I don’t know since when, “girly” has become the highest word to praise women.
Female celebrities needless to say, all take the girl persona; and we ordinary people, if you hear others boast that they have a sense of girlhood, the mouth “where where”, the heart can not wait to The 360-degree rotation and jumping does not stop.
If you search for “girly” in Zhihu, the number one question is – how to have a girly look?
“peach blossom makeup”, “pleated skirt “, “oversize”, “wool roll”. “wool rolls” …… women say with their mouths “not for yourself”, but the body is honest, look at the street full of “girl dress “, can be called a large real incense scene.
It is not an exaggeration to say that “girlhood” has become the next “buy a bag”, “weight loss “After the twenty-first century, the third obsession of women.
What is a sense of girlhood?
What is “girlishness”? A thousand people have a thousand answers in their hearts.
But through the circle of friends we found that most people pursue just “look young”, through modern technology is not difficult to achieve.
The “sense of girlhood” is different, it is a temperament from the inside out, can not be artificial, and therefore become scarce.
The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on this. The video of her playing finger dance, kissing, touching chin …… unrestrained eyes, cheerful dance, talk about the state of love, completely unlike a 38-year-old child in elementary school mom.
Many people of the same age while wearing moral glasses spit “shameless”, while from the biological instincts sigh The actual girl is the real girl.
The feeling of freedom and not being responsible for your Life is like everyone’s teenage years.
I have a friend who is 32 years old and looks younger than many recent college graduates.
When asked how she maintains her teenage sense, she smiled and said, “There are no big setbacks in life, and my Parents support me unconditionally in any decision I make.
Her father was originally a doctor who later went into business to run a small, well-known company in the area, and her mother was a university teacher. She hasn’t worked since she came back from studying abroad, her mission is to do what she likes & travel around the world.
To sum up, we found that these people still have a “girlie” feeling in middle age, all have common characteristics.
They have a beautiful face and body, good Family conditions, a smooth life, they have someone behind her to block the wind and rain, their girlhood seems to be innate.
But for ordinary people, just one of them have to give their best.
No teenage girl in middle age
The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the circle of friends and say that “middle-aged women are disappearing from the circle of friends”. The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the photos you have taken.
Not no social needs, but spend Time and energy to maintain the “persona”, it is too tired.
The circle of friends of middle-aged women is a social acquaintance, even if the work or other things into a few strangers, will also be grouped within 3 seconds blocked.
The people in the circle of friends are basically friends and relatives within three generations, since childhood classmates, colleagues who have worked together and friends who have known each other for more than ten years, all know each other’s half and half, what I look like, how much the annual salary range, how to find a husband, how bear children …… even on the spur of the moment sent a circle of friends, received is not necessarily praise or demolition The actual fact is that the actual person is not necessarily the same.
So, a good selfie of a teenage girl, turned into a large rollover site.
In addition to the circle of friends, middle-aged women in life to want to girl a little is also very difficult.
Before giving birth to a child, the idea is to be a young and beautiful everyone envied “hot mom”, holding a baby must be the kind of Victoria one-handed dragging the baby on the crotch axis concave shape.
After the birth of a child, it became a door duckbill clip, out of a shoulder bag, a pair of flat shoes at any time to pick up the baby storm “sloppy mother”.
Before having a baby, she promised her husband that she would never neglect him because she had a baby, and that she would always be his sweetheart.
After the birth of a child, the husband has become the most useless baby products, they become licking their bellies, arms crossed, ready to spit fire Mrs. cow.
It was hard to wait for the baby to grow up, and carefully arranged a romantic parent-child trip.
Wearing a girly fringe dress, wearing the latest shade of lipstick, fantasizing about a leisurely afternoon tea in the town of Florence with a black truffle dessert ……
Everything is beaten back by the vomit and wailing when sleepy after a journey wa vomiting.
At this point, all the middle-aged woman can do is to silently recite in her heart: pro-life pro-life, and at the right moment to rage gracefully at the baby’s father.
If these are just bitter-sweet vignettes in the life of a middle-aged woman, it’s the sick children, aging parents and middle-aged unemployment that are the real challenges that make people mature overnight.
“Why isn’t Sister Chen here these days? “
“The child is hospitalized.”
“Mom had an operation.”
“Manpower talked to her.”
Any one of these is a fatal blow to a middle-aged woman who is working while caring for her family.
Hold up the brick can not take care of the family, put down the brick can not provide for the family, is from the teenage girl to middle age, the most realistic lesson that society has taught women.
Why can’t people have a sense of girlhood when they reach middle age? In fact, kill the “middle-aged girl” is not age, not dress, but the life of the chicken and dog fireworks.
Nowadays, they are ridiculed for being smart, smart and worldly, and a little bit on the “ama”, but once they were also young girls who yearned for love, were innocent and bright, and had soft hearts.
When they transformed their persona and became wives, mothers, daughters-in-law and working mothers, they were wrapped in layers of life and eventually became “24K Gold middle-aged women warriors”.
Every middle-aged female warrior comes with buffs, from the drainage pipe to repair the gas stove, from tutoring homework to fight the mistress, from daily life to psychological physiology, no they can not handle.
In their view, those who drink water are looking for help to unscrew the cap of the “girls” are buns, the TV series live only two episodes.
In life, only a little stronger, stronger, to remain independent, not to be swayed by others.
It is necessary to admit that people in middle age really have nothing to do with “girlhood”, but no girlhood, it is not beautiful?
Not necessarily.
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