“I’m a just killed the pig… “on December 6, the microblogging hot searched authentication client Ms. Xia. The post is less than 100 characters long and has accumulated more than 320,000 thumb ups. Ms. Xia on September 26, more than 6 a.m. issuing this tweet after more than two months, slew of claims to “kill pig dish ” victim’s message.
In three or four line city life He Yue is one of the writer, she with a “kill pig dish ” talked about three months, and the loss of money. She told all now, “kill pig dish ” victims have mostly the same, “thought met the other half of life, simple ignorance that they were routine step by step, be tricked into various network platform to borrow money, which finally found wrong go to the police was very late, days flat ”.
According to the description of the victims, “kill pig dish ” are usually divided into two phases, the first phase is the cheater through Internet dating, meet the victim, form similar to “the net love ” relationship; The second stage, the liar will, in the form of investment or gambling, together with the invited victims “make money ”, the essence is to use the self-built platform system to defraud the victim’s money.
“actually kill pig tray is not purely a fraud, it took too many emotions. “allie in fujian province to carry out the work of curator met kill pig plate in September of this year but was ten days later she will see through the deception. She had not even heard of such a scam before. See “kill pig dish ” boarded out, she thought it was a good thing, can let more people know of this scheme.
“that very empty feeling, as if lost love ”
Online gaming platform lost 300000 that day, if is the most care about is not the loss, but to see the net two weeks “boyfriend ”. Fruit is a gay men, it was in 2018, soon after he graduate, work in a government agency unit, the net love “boyfriend ” is met at a gay dating software on.
If an appointment that day, in the vegetable market bought a chicken, a pot chicken soup, stew waiting “boyfriend ” to eat. “today or you want to come, together with me to face, although did not have money, but I still like you the person. if “urged him on the phone, but the other side has been on the grounds that the job is busy, refused to date.
Until this moment, if still not aware of their falls “kill pig dish ”, he didn’t want to have “kill pig dish ” this kind of thing.
In the past week, he follows “boyfriend ” running a gambling game, scroll to the top accounts up to 1 million. The night before the appointment to meet, the original recharge of 300,000 yuan gambling account, only 150,000 left. If you have a hunch that you won’t be able to turn it over, you haven’t slept well all night. As a result, 150,000 lost quickly the next day. He thought “boyfriend ” will lose money because sad, to comfort him, “today I put up the chicken broth, have what problem we carry together ”.
But “boyfriend ” never appear, if threatened, even if he doesn’t come to dinner, they jump from the fourth floor of the house. “so good, you certainly can’t jump. , “this is ” boyfriend “to his last message.
Realized he meets “kill pig dish ” that night, Shang Yun frantically to cheat an apology.
In October this year, Tang Yun met a man who called himself Cheng Kun on a blind date platform, the software needs to submit the ID card to do real name authentication, Tang Yun also very trust Cheng Kun. The two chatted online for more than a month, starting with text messages to learn about each other’s interests and hobbies, and ending with regular voice calls at 9 p.m. every night. Although the time is not long, also has a pair of cyber love lover, and Cheng Kun is active the call from “baby ” upgrade to “daughter-in-law ”.
According to Cheng’s self-introduction, he worked at a research institute and revealed that he was helping clients make investments. Tang Yun knew that the institute is real, also never suspected, but she is not interested in investment, did not take the initiative to ask Cheng Kun investment. One night, Cheng Kun suddenly very anxious to find Tang Yun, please her to help his customer operation investment – customer drunk driving was detained. To see the rough investment platform interface Shang Yun perceived that the net love, I’m afraid is a “kill pig dish ”, according to the formula, Cheng Kun will continue to help her with investment operation, to obtain her money into investment platform.
“suspicious of his time that night, psychological struggle is very intense. When I said I suspected him to be a liar, he immediately deleted me. Shang Yun recalls, “she is Cheng Kun in chat software ” flies book “delete, friends, the first reaction is to fear yourself misunderstood him, ” is it true that I am wrong “.
That night, tang yun did not sleep, has been to cheng kun WeChat message to apologize, about him to talk about it. But intellectually, Shang Yun doesn’t believe Cheng Kun, she search on the Internet a lot “kill pig dish ” case, the experience of these cases and her “love story ”.
Tang Yun describes, that kind of sad is very complex — both cheated after remorse, feel too stupid; I had the pain of losing my love again, and I cried all day on Saturday. “for a long time, every day to chat a lot with him, is a very close contact, then suddenly broken… That very empty feeling, as if lost love “.
If the “boyfriend ” disappears, also don’t realize that the invited him to play gambling games “boyfriend ”, is actually a JuPian his money. He was alone at home, thinking that the money he had lost was borrowed from his family and the online loan office. Including the interest, the debt he was carrying was nearly 500,000 yuan, which made him particularly uncomfortable. He call be two friends in Beijing, said the first sentence is “had an accident ”.
At a friend’s inquiry, as the first name he was gay, also revealed a “the net love ” after. Friends to react immediately, if be “kill pig ”.
In Shang Yun after their own experiences to the Internet, occasionally suffer suspected “kill pig dish ” to direct messages, she found that the victims have been known to cheat, just don’t want to accept the reality and need a person to point directly, that is a liar.
PUA full of routines, not experienced is not understandable
The first thing a swindler needs is a script. Interview, Shang Yun mentioned and if all “script ” this word, they think, “kill pig dish ” will be according to their real life experiences, to make a set of can into the inner “script ”.
Just know Tang Yun, Cheng Kun said his grandfather is critically ill, is in hospital. This detail touched Tang Yun, she both sympathize with Cheng Kun, but also feel that he is very filial. because just a few months ago, Tang Yun’s grandmother died, she can be especially sympathetic to this state — afterwards, she suspected cheng Kun from the circle of friends to know it, he set the script for her.
If the net love “boyfriend ” is thrown from the start with the person of hometown is hunan, the commonality is young north drift. If also particularly trust him, he wanted to do film and television creation, hope to make money to shoot things told him. This for later “boyfriend ” brought him the stage to make money.
Chen, however, found that the cheater she encountered is not very clever, often too conventional, also unable to justify itself. For example, when he asked for a video, he always said the network is too bad, opened ten seconds of video, stuck like A GIF. But in the initial conversation, she always consciously rationalizes what the other person says, and what she has always wondered is how often the other person manages to follow up a line or two that fits perfectly.
Respondents to summarize “kill pig dish ” another characteristic is a PUA pattern. “cheater will quarrel with you, I argued with the cheat at least three times, I found other people also have met, some cheater also block you, want you to take the initiative to add him. Shang Yun told now.”
A go to the movies with a male friend, “kill pig dish ” liar like allie had a quarrel. She finds it puzzling, but it does make a woman feel like she’s already in a relationship. If first time “boyfriend ” gambling game invitation, the other is to ask him to play in the form of temper. Guo had already turned it down twice before.
In “kill pig dish ” hot search weibo, there are a lot of criticism of the victims of the message, “can someone believe this, greedy end ah ”, , “some people is grasping ”. These comments make Shang Yun was so angry that she felt at least a significant number of women just want to find a boyfriend, “can only say that there is no real experience, to say such a thing, because can’t let you empathy ”.
If think, never really met “kill pig dish ”, it is impossible to understand the victim. One of his friends even asked him, “How can a top student fall into such a dilemma?”
In the end of the play, the main character forgives the cheater
“why cheat money even cheat feelings? Shang Yun “has not been tricked into money, but left a psychological trauma. When she first signed up for the dating app, she really wanted a serious relationship. And “kill pig dish ” Cheng Kun, is more active than her contacts boyfriend before, and more love sweet talk, during that time, she really thought he was going to meet a right person.
In a period of love, if still received “kill pig dish ” sequela – he often insecure, always involuntarily geological asked her boyfriend is doing what, who met. Finally, her boyfriend can’t accept this “distrust ” broke up.
In September this year, tencent news, do a “kill pig plate of single men and women ” slaughterhouse “” video, known as the leading role of jing by ” kill pig dish “obtain 150000 yuan, which in turn makes cheats on his feelings, he about to meet offline, finally arrested by the police. Allie after watching this video series, only feel very nervous, because zhao jing “kill ” after didn’t feel happy, it seem a bit uncomfortable, oneself also became a cheat feelings of the people.
Meets the first “kill pig dish ” after a month, allie and received a “kill pig dish ” direct messages, she felt the shark’s weakness to use women cheat. “women in the society has been so difficult, even looking forward to happiness right all have no, is too cruel… To give an independent woman unprecedented sweet and caring, let her down guard, step by step to improve her inner man set, finally hit the fatal straw. , “she wrote in an article on the review of this encounter.
If said that gay encounter “kill pig dish ”, after the situation is worse, because of concerns about sexual orientation, some dare not gay rights, can’t even find a friend for help.
Before this, Tang Yun also has been to Cheng Kun message, persuade him not to cheat girls feelings.
If have “kill pig dish ” experience into a movie script, and got the award of a European film festival. In reality, he still has to pay back 3,200 yuan of online loans every month. In the end of the script, the main character forgives the cheater.
(Pseudonyms are used to protect the privacy of interviewees.)
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