remarried

He and I are both married for the second time. He has a boy and I have a daughter.

After we got married, he said we should have a child of our own for the stability of our new family. I thought he was right and agreed.

But when I was four months pregnant, his job was transferred to other places and he could only come back once a month. His parents-in-law were always indifferent to me. Even if he was not at home, they would not extend a hand to help me.

Under it, became a man with three children, my youngest son nine months old now, I do the electricity side, side with children, make a phone call to him yesterday complained that his parents don’t help me, I am tired of waist are not straight, the blunt I made a fire, he said I’m not independent, and effeminacy and melodramatic, parents should not so big age I retired life? … In the face of his accusations, I did not know what to say.

My ex-husband also made a phone call hoping to remarry, but he couldn’t take the son born later. To be honest, I really want to escape from the present marriage life, but how can I leave my nine-month child to grow up alone with my indifferent grandparents?

Now I really regret to remarry, and even more regret to remarry and have a baby. All the promises and warmth of my husband before marriage have disappeared gradually along with the triviality of life. Now I am left alone on the road of widowhood parenting, walking with my head down, I can’t see the light of life and I am always on the verge of collapse.

So, want to advise the woman of divorce, divorced do not be in a hurry to remarry, remarry also do not give birth to a baby for the stability of new family, if encounter person not shu word, you can discover, the person that the child drags down is you from beginning to end, rather than the man that you want to rely on all one’s life!