Today, from the Internet, I saw the self-report of a netizen, she said she was unfortunate to be raped by an acquaintance, but more unfortunate is her police, forensics after: no privacy, no care, being ridiculed, discriminated against, “from the door to the police is a large social death scene “.
After 30 hours of agony, she was near despair and asked herself, “Should I have called the police after being raped? “
Her answer is: if there is no danger to life, there is no infallible certainty of filing a case, or think you can bear to pass and forget it, just pretend it’s not happening, really don’t.
This is a sad answer, especially in the general environment of the rule of law, in the current political and legal team education and rectification of the general background.
The victim called the police but suffered secondary injuries, the degree of suffering of the parties even more than being raped (self-reported in the text), which is the victim’s misfortune, is the shame of the law, is the sadness of the public security organs.
If what the author says is true, the authorities and the personnel handling the case mentioned in the article have clearly violated the law and must explain and take responsibility for their actions.
I hope that the relevant departments will investigate and verify the matter, bring the criminals to justice and hold the responsible police officers accountable according to the law, so as to give justice to the victims and give an explanation to the majority of netizens.
According to the article, the location of the incident is suspected to be Guangdong.
The (No Curse on Anyone) Should I Call the Police After Being Raped
Author: Y2KHolic
Published: 2021-05-08 01:07:53
Source: Douban
There was a hot post in the group discussing whether to call the police after being raped, and many brave sisters said of course.
(I also thought so before. Of course I hope that every sister who reads the post never encounters this kind of thing. You have to protect yourself from the beginning! No matter how trusting people, men, do not trust, acquaintances relatives do not want, never with men casually in the same room, my heart is too big.)
There are also a lot of people say, really do not, will be secondary damage! And may be spread privacy or forever left black history.
Here I would like to say that only my personal answer is that if there is no danger to life (disability, disease and other serious consequences), there is no foolproof case to be sure, or feel that you can endure the past and forget about it, just pretend that there is no such thing, really do not.
Unfortunately, I was raped around ten days ago by an acquaintance of the same age, the other party one hundred and fifty-six pounds, tall, before and I have a good relationship often come to my home to play games together, have not done anything to disrespect me, I did not expect this to happen. The other party fled the scene, I went out of my way to call the police.
The 110 operator side attitude are quite good.
From the police door is a large social death scene, several middle-aged male police opened the door of the room than downstairs supermarket promotion decibel higher voice yelling questions, and obviously with hostility, such as saying “pretty girl, you reported rape? “, the expression as if I was a chicken (I a highly educated corporate middle management post women). I said “it’s me, that, please can you lower your voice a little”, the other party will deliberately increase the volume “Rape is rape ah! You do not say clearly how I know it is you this thing! “And then had to stand in the hallway, with the maximum volume like a live stream to ask me about the case. Because I am renting an apartment, there have even been curious low-quality neighbors or business owners come over to watch, in fact, even if there is no such out-of-the-ordinary to the onlookers, to our sound insulation here, my thing is just spread throughout the floor. (In fact, at that time there was a vague hint of regret to the police)
Then I was taken to the police station, the original statement is not what I thought would go to a small room. Instead, in the largest lobby, right in the middle, being all the other coming and going of other police officers clerical staff to stare and listen and watch, and then was loudly said to my name, ID number and other personal information, from the first police officer to the third (are relatively young between 20-30 years old male) are reprimanded me mocked me, said directly “Then why did you take this man back to your room? ” “You such you have a problem with yourself ah” “You do not talk nonsense, ask you what to answer what, say the key, ask your words it quickly answer” such phrases. There is a detail in the middle, an auxiliary police have been asking, what evidence do you have to prove that the other side rape ah, I said three times I said I have WeChat conversation records in my phone the other side admitted the fact, the auxiliary police suddenly white I said loudly “what the hell! You speak clearly! “I was indignant, directly from the chair to stand up (I am relatively short) to open the phone screen pushed to his eyes and said, you see it yourself is this. As a result, the other party’s voice suddenly increased three times, yelling, you stand what stand! Did not ask you to stand, you dare to stare at me? (In fact, I did not stare, as I dare to stare at the people’s police? I was speechless with tears looking at each other).
This time I did have a trace of retreat, when only recorded my alarm and phone number, not yet to the formal process, I wanted to leave (now think back, please do not zzzzq scold me, I really 100% regret that I did not give up the alarm). It was because a middle-aged male police officer with round eyes came up to me, the tone was better to enlighten me a few words, in fact, not how good, is to appear to have empathy, normal. Told me to trust the police, to protect myself and not to hesitate or worry about fear. I then continued.
Then it was directly in the middle of this hall began to make a statement, the voice was huge, the auxiliary police officer who made the statement had a strange and poor attitude, “What position to insert” “How to spread your legs” and other issues I took it as I thought too much is their normal work procedures, the results of the follow-up he asked “Did you have an orgasm? I froze and asked directly “What? “The other side white glance at me, and asked twice, I did not answer, speechless, he did not speak himself skipped. (Later I looked at the transcript, many of his questions were very revealing and frivolous unlike the normal questioning, are not in the transcript).
I used to watch movies and documentaries and thought that the statement was made in a small, safe and secluded room where there would be water and food to eat. To tell you the truth: in the hall! In front of everyone! Live at maximum volume! There is no drop of water to drink and even more impossible to have food to eat, do not finish not let go, continuous statement for 6 hours, the police / auxiliary police received me probably changed three or four waves, hard words also listened to a brain. I was so tired that I was about to faint, and I felt better than this rape (please understand that I am not making light of the felony of rape! I mean I didn’t get sick, I didn’t get torn and hurt, I was abused! More of a mental trauma) suffered from the physical and mental damage is about to be greater.
The whole process, only the hall is responsible for the final identification or the thick-eyed middle-aged male police officers (the same in front) and a few on the scene to test the evidence of a group of young police officers, both male and female (they should not be counted as police station people? Because they call other is “the police station side”, forgive me for not knowing much about the police side of the structure) attitude like an empathetic respect for people of ordinary normal people.
The next really big move!
I was assigned to a young (looked smaller than me) black thin male police officer responsible for walking the rest of the process.
The first process was completed by six or seven o’clock in the afternoon, I was finally allowed to take time to eat and drink some water for the first time, and came back to wait for the injury examination.
Then I took his car to go to the forensic medical examination and to investigate the scene surveillance. On the road he was in a good mood, the windows open to the lowest, playing music loudly, happier than the tour, has been talking very gossipy ask me, with a tone of listening to the story repeatedly prying, I was really tired, did not speak, and then he said several times the wrong information, what this man raped you several times and so on, I said once, he said several times on the transcript, I said that you look at the transcript, he had to go back and forth I kept telling me that the transcript was several times.
After the absolute, suddenly began to lecture me reprimand me, said “you really have a problem oh, this kind of thing what to report it, what is the use? You such you take a man home, men are animals you know? Of course he fucked you ah! Dry you ah is, in our Cantonese called XXXXX”. I was simply a little shaky, but was really tired to the brain down (raped in the middle of the night, did not sleep all night, and the perpetrators sent WeChat confrontation in the early morning, to the morning police, did not sleep all night without drinking a drop of water to eat a grain of rice, repeatedly talking loudly over and over again) also did not record him in the car these words and behavior.
The injury examination is not particularly out of the ordinary, but also quite shameful, there is no privacy protection, unmasked, holding up the barcode to reveal the full face when three police officers to take pictures, a male forensic pathologist (he did not have a bad attitude) to do the test, similar to gynecological examination, take off the pants and open legs to take samples. And a female police officer at the scene accompanied. The whole process is very numb.
After this black thin police officer directly private plus my WeChat, is his personal WeChat account, and the circle of friends blocked me (at this point I have been very numb, basically very passive to say what to do what the puppet state, do not know resistance). Said “evidence are sent to this WeChat, you since the police, then believe that we police, do not believe what to report to the police? “I added, sent over, the other party responded to address me with the word “beautiful “. Although I know the Guangdong region love to call others beautiful, at this time I feel very sick.
It was very late to finish the monitoring (the process is also super super tired, the police are playing next to the phone, all rely on me to sit there for an hour or two trying to identify the slag pixel image, with the film pulling the same frame by frame to find, when I was so tired very want to go home or rest, but do not go through the process does not let go, it really seems like I am a prisoner in torture). Ninety o’clock in the evening, I have not closed my eyes for more than 30 hours, to home I collected the evidence, sent a private message to this police officer, surprise, he directly deleted my WeChat.
At this point I even had some panic, doubting whether this forensic process is formal, after all, the pictures I sent over were my own headshot photos and personal WeChat information. If you think at the beginning, to me to believe the police, to me to trust him, how to add me after sending me home directly deleted WeChat. Oddball.
So I called the police station again.
(I even doubt that I send this post, is not immediately exposed identity, I have been numbed out of the open, after this incident, do not have any hope for everything over here.)
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