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Some time ago, Zhang Ting’s daughter, who has been called “the ugliest star of the second generation”, shot a video to counter netizens.
“You have to stop commenting on my looks,” she tells the camera. “I’m not a face eater.”
Zhang Ting side eats biscuit side approvingly look at her: “that you depend on what?”
Zhang Ting’s daughter answers tactfully: “Rely on the mouth Bai, still use to ask?”
In the comments section, many netizens were impressed by the girl’s confident expression, praising her:
“Like the little girl, international. Beautiful temperament.”
“Confident people are always the best.”
In fact, Since the age of 4, Zhang’s daughter has been attacked by the keyboard man: “The mother is so beautiful, but the daughter is so tragic.”
Many people do not appreciate her single-eyelid small eyes, slightly dark skin, selectively ignore her long limbs and good figure.
Zhang ting, however, stood up for his daughter every time: “I have done nine test tubes, and finally gave birth to my daughter, but you laugh at her ugly.”
Zhang Ting’s daughter did not feel inferior or sad. Instead, she was more optimistic, fearless in the face of the camera, and showed her charm with confidence.
She worked hard to develop her talents, studying art, rock climbing, dancing in competitions and mingling freely with others.
Only after seeing her did I understand that, in the face of group mockery and malicious slander, if so much as to be beaten down, is the greatest betrayal of their own.
Beauty is never the same, as long as the heart is strong enough, confident girls can be beautiful amazing.
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What can we learn from this?
By changing the Angle of view, we can gain more confidence.
Everyone has a long board and a short board. Some weaknesses, such as the level of innate appearance, may not have much room for change.
But still can improve their own cultivation and temperament, training out of others incomparable advantages.
The most advanced plastic surgery, is the whole heart. A stomach has the poem book gas from the Chinese people, will naturally win the respect and love of others.
We can try our best to give full play to our subjective initiative after analyzing our long and short boards objectively.
For example, stay away from negative energy cycles and give yourself positive mental cues.
When faced with difficulties, encourage yourself by saying “I will learn and I have the ability to improve”;
Walking 25 percent faster than usual can also affect your body and mind, making you more positive.
For example, break down goals to increase the experience of success.
If a goal is SMART, it will be more feasible and more likely to succeed, thus increasing our confidence.
By making a little progress each day, we gain a clearer sense of who we are and a greater sense of ability, influence, and objective confidence.
Like riding a bicycle, keep a dynamic balance.
It is difficult for a bicycle to stay straight all the time. Instead, it will lean left or right, which requires us to make dynamic adjustments.
Confidence, inferiority, conceit, arrogance, self-respect, self-deprecation… When it comes to self-assessment, like riding a bicycle, it fluctuates around a certain baseline.
Good self-confidence expansion, do bad inferiority expansion. If the fluctuations are too great, they can have significant side effects.
In terms of riding a bike, it’s riding a fall; In terms of self-evaluation, it means overconfidence, conceit or excessive self-abasement.
It’s all about moderation. This is also the hardest part of growing up.
May we all learn to accept and appreciate ourselves properly, without putting ourselves down or trying to be superior to others.
Even if you don’t have a good hand, you can live a different life with the right confidence.
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