I have a sister in my hometown, working in Beijing, single in her thirties, but with many hobbies and a full Life. I will not reveal what the name is, anyway, is not a Marriage post.
Yesterday she complained to me, this Time back to Chifeng for the Spring Festival, Parents and nagging marriage problems, but also arranged to arrange a blind date or something. Her parents are old, she is not good top, ask me what to do to good. I am quite familiar with her parents, a pat on the chest said I help you, called a phone: “Uncle Li Li Aunt ah, Happy New Year, I just want to warn you, this Spring Festival Tingting can not be dating.”
There is a flinch, waiting for me to say next.
I have experience in dealing with the elderly, you talk about science to talk about personal feelings useless, but also from the feudal superstition to start. But feudal superstition also scores, you tell them too detailed and too professional, they do not understand, it is best to give simple and straightforward, with simple rhyme and image link to convince.
I came up and said: “The old ancestors have instructions, before the 15th can not be dating more can not get married, is not an old saying? Called the first month can not marry, the waxing moon can not be booked. You think about it, during the Spring Festival to get married rarely, right? This is the reason.” Aunt Li was a little confused, Uncle Li reacted faster: “This is to say that the first month does not kind of marriage, right? The sister said that the first month does not kind of matchmaking na?”
I said that in ancient times are matchmakers, the parents of the order to talk about the three books and six rites, the two young people did not fall in love so a link, of course, the concept of dating. But now there is a blind date, you have to pay attention to this taboo. From the numerology, a person’s marriage na, relying on the red luan star, red luan star know not? The main edge of the booking, marriage, celebration, the management of the peach blossom luck. When you go on a blind date, the Red Luan Star will move.
Uncle Li, Aunt Li said this is not good? I said you have to look at what year it is, the year of the ox. As the saying goes: the old ox head red luan moving, the couple parted to send far away. This is the fate of the cowherd and the weaver, even if we talk about it, it is also two places apart. Aunt Li also asked: that the whole year of the ox are not the kind of matchmaking? Or just the first month?” I said the first month, out of the first month on the taboo.” Aunt Li made it difficult: “She went back to Beijing on the eighth day, so we can only wait for the May Day holiday to call her back?” I pretended to drink water, quickly pull out the almanac to look at, added a sentence: “May 1 this year is the lunar calendar March 20, also not. The March lunar calendar is the time when the flowers are in full bloom, butterflies. As the saying goes: red luan meet butterfly, the couple finally separated – this is the fate of Liang Zhu.
The old man and woman hesitated for half a day and said you are so good at calculating, the girl in the end can not find a date? I said yes, but this can not be rushed, what is the red luan star? It is a bird, luan. What is the habit of the bird? It stands on a branch, you go over to touch it, it fluttered and flew away, you do not care about it, it will fall down again a while, and may be closer to you. So the red luan star can not be recruited, can not tease, have to be creepy, as the saying goes, “ignore, red luan from the”. The old ancestors compared the marriage star to the Red Luan bird, there is a profound reason.
A spray, the old couple will be convinced, and no longer open the matter of dating. The sisters are very thankful, I think it is also a merit.
Just now at noon, one of my sister’s sisters called, came up to be aggressive: “What did you say to my sister-in-law you?” I repeat, the other party is angry enough: “My boyfriend and I had about the first three Valentine’s Day to go skiing, my sister-in-law called my mother, said this year, the year of the ox, the first month to talk about friends later cowherd, not like I went! What do you think? “
I said this bar, ha ha. The other side: “You straight road fortune teller why blind more? It’s all the same silver to stab. You remember to help me round back ram. The phone hung up.
What to do in the end ah …… online waiting ……
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