Someone once said, “There is only one infidelity and a million infidelities. This quote defines infidelity as an act that has a stigma that once attached to it cannot be removed.
For some people, cheating means trying something, but the feeling lingers, and there’s no guarantee that after trying this person, you’ll be able to stop trying the next person. Thus, in this type of person, cheating is cheating, and when they cry and beg for forgiveness, there is no difference between once and a thousand times.
There is another kind of cheating that emphasizes the hurt, but of course, on top of that hurt, there is no difference between cheating once and cheating countless times, because ultimately it will cause harm to the other half.
Once you cheat, there are always two ways to end the relationship behind the cheating, one being a firm break with the family and the other being a break with the person you are cheating on. The first will naturally bring harm to the other half, while the second depends on whether the cheating partner wants it or not, and whether it will hurt her as well.
The movie I’m going to show you today says something about the damage infidelity can cause. The film is called “Fatal Attraction” and the message is simple: infidelity is a temptation or comes from a temptation. And what are the consequences of this temptation?
It can be fatal, and this kind of fatal may not be a simple accumulation of injuries, but simply fatal, if you will. So, everyone who has ever had thoughts of infidelity in their family should probably watch this film, not to gain anything substantial, but to understand the consequences of a kind of infidelity that is truly horrible.
Fatal Attraction is about a middle-aged lawyer, a happy family, a comfortable job, but one weekend, but accidentally met an amorous woman, and have sex with her, after the lawyer has not yet fully enjoy the family red flag, outside the flag of the fun, found himself in a way.
It turned out that the woman he was cheating on her with was a paranoid, overly extreme and controlling woman. At first, the lawyer didn’t care, but as his family continued to be harassed, the lawyer was forced to pay attention to her. As a result, a battle to protect the family begins. This film gives its own answer to the question of who is going to win.
If you’re simply blaming someone for the infidelity, you have a problem. Since infidelity is a problem for both sides, there is no simple right or wrong for one side or the other. Therefore, if you can look at the issue from both sides together, then you will definitely find the saying “the fly doesn’t bite the egg” to be true.
As a paranoid woman, a prolonged period of unfulfilled emotions and untreated psychological conditions is the root cause of this tragedy. After a person has been depressed for a long time, it is easy to mistakenly see a straw as a necessity in life. This kind of forced comfort from someone who doesn’t belong to you or doesn’t know you isn’t advisable.
Paranoia is about setting inner limits, while control is due to a lack of caring. In the long run, the intertwining of these two personalities can easily lead to problems, problems that are no different from those of ordinary people until they are exposed.
However, is the cause of the problem just this woman’s paranoia? Obviously not, and that’s a good point, but if you’re okay with it, just say no to it.
The essence of what ultimately led to such a catastrophe for one’s family is that the lawyer in this film has no control over himself. Human nature is insatiable, unlike animals. Animals feel satisfied when they are full, or when they have had a sexual encounter. Yet human beings have an endless desire for both of these things.
People’s pursuit of material wealth, the pursuit of oral desire, the pursuit of physical pleasure, and other external stimuli will always present an upward state. The lawyer in the film has a perfect family, a beautiful wife, cute children, a very happy family life, and a respected person at work.
However, such a person is already a model of a successful person in the eyes of many people. However, when faced with the temptation to cheat on her husband, she ultimately fails to control herself. What kind of reason is this?
Naturally, this is the most direct manifestation of an insatiable state of constant assault on one’s values. When desires overwhelm the mind, there is no sanity in man. Everyone who wants to pursue some kind of pleasure ends up being tied to what he wants.
And this connection has already been set up at the beginning; all that is left is for you to walk into it step by step. Of course, everyone feels exceptional and in control when they don’t walk in, however, when you do walk in, you realize how little self-control you have. How low your own personal vigilance is.
So, for anyone, infidelity is very destructive to the family and to the object of the infidelity, and the best way not to get yourself into a situation where you can’t get out of it is to eliminate it completely and stay away. Because “if one person cheats, the whole family suffers”.
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