See so many old brother self-explosion, I also come one, let everyone happy.

The original in the empire to mix, medium-sized game company (800 people or so), the project core planning (take the project share)

Now in the home mix, micro data company (about 10 people), miscellaneous. Work income is about a fraction of what it was before, and the annualized return on investment has fallen from 25% to 15%. The good thing is that close to home, there is no pressure to lose hair are beginning to grow it. (Manual dog head)