Last night I washed myself, changed into my pajamas, and leaned against the bed to look at my phone. After a while, the two of them washed up and went to bed. The boy was playing the story on his phone and watch. The father sat next to me and suddenly he looked at me and said, “Why are your legs so thin? Look at my legs! I can tell you apart!
I say: you just know my leg is thin, my 1 meter 65 person of stature, just 100 jins, arm leg can thick where go? How about you, 1.75 meters, 150 pounds, strong arms, legs, strength, is to you to protect me, not to let you bully me.
He smiled shyly: Nonsense, when did I ever bully you? As soon as he said this, I immediately remembered the first and only abuse he had inflicted on me shortly after our marriage.
It was the first year of our marriage, in the downstairs living room of his old home, and by now I had forgotten what we were fighting about. Then I got angry, didn’t want to talk to him, and got ready to go upstairs. He suddenly took hold of my wrist and would not let me go. I struggled for a few times to free myself, so I pushed him, but he could not move at all. He also got angry and pulled my arm and threw me back. I was a little surprised, more grievance, tears all of a sudden out. I watched him stand still. I just wanted to get up and go out the door, and he came up and grabbed me, and he clamped me with his arms, really clamped me, not hugged me, because I couldn’t move at all. Afraid I might run away from home, I suppose?
Although I later forgave him, I categorically referred to the incident as “domestic violence.” Of course my husband won’t admit it. He said that he was just afraid that I would run out, and that he wanted to have something to say to his face and solve the conflict as soon as possible, so that I would not escape, so he wouldn’t let me go upstairs.
Generally speaking, men and women’s height, physical disparity, if the hands, women are mostly domestic violence suffered by the party. Therefore, I sincerely hope that women must keep their eyes open and stay away from violent men. Men also need to control themselves, gentlemen do not do, to understand that your height, physical strength advantage is for you to protect his wife and children, not for you to bully, abuse them.
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