Once upon a time I registered with Jiayuan and met a very sunny looking man.
Through chatting, I learned that there was a very loving marriage, but his wife was infertile, and although he was fine with it, she still insisted on divorcing him and marrying someone else.
It was a very sad and beautiful love story, and I was immediately attracted to it.
And then the guys were also very chatty, funny and interesting, like a roundworm in your stomach.
I asked him what he was doing, and he said he was watching the lottery.
He said he was watching the lottery. I said, “I don’t believe in pie in the sky,” he said.
He said he knew a few things, so he was always making money.
I didn’t take it personally, as I was the kind of person who was worried about losing money even if I bought a two-dollar lottery ticket, and had no interest in gambling at all.
Later in the conversation, he mentioned the lottery a few times, either intentionally or unintentionally.
I didn’t take it to heart.
One day we chatted, talking about my daughter, he said: I’ll take you to earn some money, I’ll buy a nice dress for my daughter tomorrow, count it as a gift from me.
I thought to myself, “You want to give her clothes before we even meet? Why are you so polite?
But then I thought: no! What he said was: I made you money.
I immediately asked him, “How do you make me money?
He said, “I’ll buy you a lottery ticket!
I said, “What’s all the fuss about buying a dress? If you want to buy it, can’t you just buy it?
He said, “Isn’t it the same thing if I teach you how to make money?
I said, “Oh, I’m not poor, I don’t expect pie in the sky.
He said, “If you don’t need money, then buy it!
I said, “That’s strange, why do you keep asking me to buy lottery tickets, is there something fishy about it?
He said, “What could be the fuss? I just want to bring you money.
I said: but I don’t need to.
Then he got angry and started ranting and raving, saying I didn’t trust him.
I wondered why the reaction was so strong, we had never even met.
Then I realized: It’s not a scam, is it?
So I said to him, “You’re a little too eager. This step should happen after we’ve met at least four or five times, after I’ve gained a certain amount of trust in you, and after you ask me to buy this, and I probably won’t really buy it.
He said, “What four or five times? You don’t trust me so much and we didn’t even have a first time! How could there be four or five times!
I just laughed and didn’t say anything.
Later, I saw his circle of friends update a note: Those who know me say I am worried, but those who don’t know me say what I want.
I laughed, and then deleted him.
At the time I didn’t know about the pig killing plate, I just felt something was wrong.
Later, a girl I knew was scammed for 1.1 million on SEGRO.
She told me about the process, and probably the pattern was almost identical to the one I knew.
These are people who come across as sunny, love to work out, travel, have successful careers, and are in unhappy marriages.
They don’t really meet you because the picture is not of them at all.
They don’t cheat on women, they just want to get money.
They have caught the spirit of many divorced or single women who want to be in a good relationship, and they have built a beautiful mirage for them.
They know that these women need care and love inside, and they have a special set of words that will make you think: How does he know me so well! And he’s so handsome! And single again!
The divorced women in today’s society are not very tolerant of divorced women, and many divorced women in the 18th tier cities, once divorced, no matter how privileged you are, immediately become “worthless”, even if you have a decent job, the average person you are introduced to is not worthy of you, because they feel that divorce is worthless.
That’s why some women will go to the virtual network to find the “right” person.
And once you fall into this gentle trap, it may be hard to get out of it, right?
Usually, after they’ve talked to you for a while and gained your trust, they’ll tell you that they have a money-making project and that they know someone who has an inside track.
At first, in order to gain your trust, he’ll transfer money to you, ask you to buy him a lottery ticket or something like that, and then he’ll make some money (more proof that he’s “insider”). Then he’ll ask you if you want to play, and he’ll help you make money.
You might start with 10,000 spins and make money.
You don’t doubt him, you spin 50,000, and you make money again.
At this point you start to get bold, you turn another hundred thousand, and you make money again.
The numbers get bigger and bigger (it all depends on how much you can scrape together), and usually after you’ve spent all your savings you realize you’re stuck and he’ll let you keep putting money back into it.
At this point, many people will go around borrowing and lending online until they can’t squeeze any more money out of you, and then the person will disappear and continue to scam people under a different identity.
Don’t ask me how I know, because the girl I know who was cheated of 1.1 million was cheated this way.
It’s useless to call the police, as the dens of those sites are all in Southeast Asia.
So there are a lot of people from Guangdong, Fujian, Hong Kong and Singapore on SEGiJiaYuan.
I think it should all be from this nest.
I have uninstalled this app since I learned about the “Pig Slaughter”.
Today, I saw that the scammers have started to scam again on soul.
It’s really frightening to see the scammed girls in the comments.
I wish more people would know about this scam.
Also, I’ve always believed that a normal man would never ask a woman for money, even if it’s just for circulation.
This is the decision of the patriarchal society, where normal men, educated in a patriarchal society, are too poor to borrow or mention money to the women they are in love with, because they love to save face.
So if a man borrows money from you, unless you are already married, remember one thing: Stay away from this man!
Except, of course, for real-life friends.
As well, don’t ever gamble.
And don’t believe that pie will fall from the sky.
If you don’t have any greed, chances are you won’t be cheated.
I like hard-earned money, every penny is solid, and no one can take it away.
Trivia: Don’t be a debtor!
Douban has a “debtor alliance” group, I dive in it, every now and then to see, observe a period of time, see how these users are on the “debtor” this road, not to mention sob.
The typical path is: because of online gambling, buy lottery tickets, increase leverage stocks, do business or the name of entrepreneurship produce loans, the more you borrow more and more, trying to turn things around through gambling, the more you lose, the more you lose more loans, and finally can cheat a circle of fraud. The family members and relatives and friends are all scourged to death.
It’s also a good idea to have a good deal of money in your pocket.
In women’s words, the typical path is: lack of delayed gratification. The most important thing you can do is to get a good idea of what you’re looking for and what you’re looking for.
Overall, the percentage of men is much higher than that of women. Gambling was less of a variable for the female debtors in this group. But I have learned that in real life, female gamblers are not uncommon. In the Hangzhou nanny arson case, the arsonist was in debt because of online gambling.
In the observed cases, single women seem to have a higher probability of encountering a “piggy bank” than men. Of course I don’t have statistical data, just my personal opinion. A few days ago, there was a case in Hangzhou in which a 36-year-old female employee of a major Internet company was cheated out of more than 10 million yuan when she encountered a “pig slaughter plate”.
Nowadays, the typical route to a “pig slaughter plate” is through some marriage and relationship dating software, to get prey. It’s not just a matter of time, it’s also a matter of time.
Remember one thing: don’t take out online loans. Don’t go overspending. Some people are more or less embarrassed to borrow money from someone they know. The most important thing to remember is that there is no such thing as a psychological burden, but rather the intensity of the frequency of borrowing for many people. It’s a good idea to spend money for a while, and then pay back the money with a delay, but also have a “cold number bird” psychology.
I have previously written about how the average person can go against the grain, mentioning several traps worth noting: don’t gamble, don’t be cheated, don’t borrow from loan sharks, learn to avoid these traps.
Some readers may confuse the debt mentioned in this article with the loan to buy a house, and without thinking, they will argue, “How many people who have bought a house have no debt? “Buying a home loan is owning a fixed asset, an investment act not a speculative act, not a gamble, and not a mere consumer act.
In general, losses are actually losses, and there is always something to be gained from investing. And this kind of endless debt can put people into the abyss of life, the more young people should be wary.
For students in school, be careful not to get caught up in the bill-paying scam. Remember, someone looking for you to make a single payment is just as bad as someone soliciting you to gamble, and they are not serious people. Stay away from them.
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