My son, I hope first of all that you will be an idealist from the beginning to the end.
You can be a farmer, you can be an engineer, you can be an actor, you can be a bum.
But you must be an idealist.
When you were a child, we told you stories of heroes.
not that you must be a hero, but that you must have a pure character.
When you were young, we exposed you to poetry, painting, music.
We want to fill your heart with noble interests.
These noble interests will sustain you throughout your life.
These noble interests will sustain you throughout your life, so that you will not forget the fragrance of roses even in the harshest winter.
Do not worry about your appearance, my child.
The ideal purifies your temperament.
And the most beautiful woman can be disgusted by vulgarity.
The path to the ideal is often unsatisfactory.
And you will suffer for it.
But go for it, my son.
The end of the idealist is sad but not pathetic.
In that seemingly bumpy life.
You will meet many wise men and gentlemen.
You will encounter many scenery and miracles that no one else can encounter.
The choice of mediocrity is secure, but never colorful.
Don’t give up your ideals for the sake of petty profits.
Don’t give up your beliefs for a certain trend.
The appearance of the material world is too complicated.
You have to know how to reject the temptation of vanity.
Ideals are not affordable things.
It often does not bring you earthly enjoyment.
So you must get used to the fact that no one appreciates you.
Learn to enjoy yourself spiritually and learn to be different from others.
Secondly, my son, I want you to be a down-to-earth person.
Life is too short, and there are too many false things.
You can easily become dazzled and end up with nothing.
If you are a beautiful girl.
When you are young, you will have many men to spoil you.
You get things too easily, which will make you shallow and vain.
If you are an extremely intelligent boy.
If you are a very smart boy, you will think you can achieve a lot of great things and become frivolous.
Remember, we are all limited in our abilities.
It is enough for us to do one thing well in life.
Write a good book, be a good housewife.
Do not despise the ordinary, do not speculate, do not attack what you cannot do.
Don’t attack what you can’t do.
When you grow up you will know that it is too hard to do something well, but you must never give up.
You have to know and cherish emotions.
Regardless of men and women, regardless of the city outside the city.
It is not easy to make friends with each other.
The process of friendship will have misunderstandings and friction.
But think about it, how many people in the world can have a chance to travel with each other?
You have to understand that friends will eventually leave.
In life, you can have someone with you.
You should be grateful if you can have someone with you in your life to listen to you and talk to you.
Love yourself and love others, understand yourself and understand others.
Your heart should be as soft as a stream, and your eyes should be as charming as spring.
You have to be able to shed tears, to listen to sad music alone in the dark.
You have to know how to appreciate tragedy, which can enrich your heart.
I hope you don’t flatter the vulgar.
You are an independent person.
No one can erase your independence, unless you compromise with the world.
Learn to appreciate the truth, learn to see the truth under the heavy mask.
There are many smooth and standard people in the world, but very few people are outstanding.
And often the excellence is hidden beneath the humble and the wild.
In form, we cannot fight with the established world.
But inside, we are all kings of our own.
If a smile of flattery appears on your face, I will hide my face and go away in shame.
Many things of the world are dazzling but worthless.
Do not put yourself on the scales of the masses, for you will be at a loss as to what to do.
In the concrete matter of being a human being
I hope you will not interrupt people’s conversations or be petulant.
Don’t think about what others can do for you, but how you can help them.
Return what you borrowed from others, and do not accept favors from others.
Remember that someone else’s things are still someone else’s, even if they are good.
Remember, even if someone else’s things are good, they are someone else’s, and even if your own things are bad, they are your own.
Take at least two hours a day to read.
One more thing.
It’s hard to do, but it’s very important, and that is to have the courage to face up to your own shortcomings.
You will grow up year by year, you will gradually meet people who are better than you, better than you, and you will find many things in yourself.
You will find yourself with many flaws that you hate, which will make you frustrated and inferior.
You must face up to it, do not avoid it, to be corrected little by little.
Overcoming yourself is more difficult and meaningful than obeying others.
Regardless of the changing world trends, the
The best qualities of human beings are eternal: integrity, courage, independence, and love.
I hope you are a good person!