After the second child, I wanted to black out all my single girlfriends.
After giving birth to my sister, a single girlfriend came to visit me at home, and a shiny watch on her wrist was very eye-catching. The woman’s natural attraction to shiny things is to say, my mother said bluntly: this watch is not cheap, right?
My friend was very quick: Yes, auntie, 100,000 yuan.
My mother immediately fussed: how so expensive?
My friend happily introduced to her one by one, look, this case is made of gold, so it is quite heavy, there is a sapphire on the crown, the surface is made of deep sea mother-of-pearl, and then it has five constantly shaking diamonds inside, my this is not bad, more expensive than its watch.
My mom was so enlightened that she became thoughtful. After her friend left, she suddenly said with hatred: you also go to buy a watch, buy a piece of 200,000.
I held the little baby who was obsessed with eating his hands, simply stunned, this is the first time in more than 30 years my own mother encouraged me to spend extravagantly, before she always said, buy it for what? What’s the point? It’s a waste of money. This time she seems to be quite touched, friends in a fancy dress wearing a small gold watch, compared to me wearing sportswear out of shape and emaciated, lost so badly, even the mother can not look down, quickly buy a 200,000 table, steal her thunder, press her face, build up ah.
I immediately refused, Mom you forget, two children, the future to spend money in many places.
Not long after, this friend came again, this time she brought an exciting news, she ordered a Porsche sports car. The original also a little hesitant to discuss with the family, her mother blurted out: that how to introduce you to a blind date later? The actual fact is that you will not have to stare at the excellent talent with a monthly salary of 10,000.
My mother did not persuade me this time, you also go to buy one! She said helplessly, you can not buy a sports car, there is no place to put the children.
But I can see that my friend is having a big impact on her, her world is not married and no child women should live with anxiety, how can she be so happy?
I added fuel to the fire: look, people are more happy, if I do not have children, I can also be so happy.
She gave me a look, don’t talk nonsense, the baby is very cute, isn’t it?
Of course the baby is very cute, sometimes I feel that I have made a great contribution to the reproduction of mankind, but is not a little too miserable for themselves? Life was just dull and uneventful, and once my friend came to my house, it wasn’t just dull and uneventful, it was also so hard, chicken and dog, and came with a puff of shit.
If you have only one child, you can barely live a life similar to that of a single person, you can leave the child with your husband and abandon your husband for ten days and a half. What about two kids? One night I left the two children to Xiao Chen, himself to go to the community swimming pool exercise, swim for thirty minutes up to look at the phone, there is a message sent by Xiao Chen: quickly back.
The two children were left to their partners, it is too inhumane. Not inhumane to the partner, is inhumane to the two children.
Not every single friend will buy a watch and a sports car, but no house and no car single people are not less exciting to me. A friend just went to the Yunnan cottage last month for half a month, which does not affect me much. When I was single, I went to Yunnan, and my son went there twice, running and jumping on the Cang Mountain, and was praised by an old Shanghai aunt who passed by: the local children were great climbers.
I could barely tolerate this wave, but this friend came back from Yunnan and couldn’t get enough of it. She said she was planning to go hiking in Yili at the beginning of June, when the local flowers are in full bloom, and she was planning to join a wild luxury hiking group. With a guide leader and a chef, six hours of light trekking every day, three meals prepared by a dedicated person, and a two-room camping tent, I felt like I could see a wonderful scene in the tent while drinking hot tea and watching the snow-capped mountains from afar. During the day, I stepped on the flower trail, and at night, the sky was full of stars.
My friend said the heart is not excited?
I was not impressed, and I only felt infinite regret in my heart. When I bought a ticket to Kashgar, I got a temporary gastroenteritis, and then I lost the beautiful Xinjiang. When our son was born, we thought we’d go to the Gobi to collect rocks when he carried a little more. Wait, wait, wait until the son is finally enough to carry the build, eat more than I run faster than me, but I am pregnant with a daughter, Xinjiang, still have to wait another seven years!
Where to play, the price is not a problem. But what about children? Is the only problem. The small ones to consider, the waist is good enough? Can carry her up and down the mountain? The older one has to consider, if the drive is long, will he bore me to death in the car?
Will my single friend feel a little lonely when she walks lightly on the trails of Tianshan?
No, she will only feel, too happy, rush to stimulate the next Mr. Mao.
The opportunity to view the stunning scenery these days may only be in the basement TV.
After having a second child, I increasingly want to pull these single friends together, they are always showing me the sweetest side of life.
I can’t name a car or a watch, I can’t go to Xinjiang, so I can always eat and drink, right?
My assistant, a single girl, loves to eat and drink, the whole circle of friends are food nine pictures, she often said to me, teacher, so-and-so’s food is too good, you come to eat ah.
I’m usually so uninspired, then delicious dishes, take the family to eat, the end is the same.
First of all, my son is not interested in food, he is only interested in living things, no matter where we are eating, he is like a burning rush of people in general, just sitting down, get up and say: I want to go out to see.
He figured he could catch anything, anything was more interesting than being at the table.
Six-month-old daughter sitting alone on the stroller, usually can last 15 minutes, 15 minutes after the order just came up, she could not sit down, I could not sit down, hurry up and eat hurry up, eating is to live!
My assistant went out to eat, only need to consider delicious? I need to consider, how many people this restaurant, crowded or not, there is no convenient place to breastfeed, good parking, suitable for pushing a baby stroller ……
Two days ago went out to eat, Xiao Chen ordered a brine white shrimp, a plate of shrimp up, next to the daughter who is dancing to get up, after eating a bowl of Yangzhou fried rice son farce to go out to play, which began to speed up eating shrimp spit shrimp shells Xiao Chen is like a sinner, what time is it still eating shrimp! Do not know that eating shrimp is a waste of time?
Xiao Chen said this shrimp is good. I took a bun, let’s go, let’s go, they both can’t sit still.
But how to share this life to single girlfriends? They will only think, look, I have long advised you, do not get married.
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