Some people call anxiety the disease of the times for this generation in China.
Watching movies can only go to the cinema, otherwise you can only fast-forward; playing social networks a minute to refresh a dozen times, each refresh can not see others reply to their own body; comments to grab the sofa, entrepreneurship to get rich overnight. The amount of alcohol to get married is also best to have a car and a house, nothing to bother. Previously, China Youth Daily did a survey for young white-collar workers, the survey said 34 percent of people are often anxious, 62.9 percent of people are occasionally anxious, while only 0.8 percent of people said they have never been anxious.
A 90-year-old self-publisher in the group asked.
“May I ask, is the insecurity and anxiety related to the environment I grew up in?”
“I always feel like I can’t do things well, I don’t know why.”
And I answered like this.
“Because you’re always surrounded by people who keep telling you how well they’re doing, it’s a wonder you don’t get anxious.”
As if she suddenly realized something, she wrote down this line in her circle of friends.
“Every day a lot of people tell me their story of a million fans in three days, it’s driving me crazy. “
” Anxiety is driving me crazy!
At that time I was in the gym, touching their stomachs, looking around the handsome men fit flesh, silently gave her this circle of friends point a like.
Yes, we missed the Taobao crown store, missed the blogger, microblogging KOL, WeChat friends circle big V, missed joining Alibaba in 2001, went into real estate real estate in 2002, missed doing mobile games, stock market myths, entrepreneurial boom — and we do not know what else we will miss in the future. What to miss. And look around you, your boss is younger than you, and your new colleagues are all post-95. Open your circle of friends and everyone seems to be successful in business, and then run to the bookstore and see every book telling you how to be successful.
It seems that everyone in this world is richer than you, more handsome than you and harder than you. These winners in life are all around you, reminding you every moment that.
“You have been eliminated from society and are a loser!”
“You have been eliminated by society, is a loser!”
“You have been eliminated from society and are a failure!”
And you’re like me, renting a house, riding the subway, running around from nine to nine not knowing what time it is to make a living. I don’t know where my future lies, I don’t know when this kind of day is a head.
Life seems to be opportunities everywhere, but we always seem to wait until the opportunities have passed to find them. When the phrase “If only I had been xxx” comes up more often.
How can we not be anxious?
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