The best state of life is to stand outside the hustle and bustle of the world, to feel the width of the sky, and to be alone in a world of happiness.
It is quiet but not worried, annoying but not annoying, alone but not lonely, leisurely but not idle.
In the process of getting along with yourself, the quiet beauty of time, but also loving the years.
As described by the writer Mu Him Xue: “to give up the complex interpersonal relationships, leaving the treacherous waves of the vast. The inner heart is no longer because of impatience, and anxious to achieve. Also no longer because of climbing, and self-inflicted trouble.”
“Shed complex human relationships and leave the treacherous wide waves. The inner heart is no longer because of impatience, and eager for success. And no longer because of climbing, and ask for trouble.”
Really smart people, early on “quit” all kinds of social.
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The hustle and bustle of too much, is the consumption of their own
“The east wind is released a thousand trees at night, more blowing down, stars like rain. The road is filled with the fragrance of precious horses and carved cars. The sound of the phoenix xiao moving, jade pot light turn, a night of fish and dragon dance.”
Spread out the long volume of years, look around, life is staged every day in a variety of noisy carnival.
No one likes to be alone, the road to the red earth is far, if there is no one to join hands with, how lonely this life!
But who seriously thought that when the hustle and bustle ended, the crowd dispersed, how many people are really happy?
The 96-year-old “pancake grandmother” in Zhengzhou became popular overnight, causing people to flock to her, some to take pictures, some to talk, some to show off, some to watch ……
But behind this lively feast, in addition to a few praise from the spectators, there is only the grandmother’s physical and mental fatigue.
The actual fact is, she had to stop the stall to be able to escape this “rabble” carnival.
“Do not easily become a part of the collective, it is easy to be used by people with ulterior motives, even if you think you are just echoing a little, in fact, you have become an accomplice.”
“Do not easily become a part of the collective, it is easy to be used by those who have ulterior motives, even if you think you are just echoing, in fact you have become an accomplice.”
Instead of hurting others and consuming yourself in the illusion of nothingness, you should keep your heart and quietly feel the beauty of this world.
To experience the simplicity of Liu Yuxi’s “laughing with a great scholar, no white man in the world”.
To appreciate the indifference of Tao Yuanming’s “Picking chrysanthemums under the eastern hedge, seeing the southern mountains at ease”.
To feel the openness of Su Dongpo’s mouth “the boat has passed away, the river and the sea send the rest of life”.
The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers.
Quiet, is also a kind of prosperity.
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Not all people, are worthy of deep friendship
“Life is enough to get a knowledge, the world should be seen with the same mind!”
When Mr. Lu Xun gifted Qu Qiubai’s poem, said how many people’s hearts.
Friends, is the most beautiful encounter in life, such as a breeze on a hot summer day, like a touch of warm sun in the snowy world, soothing and cheerful.
But there is an old saying that the road is far away, the day long to see the heart.
Not every person you meet can walk with you through thick and thin, pay time and sincerity, but also not necessarily in return for the heart and sincerity.
I once read a story like this in “The Records of History”.
There was a Zhai Gong was sent to Kaifeng as a big official, in office, many guests visited, a time outside the gate, people came and went.
But after he was dismissed from office, all his friends who visited him before stopped coming, and only a few sparrows stayed outside the door.
Later, he was reinstated, and when those “friends” saw this, they wanted to visit him again.
At that time, Mr. Zhai was overwhelmed with emotion and wrote down a few lines in big letters.
“A life of death is to know friendship; a rich and a poor, is to know the state of friendship; a noble and a low, friendship is to see.”
Life comes and goes, and it is normal to get together and leave.
One second, it may be in the goblet between you and me; the next second, it may be in the sea of people separated.
So, there is no need to invite too many people into your life.
The real friends, not because of the distance and distant, not because of the fall and slack.
The actual fact is that you will be able to get to know each other, know each other, and be a kind of breezy companion after heart-to-heart.
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The only way to be alone is to be happy
Yang Jiang said: we had been so eager for the waves of fate, but in the end we found that the most beautiful scenery of life is the calmness and relaxation of the heart.
We once looked forward to the approval of the outside world, but in the end we realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others.”
“We had been so eager for the waves of fate, but in the end we realized that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and relaxation inside.
We once looked forward to the recognition of the outside world, but in the end we realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others.”
The world is full of fireworks, we wander in it, it is inevitable that we are not disturbed.
But after the hustle and bustle, learn to achieve their own wonderful.
In the hustle and bustle to carve out a clean slate, to calm, to calm, to grace, resting the mind, spoiled, to add color to their lives.
Quietly, to read a book, to make a cup of tea, to watch a movie, to enjoy a flower.
Just like the musician Li Jian, do not need too much socializing, also gave up a lot of socializing, rent a courtyard, with their own company, the days are quiet but also leisurely.
In “Settling in for the Time of One’s Own” it says.
“A person’s life can be bland, boring and stagnant, or it can be a fulfilling, wonderful and exciting adventure.”
When you leave behind the bustle, away from the hustle and bustle, you will find that it is easier to see poetry and faraway places when you are alone.
I used to like being alone, but now I like being alone.
The only way to be alone is to be a wise person’s floating world.
The human heart is untainted, the heart is quiet and naturally clear.
The poet Bai Lumei once said.
“A person, a book, a cup of tea, a curtain dream. Sometimes, loneliness is such a call to mind, and only at this moment, the world will be so unhurried.”
“A person, a book, a cup of tea, a curtain dream. Sometimes, loneliness is such a heartwarming, and only at this moment, the world will be so unhurried.”
Life in the world, guard a quiet heart, give up a fickle, in order to get rid of the bondage of human feelings, live more freely, more peaceful.
Look at the flowers in front of the garden, enjoy the joy of solitude.
Look at the clouds in the sky, comfortable and quiet at ease.
Such a life is the most abundant.
May you and I have quiet in our hearts, alone and relaxed, in the freshness and elegance, to enjoy the fragrance of life.
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