On February 17, 2020, Yao Ce was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer and if left untreated, he might only have three months left to live.
The hospital said that treatment through liver transplantation was expected, and despite Yao Ce’s reluctance, Yao’s mother still intended to cut out her liver to save her son.
In the process of preparing for the liver transplant, she suddenly found out that her son was AB blood type, while she and her husband were A blood type. Unbelieving, Yao’s mother went for another paternity test, which showed that Yao Ce was not their biological child.
Yao Ce was already late in life and did not have time to wait in line for a liver source.
Grief-stricken and shocked, Yao Ce’s father, Yao Shibing, decided to go in search of his biological son.
“My wife wants to donate her own liver, not the biological mother, donated liver rejection reflection will be very strong. Go to find the original intention of the biological son, is to find a pro-body liver source, to see if they are willing to donate. “
Yao’s father’s greatest concern is the fear that his son, who is very sick, will think more.
“I’m afraid Yao Ce blame me. My mother-in-law found out, scolded me. Looking for what to look for? Yao Ce is my own grandson, is your own son, it is impossible to change. “
Yao’s father said: “people are emotional, raised 28 years, he is more important than my life. “
Yao’s father, who has been unsmiling, did not drop a tear, but his eyes were red.
In fact, Yao Ce understands his parents’ feelings, not anxious to see his biological son, but to find a liver source for him.
But his idea of not receiving a liver transplant would not change. “My mother wants to donate to me, I said at the time, it is impossible to agree, hurt the body. Biological mother with liver cancer can not donate, biological father if you want to donate, I do not agree to the same, it is impossible to agree.
The two families met and each had an extra son
After several twists and turns, on April 30, the two families were finally able to meet.
The Yao family met Yao Ce’s biological parents, Guo Xikuan and Du Xinzhi, and also met their own biological son, Guo Wei.
Seeing each other was a reunion. The two unrelated families became a family, a family that could not be separated.
The two families are determined to help each other and live well.
Like Yao Ce, the 57-year-old biological mother Du Xinzhi also suffers from liver cancer.
In March this year, she was diagnosed with mid-stage liver cancer in a hospital in Zhengzhou, Henan Province, and had part of her liver removed, and until now, she has to go to the hospital for regular reviews.
Because of liver cancer, Yao Ce can not eat seafood and chicken, Du Xinzhi often buy him duck meat and yam, taro, etc. to supplement the gas. Shanghai food prices are high, Du Xinzhi and his partner take advantage of evening discounts at the vegetable market to go out and purchase.
Du Xinzhi also brought the soybean milk machine and electric cake pan from his home in Zhumadian to Shanghai. The soybean milk machine can not only make soybean milk, but also squeeze juice, which can be used to supplement Yao Ce’s nutrition in different ways. The electric pancake pan can make burritos and fried buns, so that Yao Ce does not always eat rice.
“Every day is so busy that I forget my own illness. “
In front of her son Guo Wei and daughter-in-law, she always looks relaxed and cheerful, doing laundry and cooking as usual, but at night, she has to rely on sleeping pills to fall asleep. “Every day, all I can think about is how the child is not my own? How come my biological child is sick? What will he do in the future? “
In her later years, Du Xinzhi suddenly fell into a state of uncertainty: she was afraid of losing her biological son, but also afraid of losing the affection of her adopted son, who had been with her for 28 years.
“It seems that overnight everything is gone. “
A medical accident that rewrote their lives
Yao Ce wanted to give up when he was diagnosed with liver cancer, and he knew very well what his disease meant and that there was no possibility of a cure.
If he hadn’t carried the wrong two children, would Yao Ce still be sick today?
Studies have now confirmed that the incidence of liver cancer in children of mothers with hepatitis B is 200 times higher than normal, and that if newborn vaccinations are in place, the blockage rate can reach 87.8% under the prevailing conditions.
Yao Ce’s adoptive mother recalled that when she gave birth at Huaihe Hospital, the hospital did not inform her newborn that hepatitis B vaccination was required; about two years later, Yao Ce was diagnosed with hepatitis B.
During the course of treatment, the hepatitis B vaccine was not administered within 24 hours of birth, which eventually turned into cancerous cells.
Yao Ce’s birth mother, who was herself a hepatitis B carrier, paid special attention to the matter of giving her child shots. It was not until Guo Wei was about six or seven years old when he produced antibodies that he let go of this piece of heartache and felt very grateful.
The two families simultaneously told the media that they do not want to be ordained by fate anymore, and want to arrange their own destiny next – exhaustive to give Yao Ce treatment, and spare no effort to pursue the hospital: how wrong?
Who will be responsible for the 28 years of wrongly changed life?
In the opinion of Yao Ce’s biological parents, the fact that Yao Ce grew up with hepatitis B and developed liver cancer is related to the fact that he was held wrongly at birth and failed to receive the hepatitis B vaccine within 24 hours of birth, for which Huaihe Hospital should be responsible.
In July this year, Yao Ce and his biological parents, Guo Xikuan and Du Xinzhi, took Huaihe Hospital to court, asking the hospital to bear all of Yao Ce’s medical expenses, lost wages, and nutrition expenses due to liver cancer, totaling more than 916,000 yuan, and to compensate the three for moral damages, family tracing expenses, and Guo Xikuan’s lost wages, totaling more than 1.8 million yuan.
From the pre-trial conference, Yao Ce v. Huaihe Hospital, the plaintiff and defendant disputed two issues: one is whether the hospital’s diagnosis and treatment plan was at fault when Yao Ce was born in Huaihe Hospital 28 years ago; the second is whether there is an inevitable causal relationship between Yao Ce suffering from hepatitis B and eventually developing liver cancer, and the wrong child. But Huaihe Hospital has not yet given a satisfactory answer to the two questions.
Yao Ce hopes to see a result in his lifetime. He confessed, “A late verdict is meaningless to me. “
If you can cross the adversity, you will be invincible
Yao Ce is currently actively fighting the disease and is still undergoing radiotherapy in Shanghai in mid-August.
At that time, doctors found that Yao Ce’s portal vein cancer clots were under control, but The cancer cells in his liver had spread to his lungs and bones. In addition, doctors found that some lesions in Yao Ce’s body were very active and scheduled an interventional surgery on September 9 for this purpose.
Yao Ce’s wife said, “Interventional surgery is to hit the medicine into the blood vessels, “to block the blood vessels with cancer cells and starve or kill the cancer cells. “
After the surgery, Yao Ce slept drowsily for a day, sweating from the pain.
Yao Ce hopes that he can survive until the day the new technology can operate, to live in order to give back so much love and do more. He said, “If I can overcome adversity, I will be invincible”.
After such a life of twists and turns, Yao Ce wants to inspire everyone through what he has done.
I hope everyone can actively cherish their time in life every day they are alive. Difficulties are not terrible, as long as you overcome it, you will certainly get better and better and stronger. “
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