Cruel statements about finding a job

Two years ago a peer said to me, now they recruit people, are recruiting good Family. Because the children from good families are more pure, nothing survival pressure, stability will be stronger. Later ta go to the next Home, will require human resources to help ta card once the family of fresh graduates, screening out the more difficult.

Yesterday a colleague advised me, or to recruit a good family. 1 is the yield of the practice down, good family children are generally for personal growth, more bearable; 2 is more rules, long process, KPI more and more fine, the company take employees as leverage, financial advances too much money, the cost is getting tight, good family children do things more reckless, easier to start business.

Very cruel.

Why are graduate students bad at finding jobs? Because the high growth rate of the dividend period has passed, and the transformation has not yet succeeded, the supply of talent is greater than demand, supply and demand in the structure of the mismatch.

As I said before on wb, the domestic circulation structure determines that the essence of most people’s jobs are sales, no matter what your job content is. Party B is of course 100% sales, selling products selling views selling labor, party A is also mostly sales, sell yourself to the boss, competing for limited resources and attention.

Once a subordinate of mine left, could not endure the industry training period, Life forced to go to a fast-earning job, I was very sad, and a friend talked about, she said, the child in a first-tier city competitive industry to find work, she felt that Parents had better prepare a year of room and board living expenses + 200,000 starting capital, not seeking any return; so that the child’s first year can fully, have spare life, to carry out business will be more aggressive and colleagues to get along more uncritically.

Sadly true, money makes it casual.

I don’t want to sell anxiety. When I was most strapped for cash, I participated in some socials that I couldn’t afford in order to expand my network and find a good job. Once, a sister paid for all the participants and told us, “I’m working, it’s all small money, but coming out to socials shouldn’t be a burden to you. After I worked, I have been advancing for my subordinates and buying for my schoolmates who didn’t work, because these are indeed small money, and these small money can cause anxiety for kids who don’t work and have low salaries, and even change their career choices.

I do not want the family to limit the career choices of freshmen, but from my physical sense of using people, the family has money for children, indeed more Smooth.

Extended reading: @Hangzhou financial female migrant workers.

I objectively say that Jia Ling and her family, in the matter of getting ahead, are very lucky.

I was looking at Jia Ling’s profile, which is very typical of a poor family. The most important thing is that she was lucky enough to meet Feng Gong, and after 10 years of struggle, she finally made it to the top and has Jia Ling, who is making a lot of money today.

Here is a detail, the same year Jia Ling got into the Central Academy of Drama, Jia Ling’s sister Jia Dan got into the Beijing Broadcasting Academy. But the family had no money, so they could only pay for one, and finally Jia Dan sacrificed herself to make Jia Ling whole. The first few years of Jia Ling’s life in the north, she also relied on her sister’s part-Time job to support her. At that time, Jadan earned 800 a month, and gave Jialing 500, so one minute to Jialing red.

I believe that this is the result of the family’s discussion, and the whole family must be the default, pouring the family’s strength for a Jialing, and when Jialing gets ahead, then return the sister. This reflects not only the selfless love between family members, but also a family’s strategy.

In the end, Jialing lived up to the expectations and made a lot of money, and also gave the family a good return, buying a house and a car for her sister, and buying a house and a car for her father, so that the family could live a good life, if her mother did not die early, it can be said that it is a happy ending. Imagine if Jia Ling did not boil out, or the poor northern drifters, what a heavy pressure it would be for Jia Ling and the family.

But in fact, there are N “Jia Ling” who didn’t make it out in Beijing. They are also talented, hardworking and have suffered a lot, but for various reasons, they are not popular and do not make a lot of money. Like Zhang Songwen, the veteran actor in “The Hidden Corner”, who has acting skills, credentials and hard work, but is still living in a rented apartment at the age of 43. In fact, this is the norm in show business.

So I say, Jia Ling is really lucky. I also like Jialing a lot, including her hilarity and her persona, and she really deserves to succeed. I also hope that there will be more people like Jialing who are capable, hardworking, hard-working, and who will be able to eat based on their abilities and not on the side, no matter what industry they are in, because they really deserve it too.

Good luck to all the Jialing’s in the world!