Social Whacking and Young People’s Immunity

Some years ago, medical workers discovered a phenomenon. A higher percentage of children in developed countries and regions suffer from asthma and various allergies than in developing countries.

There are, of course, several possible reasons for this, such as insufficient diagnostic coverage in developing countries, where many mild symptoms are not diagnosed at all, and the fact that the mortality rate of children in many backward regions is also much higher than in developed countries. The mortality rate of children in many backward regions is also much higher than in developed countries, so some may simply die without being identified. But it is also recognized that children in developed countries have better living conditions, so their bodies become more sensitive and less tolerant of foreign bodies.

It is often said that the more spoiled they are, the less resistant they are to foreign objects.

And when young people first enter society, they also have to face the beating of society. A few years ago, many people may have intentionally or unintentionally blackened the workplace, and young people always feel that they will be exploited by their superiors and bosses. Of course, I can’t say that this phenomenon doesn’t exist, but in the last two years, there are more sources of social beatings.

1、Job-hunting pit

The MLM pit is one kind of pit, and there are too many stories for me to tell.

There’s also the one that makes you pay all kinds of fees, course fees, and clothing fees in the name of recruitment, only to find out that the so-called job doesn’t exist.

Of course, some time ago, there was a strange one, special pit top freshmen, in the name of recruitment to let you do an in-depth analysis of the English language in a certain field, but in fact, the other side is to take over the overseas outsourcing industry analysis tasks, zero cost to deceive this kind of top talent to work, the level is not enough, the background is not good enough people are not bothered to pit you.

  1. Consumption pit

Starting from school loans, to cash loans, all kinds of advocating young people to consume, many people just go into society to get into debt, before the naked bar incident, really put the young girls to death.

I think it is the root of many social problems to encourage people with no spending power to borrow and spend.

3、Finance Pit

p2p finance, you do not want to make more money it, the results.

3、Pig Slaughter Plate

All sorts of fool you to get rich overnight, all sorts of cheat you to get rich secrets, speculation, speculation, all sorts of prop, all sorts of cheat, all sorts of guru shameless stand, of course, there are all sorts of temptation you, comfort you of the opposite sex stranger.

We used to say that as long as you don’t have money, you won’t be cheated, but now? There’s also online lending!

In some cases, the income is not high, they were fooled by a piggy bank, they owe a large amount of money in online loans, and their life is in the dark.

This kind of I would suggest that the net loan should not be paid first. It’s not a good idea to have a credit card, but it’s a good idea to recognize the results yourself, and sue anyone who dares to collect maliciously. It’s not just a matter of time, it’s also a matter of time before you have a chance to pay back the money you owe. And maybe some platforms will go out of business in a few years.

4、Knowledge Paid Pit

Of course, I will not oppose the knowledge payment field, after all, I myself still rely on this to make money it is not, but now some of the knowledge payment platform, began to go to the model of pyramid scheme, pulling downlines, pulling heads, all kinds of high flickering and packaging, all kinds of false propaganda, you can learn to lie down to earn, you can meet a lot of cowboys and big brothers, you can not go to work to earn more or less.

There’s a saying in the knowledge pay field right now called what.

The pre-promotion is the product, that is, the material and copywriting of the pre-promotion of the paid knowledge is the product, the fraudulent payment is completed sales, then what about the course? That’s after-sales service!

Collect some various sets of copy online, package it up a bit, and then find a few pseudo-experts to stand in, and then you can go harvest it.

A lot of people spend a lot of money, thinking that their realm has been elevated to meet the illusory sense of fulfillment, and finally return to the workplace, nothing has changed, or even worse, except that they think they are superior.

5、Rent pit

I didn’t expect that renting a room would become a pit, and this time the eggshell apartment thunderstorm.

Frankly speaking I do have a few years a bit out of the bottom state of existence, a bit of hindsight on this kind of thing, but see a lot of people mentioned, to look at some of the reports, also quite shocked, you said the tenant is innocent, the landlord is not at fault it, in fact, we are victims, but began to kill each other, quite cruel.

The people with housing affordability, should bear the loss, this argument is not a little weak who has a reason. But it is true that the young tenants are very innocent, and who to look for. If you ask me, I can’t do anything about it. I hope that both sides can discuss the matter calmly, understand each other, don’t think that they are the only victims, and then see if some kind of compromise can be reached.

In recent years, really, I confess to the readers, I also feel quite embarrassed, I confess, I have always been a believer in the principles of the free market, believe in the market mechanism of the invisible hand of regulation, but recently from p2p finance, to all kinds of violent thunderstorms, similar to the current eggshell apartment thunderstorms, I can also understand why many people call for government regulation, I never use capitalism and bourgeoisie! But I must be honest and say that it is true that innovation in the economy, when it gets out of control, has extremely bad social consequences. In the end, the basic structure of Eggshells Apartments is not an Internet-based long-term rental apartment platform, but a so-called financial innovation product that uses long-term rental apartments as a selling point.

6、Marriage prop pit

The average person may not meet, a little money little brothers, I secretly reveal something to you, there really are some paid communities and courses are teaching girls to fish for kaizi, you think you’ve met the man of your dreams, all kinds of ideal match, from all kinds of chance encounters, to rapid development, and then meet the parents, meet each other parents, you know what is called a one-stop service, people’s relatives, parents, all of them are actors. The family is the scene, the car is a prop, the so-called job is false, the name and age of course is also false, a single squeeze you dry hundreds of thousands of millions of dollars, and then disappear without leaving a trace.

Of course, posing as a rich and handsome fishing girl also has, this is from ancient times, not to repeat.

7、Enterprise pit

Some of them start from knowledge-based payment, for example, some of the courses for college students, so-called teaching you how to open an online store to make money, at the beginning to teach you how to register Taobao store, how to publish goods, in fact, is the general practice of it, of course, you can not make money, and then after learning, want to make money, no problem, they say they give you a selection of goods, you want to pay a sum of money, and then from them to buy goods, after purchase how to do, or make money! The first thing you need to do is to ask them, no problem, to brush up on their good reviews, they are a one-stop service, you spend money to brush up on their good reviews, don’t tell me, really brush up, or no money to earn ah, how to do, no problem, buy through train, they help you cast, anyway, step by step, squeeze your money, finally, anyway, as long as you still have money, they have something to say, and so you have no money, they say, not not help you ah, just this step. ….

In short, once you believe a certain propaganda, behind it is a series of harvesting techniques, to your own inability to afford, they shirked cleanly.

Many young people feel they don’t want to be mediocre and want to start a business early, emptying their parents’ wallets to pursue a so-called personal career, well, they feed these entrepreneurial counseling cheats.

This is really not a case of saying grapes are sour when you can’t eat them, and I’m sure I’ll make a lot of money if I ever go dark.

It’s not a bad thing to get beaten up by society early, but it’s better than getting beaten up in middle age and losing half of your life savings, which is really desperate.

I’ve avoided a lot of potholes in the past few years, not because I’m so cool, but because I stepped on enough potholes and paid enough tuition when I was younger, so I’ve been significantly more cautious in my investment decisions over the years. Frankly speaking, if it weren’t for the experiences I had when I was young, I probably wouldn’t be any smarter than any of you.

Is it possible for a young person to build immunity without stepping on potholes, I’m not sure, but let me give some advice.

First, the lack of education, in fact, suggests that universities, and even high schools, should establish social risk awareness training, which is a bit politically incorrect, because if we only read news feeds and political science textbooks, these risks shouldn’t exist, right? But isn’t there a picture circulating on the Internet that there are many students at Peking University who have been cheated? It’s true that even if you have high education, high IQ, a little bit of greed, and not enough life experience, you can easily be fooled by those fraudsters who understand human nature.

Second, don’t trust any stranger. Although this is not in line with the values of social harmony, you really should not trust any stranger. Acquaintances should also be double-checked, triple-checked.

If an acquaintance comes to you online to borrow money, at least make a phone call first to make sure it’s the person and not a stolen number.

Never use online loans to lend someone money!

A so-called semi-acquaintance with a mutual friend should never be trusted either!

Third, don’t be superstitious about authority.

I know a lot of bigwigs, and there are three of them in my circle of friends in the top 20 of the Forbes China list, so my immunity to this is pretty good, and I won’t take you too seriously no matter how many titles you have and how loud your name is.

But young people are easily convinced by the fame and influence of the big brothers.

Some time ago, there were reports revealing that overseas Nobel laureates came to make money in the cave, a lot of cottage high-tech as long as they are willing to pay, can be hired Nobel laureates. Obama is not still to make money with the micro-business photo it.

Think about these, those so-called authority endorsement, the so-called authority identified, really have to have their own judgment, can not blindly follow.

Fourth, strict stop-loss.

The first thing you need to do is to take a look at a few of the products that are available on the market.

If you can do strict stop-loss, most of the pits you won’t fall too deep.

The little handsome guy has money, soak up some money, eat a big meal, buy a bag, no problem, find each other’s desire to fill, asking for more and more high, the heart to be counted, do not let the lower body control the upper body.

I thought I had taken advantage of things, and found that after the remittance, the other side found excuses to say this and that, more remittances can be so and so, quickly stop loss, just to buy a lesson.

There are high return high interest things you want to try, strictly control the position, do not increase the leverage. If you lose everything, you will understand the lesson, as long as the position is controlled, you can still maintain life and development, the future will not despair.

Fifth, fuck ALL In.

Never take a chance on a small probability event at the cost of all the possibilities of your future.

Always remember that the person who tells you to ALL IN will never ALL IN himself.

No matter how big the loss, as long as you have the chips in your hand, you have nothing to lose.

Sixth, Control Greed

As the saying goes, “A fly never bites an egg,” and by using human nature to get the victim, the con man also catches the victim’s loophole, and that loophole is greed.

Greed for finances, greed for beauty, greed for power, greed for fame, etc., can be a breakthrough for the crooks.

Always let reason rule your critical decisions.

Hey, it may not be of much use to talk about it. If you don’t wrestle with it yourself and just listen to what others say, you won’t understand it. Because I was the same way back then.