It was confirmed that I was looking for a young lady, and I actually felt comfortable

Couldn’t help but find him on WeChat query he is looking for a young lady outside the matter, unexpectedly unexpectedly would really like to admit. Thought it would be a dead duck!

It proved to be the truth, and I felt no worse.

This shit doesn’t make me feel so bad. It’s not worth taking other people’s mistakes and punishing yourself.

And I actually think, love to marriage ten years, he has no money, seems to have a reasonable explanation. It’s not a mystery.

But I still don’t admit that I cheated when I was just getting married.

Talk to him
He kept pressing me who told me, but I ignored him.

He’s got himself cornered right now. Then he couldn’t help himself and asked me if I was the one. The man had recently been asking for money at his house, and had given him a bad name by telling everyone they knew.

Listen to him to say to open a shop, with the other side play good, the other side must cast 20,000 to him when become a shareholder, he does not agree, the other side still insist. Finally, the other side can not accept the door to make a row, all say he is not.

I don’t care what the reason is. His words have no credibility either. What I care about is whether the child is frightened. Sister Chen didn’t even say this to me in the video during the day. This kid is too mature!

I asked his sister about the situation, saying that the other party came to the house yesterday and made a disturbance. Finally, I called the police. The police criticized and educated the other party and asked him to apologize to the old man.

They see it as an investment failure, not a private financial dispute. I have no confirmation of the specific situation.

All I know is, I talked to a couple of old colleagues and friends in common today, and basically they all borrowed money. Those who have borrowed and paid back, some still owe. There are more than four thousand dollars still to be repaid.

Chats with his former boss
Ask his previous employer, who opened the store 18 years ago, to find out about his previous work. The boss works in the same company as me. Go out and do it myself, so I have his WeChat. He said that he could enter this company because of my good reputation in the company and people’s trust in me, so he chose to work there.

The boss said he had borrowed all the money from everyone in the company. Hundreds and thousands.

There is no feeling for his foreign debt now. This is his life. It’s none of my business. When I heard about his new debt, I was so anxious that he couldn’t pay off the same debt that I could never start planning my family. This marriage is dead to me now. The foreign debt will not affect my mood. One day he was forced to death by the debt problem, I do not go to love him, is to commit a sin can not live.

Today with him in the chat he expressed or pass the buck, not to introspection.

The people who told me about his prostitution were trying to destroy him. My divorce from him ruined him. If you say you pay off your debts, you will pay back ten years of your life. Death will haunt me.

I wanted to talk to him about child care, but he brushed it off, saying it wasn’t a consideration and that when he was gone, the baby would be mine.

Meet such rascals, will only waste their time and words.

I’m very relaxed now. He is not troubled by his debts. Not sad about his cheating problem.

I didn’t let him down. I did my duty to myself and to my marriage and my children. He ruined his marriage and his life and tried to blame it on me. Why should I care about the distorted thoughts of such an unsound mind?

Marriage, I just picked the wrong one, I can start over.

At a great cost. At least I am in the age of 30 ➕ or wake up.

Don’t get involved with bad people and bad things. Don’t trouble yourself about other people’s mistakes.

Willing to leave the scum, live their own wonderful.

No matter how hard it is, at least there is hope.