Introduction: Nowadays, many elderly people will implement a way of retirement, that is, group retirement, because group retirement without the trouble of children, they also live a comfortable and trouble-free, how you want to live, how to live every day happy, but also to be able to spend their twilight years.
But is this way of group retirement really reliable? Five elderly people group pension only two months broke up, 67-year-old aunt said: “The reality is too cruel.”
Auntie Luo/67 years old.
I have 4 good girlfriends, we grew up playing together, and we are all from the next village, and now we are also becoming elderly, and when we get old, none of us want to rely on our children to retire, because we know that relying on our children to retire is simply not reliable.
Then we discussed together, 5 people together to embrace the elderly.
My four sisters are, Sister Mai, Sister Lin, Sister Zeng, Sister Long.
Sister Mai’s family is particularly rich, and the house is particularly large, mainly because she also has a large house in the countryside, when we intend to go to her home group pension, because she is in the countryside, and the house is large, just enough for the five of us to live.
Each of the five of us has a pension, and coincidentally we all have the same amount of pension, all 5,000 yuan a month.
Sister Long is the oldest one, her family used to be particularly rich, but all by her son lost, her monthly pension to subsidize her son, so she also has little money, life is particularly poor, and then we are also particularly heartbroken her, see her so difficult, she does not have to pay living expenses.
When we first started to live together, the five of us got along particularly well, and we were never calculating, we shared everything together, we all took turns to do the laundry and cooking, and we were particularly active every time, never saying we were lazy or didn’t want to do it.
At that time I felt that we were particularly happy, and I hope that this kind of group retirement days to maintain old age.
When we were bored, we would dance together, and we would go on trips together, and many people envied us this life and our relationship.
But only after 10 days together, it began to go wrong, originally they are not calculating, but I do not know how, began to become particularly calculating.
They all think that Sister Long has no money, should let Sister Long take on more housework, so fair, and then Sister Mai think we live in her house, she paid a lot, become particularly lazy, not willing to pay anything, always dislike us to her house dirty, often ask us to mop the floor a few times a day, when we first do she especially welcome us, but after a long time she is particularly disgusted with us, often She often had a face.
Sister Zeng and Sister Lin both speak particularly loudly, and often quarrel, but also particularly love to calculate, originally the two of them have not been very compatible personality, so live together more and more conflicts.
I am a kind and hardworking woman, my own things I will complete every day, I do things after I like to read a book, either to study the food, but they always quarrel, time, I am also particularly annoyed.
Slowly, the relationship between us became more and more faint, and more and more calculating, and finally after two months of living together, or broke up, because no one wants to pay, do not want to lose.
And Sister Zeng became particularly scheming, always calculating each of us, and then the other people are not convinced, they will try to deal with each other, and they live together like a court battle, every day fighting back and forth, so I feel particularly annoyed, I would like to spend my old age with them happily, but they simply can not do.
In the past, when we didn’t live together, we often went shopping together and had a good relationship, but after we lived together, we realized that everyone’s personalities didn’t match, and there were various conflicts.
Perhaps, the group retirement way is not reliable at all, no matter how well you play, as long as you get along for a long time will occur conflicts, because everyone’s ideas and personality are different, simply can not do each other satisfied, but also can not meet each other.
Eventually we all went our separate ways and thought we could maintain it until we were old, but I never thought that reality was so cruel.
We have conflicts because everyone pays different living expenses, some people feel they pay too much, they don’t want to pay living expenses, 5 people have different tastes, they don’t know how to cook every day, they simply can’t do the meal to each other’s taste, because it’s too difficult to do.
And ideas are different, sometimes 5 people proposed ideas, do not agree, and then argued, because of various things, so that the 5 of us originally very good relationship, because of a group pension completely become enemies.
So I no longer believe that group retirement is reliable, I think relying on oneself is the most real, relying on others is not reliable at all, this way will also let oneself suffer, or get hurt.
This way of group retirement, although it looks very good, in fact, after getting together is not good at all, after all, everyone’s way of life is different, if you can not agree, then certainly can not get along, certainly because of a little thing quarrel.
If you want the group pension has been lasting, then you must let go of the mind, do not be calculating, so as to be able to last, if anything to calculate, then it is better to live alone, save yourself unhappy.
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