I was ready to go for the weekend on Friday, and my update for the day was completed, and the discussion in the comments section was lively and cheerful. But just now I saw something on the Internet and couldn’t resist, so I opened my computer to update another article.
The cause of the matter is simple, a Shanxi buddy in the Douban APP to recruit, posted a post, the results were mocked to fly. What post is so exciting?
The reason for the mockery is not complicated, some netizens think that this is a “Puxin man”, body management are this way, they do not have a point X number; some netizens think This post reveals the author’s “mental barrenness”, thinking that he can attract women by his money and intelligence. After the story broke yesterday, because a significant number of netizens were upset about the author and his resume and background, some people were not convinced and went through his history to find out what he said a few years ago when he discussed how to be salty on a bus.
This buddy just posted a very long reply, I was very moved and emotional after reading it, I suggest you also go read it ( end of the article )
In my opinion, this Shanxi buddy is one of the rare normal people on the Internet today, saying something perfectly normal, only to incur a storm of cynicism. If you read his response as carefully as I did, you may feel exactly the same as I did: a normal-minded, clear-headed, self-aware, calm and stable, clear and accurate expression. Moreover, it is also very calm and confident, and always maintains its composure and poise in the face of pressure. I finished reading and thinking about it, I think I definitely can’t do it, if it were me, I’m sure I’d have launched round after round of counterattacks, I don’t know how many people to hang out in public hanging, simply can’t do him such sincere reasoning.
Normal people should be like this, I think the network world of interpersonal relationships is best also. This Shanxi buddy is just a normal person saying some normal words and doing some normal things, especially when you look at the two posts before and after, you won’t feel that his marriage post has any very complicated intention, nor will you feel that he is showing off his income or intelligence, let alone that he thinks girls will fall at his feet because of these two factors, while he himself has no knowledge of his own condition. This is not the case, his post was written in a very sincere manner, arguably too sincere. The reason for this is to find someone to live with, so post a recent photo of yourself, even if the look is not very good. So post your own income and job, although a bit presumptuous but also the truth. He himself has been to the outside world, now return home, settled to be a teacher, spare time to do some training things to improve income, this is his choice, of course, he also want to find a girl to support their choice, this is also common sense. To say that it is he who smashes people with money, then I say that this is to say that they have the ability to earn a living, and they are also very hard.
But it seems like there is very little room for such normal people in the online world now. The facts don’t matter at all, what matters is to analyze the psychology and motivation behind it, to analyze my position and standpoint. Everyone is a critic and can bring a person down anytime and anywhere based on psychological analysis and motivation analysis, and call for manpower to gang up on them if necessary. Why? Because a fat programmer in a plaid shirt looks more facetious and doesn’t feel threatening, right? The income is higher than the average person, but calculate that he can not afford a good group of lawyers to issue a statement? Not a CEO, so don’t worry about him repeatedly suing for damage to goodwill and personal insults?
I’m really very curious how likely it is that anyone writing a statement on the internet these days will successfully pass under the politically correct scrutiny of various people? You say your situation, then you are Versailles; you say you want to recruit, then you are congenital male power; you say you have no money, then you have no money to try to cheat the gun; you say you have money, then you are using money to shame love; your photo is very handsome, that is your PS skills, a tart, potential sea king; your photo is very frustrated, then how do you not give birth to a little X number look in the mirror to see your X-like, so you still want to get married, it is better to extinct for The human gene pool to contribute. What is the best way? I want to ask a question? What is the best, what is the right, what is the fucking satisfaction?
I feel quite disgusted by this kind of online environment that is so easy to blame and on the line. In the last year or two, there are only three things in the online world: big criticism, big reversals, and ready apologies. I think this is a purely negative virtual society, planting flowers and grass is difficult to survive, you have to hold a flashlight in one hand to shoot people, a stick in the other hand to beat people, so gather a group of people across the bladder all day to bully the market to eat open. As a normal person, today wearing a hat to be slapped, tomorrow not wearing a hat also to be slapped, and finally the highest ideal is to become a hooligan online, because hooligans have power. The previous is to repair celebrities, then repair stars, and then repair idols, and now even an ordinary normal people refuse to let go, this is addiction? The network gives the little power that is so used?
I really like this Shanxi buddy, I like his style of writing, and I like his understanding of life and himself behind his words. I think such a person also has the right to pursue a happy life and to express his thoughts without interference. Even if he does not have a brilliant personal history, and is not a technical bull, is a Jinzhong people, he also has the right to recruit, tell their own conditions, put forward their own requirements. Because he is a normal person, he is working for his life. Every sentence he said, literally understood, without the need to quote, without analysis, without the need to summarize the micro-aggressions and sinister intentions.
He is not marketing number material, using the recruitment conditions to play ugly and weird to brush up on traffic, brush up on attention, and draw war to do a group fight. On the contrary, every day to see this kind of thing, so much so that see who is in the recruitment are going to mock criticism of a person, I think should go to the hospital, because I suspect that this is spam repeatedly flushed after causing brain damage, lost to ordinary people, the minimum understanding and respect for normal people.
I hope this Shanxi buddy doesn’t need a third posting to solicit marriage, and I hope he finds happiness soon. From his text, I think such a sound mind and inner peace of mind should not be a big problem. The only thing is that he came to the wrong place and paid the wrong trust. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Tiny Tiny Cultivated Fish｜Response on Inner Volume, Body Anxiety, Gender Awareness, and Recent Hotness
Many of my friends advised me not to write this one. The words in the title are all very hot in recent years, write badly to stir up fire, lightly to be besieged, heavy social death. Friends said: “quietly earn some money, bland life, is not good? “But then there are a lot of goodwill response from netizens, so I feel compelled to say something. I take this opportunity to write about what happened to me when I was young, to discuss with my confused young friends, and at the same time to say a long goodbye to my youth.
In fact, students like me, who can only get good grades, are not popular with girls in school. This I understand. Everyone makes certain distinctions between people around them based on their own preferences, and it doesn’t have to rise to the level of discrimination. I am thankful that I was born in China, because the same problem is probably worse in the US. In China, at best, you would be called a small-town problem maker, but in the US, you might be called a nerd and suffer a lot of school bullying at the same time. I was actually much more fortunate in comparison. In fact, my education or resume is not so far-fetched, in the current era of this inward volume, so many overseas diplomas, so many PhDs, minutes to crush me this earth Shuo. The key is that everyone is trying their best to make the best of every aspect of themselves, including face, body, education, knowledge, etc. In contrast, I am actually behind. In contrast, I have actually fallen behind. Earning 50,000 a month in Shanxi comes at a price. I don’t have enough time to manage myself or to read more books. Strict management of the self may seem easy, but it is actually a luxury. Only few of those at the tip of the pyramid have enough leisure to arrange their future. Nowadays, the growing trend of inward scrolling makes most people, just working and living, exhausted, without some family backing, it is difficult to spare time to do self-improvement. Now the girls and boys, in order to increase some advantage in the marriage market, the face can be whole, the body can be hungry; I second students, in order to find a job, every day desperately study, and after finding a job, or the only desperate. For such a status quo, I look very anxious, but I can do nothing. In this competition, I myself am a mudblood and have to help students, which is very difficult.
Since the posting of the friend request, some people have rehashed the comments they made on Weibo three years ago about “touching women to promote good feelings” to prove that I am a I’m a sexually harassing pig-headed third. The fact that a guy like me, who was unpopular on campus and only found a girlfriend at the age of 27, said he never had any idea about hitting on girls is not something people would believe. Now, looking back, the days when you were young and didn’t know the rules were the most adorable days for a boy. At that time he would be swayed by his feelings and he would do anything to get the girl he loved, which naturally included going to read books like “The Girlizer” and other disrespectful books for women. This is an emperor’s new clothes, I unfortunately played the role of a small child. The orange is orange if it is born in Huainan, but it is hedgehog if it is born in Huainan. Such tricks are defined as acceptable by public opinion if used by a man who has read a lot of people, or even by women against men. But for a desperate unattended boy, just thinking about it, not yet put into practice, is guilty, three years later are going to be criticized. It’s a sad thing that I have to say more about.
In our current gendered society, men are facing unprecedented pressure to choose. The few who are successful are crowding out the space for men of the right age to choose their spouses, leaving most average guys, unable to find ways to attract the opposite sex. It is said that women are the victims of gender issues, but in reality, the victims of gender issues also include the silent majority of boys. Their existence is ignored and their demands are suppressed. We can only see from social media that mothers-in-law demand for financial gifts, or we can see how important it is to raise a sense of “manhood” from a young age: but The first time I posted about this, I was told that there was no value in being a tool for men, other than working hard to earn money.
When I first posted, I was earning 3,000 a month, and I said, “I will have lots and lots of time for you. At that time, I was ridiculed, saying that if you don’t have money, you don’t deserve to find a girlfriend. When I posted for the second time, I earned 50,000 a month, and I was busy every day for the sake of these faggots. As a result, someone said again, you can not be so busy, you have to spend time doing self-management. I’m curious what someone will say in my future when I post for the third time.
At this point, it doesn’t look like there will be a third time.
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