The first comfort: the most important thing is the heart of today
Why lose the present mood for painful remorse, and why be terrified for inexplicable worries? The past is gone, and no amount of regret is going to help. The future is still unattainable, how to worry will also be empty sad. Today’s heart, today’s events and present people, but the real, but also feel good. Of course, it is wise to summarize the past experience and prevent the future risks. Yesterday is gone, and tomorrow has not yet come; today is real!
The second comfort: their own heartache can only heal themselves
Occasional complaints to vent, is also very necessary, but endless complaints will only add to the trouble, only to show others their incompetence, complaining is a deadly negative state of mind, once their complaints become a vice then Life will be dark, not only their good mood all, and others followed by bad luck. Complaining is not good, optimism is the most important.
The third comfort: good mood is created by yourself
We often can’t change other people’s opinions, we can only change ourselves. Bad life does not lie in the sins of others, but in our mood becoming bad. The golden key to a better life is not in someone else’s hands. By giving up our resentment and sighing, a better life is within our reach. We subjectively want to live well, but objectively there is no good life, the reason is always want to wait for others to improve life. Don’t expect to change others, be the master of your own life.
The fourth comfort: do what you should do with your heart
Life is so short, which people mind to waste it? A wise philosopher once said: someone on the street scolded me, I am not even head back, simply do not want to know this boring people! We should neither hurt people nor be swayed by others’ criticism, but follow our own desires and learn our skills first in a practical manner. Especially when you are a teenager, you should give your best to learn your skills and not be distracted.
The fifth consolation: don’t always be at odds with yourself
Learn to appreciate themselves, equal to having the golden key to happiness, appreciate themselves is not a lonely, appreciate themselves is not the only one, appreciate themselves is not self-absorption, appreciate themselves is not stagnant …… themselves to give themselves some rest letter, themselves to give themselves a little cheerful, themselves to give themselves a smile, why worry about no life happy it? Often you have to give yourself a holiday, learn to find a pleasant mood.
The sixth comfort: do not chase after worldly honors
A lifelong search for the so-called things recognized by others will always painfully lose their joy and happiness. Vulgar comments will smoke out one’s personality, and worldly pointers will overwhelm one. The real me in the deliberate pursuit, will become a piece of debris fluttering in the wind, the worldly me has become an abomination. Got the kitsch, lost the real, to firm confidence, have self.
The seventh comfort: extreme undesirable
Some people often cause their own mental disorder because of excessive worry, while others cause themselves to be indifferent to anything because of numbness. The former often suffer from the search for sanity, decayed by over-intelligence, and stupidity is rooted in remorse for everything. The latter don’t even know what remorse is, and live all day in a muddle, living and dying is no different! Going to extremes always fail miserably, looking for wisdom in life.
The eighth consolation: do not be too concerned about the evaluation of others
No painting is not evaluated by others, no one is not talked about by others. If you are silent, someone will accuse you of being “too deep in the city”; if you are good at talking, someone will accuse you of boasting; if you praise others, someone will accuse you of having ulterior motives, if you criticize with good intentions, someone will be more thunderous and nosy. Just look at the face of others, they still live not live, have self, and not caught in the self.
The ninth comfort: the more evil thoughts, the deeper the pain
Why can’t you live with peace of mind? The key is not to exorcise the demons in your heart in Time. Because the mind has evil thoughts, it does not restrain itself sensibly and often does remorseful and stupid things. Because the dust of the mind is not cleared in time, the weak-willed will fall into a deep pool from time to time. Because of ghosting from time to time, they will let folly blind them and enter the wrong fork in the road without knowing it. With evil in the heart, the mind will be distracted and go to evil thoughts.
The tenth consolation: be careful not to live too tired
It is often lamented that it is so tiring to live. Tired, is a lot of mental pressure; tired, is a heavy psychological burden. Tired and not tired is always relative, in order to not tired, we must learn to relax, life is expensive in the open and free. Tired heart, so that people are trapped in a long-term subhealth state; tired heart, will make their own spirit. Do not be too tired heart, learn to relieve themselves.
The eleventh comfort: everyone has their own way of living
Their own hurts and pains are clear, their own grievances understand, their own happiness to feel, perhaps their own eyes of hell, but the eyes of others in heaven, perhaps their own eyes of heaven, but the eyes of others in hell, life is this kind of funny, do not always suspect the spring in others, the key lies in the adjustment of their own mindset to live their own lives is most important, not to climb not to compare.
The twelfth comfort: do not be a slave to desire
People always sigh “moth to flame”, people always ridicule “fish on the hook”, people always joke “since the mire”. But if you think about it, in our life around, the tragedy of this desire is still less? The human heart is not enough to swallow the elephant. People who indulge their souls will eventually lose their true freedom! One must always be on guard against bad desires.
The thirteenth consolation: to live with ease and joy
Do not blindly compare with others, they will be relaxed, do not set the goal of life too high, they will always be happy, do not deliberately pursue perfection, they will be away from pain, not always demanding themselves, they will live freely, not every blow, they will be light and easy. Live too tired will be painful, be content with what you have!
The fourteenth comfort: like yourself to embrace life
Blind arrogance and self-esteem, is a proud and ignorant life, a self-loathing, is a negative and pessimistic life. Understanding yourself is more difficult than understanding others, and liking yourself is less easy than liking others. Having a healthy and proper self-esteem mentality will show extra strength in the face of setbacks. Do not lose yourself for the temptation of the outside world, do not deny yourself for a momentary setback, evaluate yourself objectively and calmly at all times, and appreciate yourself with certainty in optimism every time.
The fifteenth comfort: see the world more with good eyes
Water to clear is no fish, people to inspect is no friend. If you can’t tolerate other people’s shortcomings everywhere, then everyone becomes a bad person, and you can’t live together peacefully. If you look at the world with an evil eye, the world is not broken everywhere; if you look at the world with a good eye, the world is always lovely. If you look at the strengths of others, the more you see, the more lovely it will be.
The sixteenth comfort: no need to please others
Pleasing everyone is impossible and unnecessary, pleasing everyone is equal to offending everyone, deliberately to please others will only make others disgusted, close to others to glaze natural, speculative mentality to change, there is time to please, rather than down-to-earth work, pleasing others is always unreliable, their own efforts to be real. A desire to please others will lose themselves, it is important to enrich themselves.
The seventeenth consolation: the wood has been done and then to let nature take its course
Rice has been cooked, and then to regret the previous behavior, no benefit at all, the only sensible way is how to properly deal with the back of things, do not let things get worse, throwing out the water tinware can not be retrieved, has been carved into the boat of wood is unable to restore the original shape, know these simple truths, you can deal with the legacy of peace of mind. Regret does no good; don’t make things worse.
The eighteenth consolation: Though poor in material things, you are not poor in mind
Material poverty is not terrible, but psychological poverty is. Poverty is often linked to poverty, and poverty is often linked to a short will. If you are psychologically poor, you will be poor, but if you are psychologically rich, you will be rich. Material poverty coupled with a million thoughts, will soon destroy a person’s body, self-confidence and self-improvement, although temporary material poverty, but the good days will soon come! People are poor, self-improvement is not short.
The nineteenth consolation: there is a blessing in a blessing and a curse in a curse
Do not be overwhelmed by the momentary gains and losses, intoxicated by the temporary victory, they must be prepared for danger, do not take credit for pride, complacency, means stopping, intoxicated victory, means losing vigilance, the road of life to never rest, victory is only a small roadmap. To achieve the final victory, only efforts, efforts, and efforts. Do not be confused by the momentary gain, who laughs the latest, who laughs the happiest.
The twentieth consolation: the important thing is to live life to the fullest
To live each day well is the greatest happiness, happiness comes from feeling good every day, always worry about the risks of tomorrow, always can not erase the shadow of yesterday, how can today’s life as desired? Always compare those uncomparable, always fantasize about those who can not achieve, how can today’s mood quiet? Any unrealistic things are the source of pain, the biggest killer of life is worry and anxiety. The pain comes from the lack of fullness, fullness of life will not be nonsense.
The twenty-first comfort: life should be joyful in moderation
Appropriate recreational activities can regulate the mood, endless joy but easy to turn the benefits into harm. Things are the opposite, the number of poor is change, where all the pleasure, that is, is a lot of disease. Chess can be dispatched leisure, easy to move the heart fire. A drum taste of revelry is superficial life, in return is often a painful regret. The best way to have fun is to be optimistic about life, and happiness is not limited to entertainment, but involves all aspects of life. Joy and sorrow are concomitant, joy in degrees will be joyful always accompanied.
Twenty-two consolation: a different way of living may be happier
When one is extremely unhappy at work and feels walled in everywhere, is it necessary to change the environment? When you are extremely unhappy in your Marriage, you feel like you are in a cellar, do you have the courage to break through the wall? When you are used to being submissive, will you stand up and say “no”? People with self-confidence and self-improvement are good at adjusting their lives. Don’t live too much in the bag, comfort is the genie of happiness.
The twenty-third comfort: may be temporarily put aside the troubles
Life is really too short, why should you always live unhappy. Trouble is normal, no trouble is not normal. If you are in a bad mood, you may want to go to a movie, you may want to listen to a piece of Music, you may want to sing a song, you may want to make a phone call, you may want to enjoy the sun …… let the worries mind to hell with it, first happy.
The twenty-fourth comfort: the root of pleasure in their own
Generally people always put the pleasure of life on external affairs, attached to the world’s approval, and value status, property, as well as treatment, reputation and other things, once they lose these, is a heavy blow, often painful, and the foundation of their happiness and happiness is destroyed, if they really live this way, then happiness is very far from us, why let others to evaluate their own Why should we let others judge our own happiness and grasp ourselves.
The twenty-fifth comfort: feeling happy is happiness
Many are deliberately pursuing the so-called happiness; some have got, but the cost is huge, many philosophers say that happiness is a feeling. The feeling of happiness decreases with the degree of satisfaction, and is closely related to the state of mind and mentality of the person. The philosophers said: the more difficult it is to get, the deeper it is to love, to have happiness, always think about the difficulties. It is the greatest sorrow for a person to always feel unhappy.
Happiness is a kind of feeling, do not know enough, will never be happy
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