“Investing is not speculation; gambling is playing for keeps.”
01
“Brother, quickly lend me some money, my fund fell again, I want to add a position to the bottom!”
A couple of days ago a friend looking for me to borrow money, a see this sentence, I gave refused. Not that I am not sentimental, but this kind of investment mentality really should not be.
This period of Time, the fund market is green, “leek” growth is pleasing, cut a crop after a crop.
As the netizens spouted that: this wanted to copy the bottom of the fund, did not expect to be copied by the fund.
Whether I am surrounded by those who buy the fund friends, or the network of the “base people”, the vast majority of them have the same problem: blindly follow the wind.
In the past two years, the fund market has developed rapidly, giving rise to a number of professional or wild investment “big brother”, attracting a large number of young funders who have not been tested by the stock market.
For the white, follow the trend of investment may be a safe way to invest, but due to the lack of professional knowledge of investment and finance, the real fund market “stable profit without loss” of young people are few, most are just waiting to be cut “young” leeks.
Up to add positions, down to fill positions, conditions to buy, see the right to buy, not willing to buy, not afraid to lose to buy, more money to buy, lack of money is to use the fund to earn a …… this is the typical “gambler’s mentality”.
The gambler’s mentality is on the field, it seems to be able to easily make money in the fund market, it killed the contemporary fear of poor young people’s eyes.
02
There is a good saying: investment is not speculation, gambling is playing with Life.
Investment is the realization of cognitive power, is to see the essence of how things work and seize the opportunity in the development of things. For example, starting a business and buying a house are all investments.
Gambling is purely the realization of luck, such as playing poker, mahjong, buying lottery tickets, etc.
If you invest with a gambler’s mentality, you are giving the result to luck, and if you have good luck, you make a profit, and if you have bad luck, you lose money. In essence, you are losing in cognitive power.
You can never make money beyond your cognitive range, and even if you do by luck, you often end up losing money again because of your strength, which is a necessity.
Because, there is no gambler, can choose to win money after the “see good”; there is no gambler, can choose to lose money after the “timely stop loss”.
Last June, a “husband and wife murdered their son and then jumped into the sea to commit suicide” news shocked countless people.
The male owner Zheng Mouwei long-term investment in bitcoin, once earned a lot of money, the value of straight to ten million, to say a spring is not too much.
But he was not satisfied, and even used the capital leverage to participate in the speculation, but unexpectedly suffered a cryptocurrency shock, bitcoin plummeted, and lost more than 20 million at once.
“The loss of this 20 million, there are my Parents‘ four million, there are my parents-in-law 500,000, the rest are my savings over the years and borrowed money from relatives.” Zheng Mouwei said.
Years of “hard work” of the Family business once lost, but also a huge debt, the end of the road, Zheng Mouwei decided to commit suicide.
After his wife’s persuasion to no avail, the couple decided to “go together”; in the spirit of “family together” idea, and decided to kill his own daughter first, and then jump into the sea together to commit suicide.
The poor child, not knowing anything, was killed by her parents.
Whether in the movie, or in reality, which one gambler is not the end of a family, wife and children?
03
Madonna has a song called “Gambler”, which sings the heart of gamblers.
You can’t stop me now
Because I’m right, I’m on a quest ……
I’m a gambler, a gambler
You can’t stop me
You can’t stop me you can’t stop me you can’t stop me
I’m the right baby
“I’m the right baby” is a perfect phrase to describe a gambler. Every gambler is caught in a psychological state of pathological narcissism.
The pathological narcissism, simply translated as “enigmatic confidence”, is very certain, unshakeable kind.
They may verbally say “yes, yes, yes, I know I’m wrong”, but in their hearts they think “wait and see, I’ll win back”.
Each gambler’s heart believes in the “what if” and “fluke”.
I do not know, the heart of a fluke, is the root of misfortune.
Many people do not even understand the rules of buying and selling, trading shares, net worth estimates, only rely on the advice of friends or the recommendation of the network V. Blindly follow the trend, the lack of independent judgment, will only be beaten by the capital market.
Financial investment, there is no room for fluke; many things in life, in fact, are also the same.
Zhou Guoping once said, “People have their own misfortunes and misfortunes, and misfortunes and misfortunes are the right thing to do in the all-embracing life, no one can take a chance and see themselves as the only exception.”
All the flukes in the world are with the mask of “greed”; if you have a fluke, disaster is not far away.
Just like the Kuang Heng who “chiseled the wall to steal light”, after studying diligently for dozens of years, he became a prime minister, but because of greed, he appropriated land and embezzled taxes, thinking that he would not be discovered, but eventually ended up with a dismissal and investigation.
He thought he would not be found out, but he was eventually dismissed and investigated.
04
Because of the fluke, so some people drive after drinking, resulting in car damage and death, harming people and themselves.
Because of a fluke, so the annual salary of 400,000 returnee doctor, even 17 times to steal the courier, hand to kill their own good prospects.
Because of a fluke, so someone on the engineering violations, oversight, and then a hotel collapsed, taking away innocent lives ……
We’ve seen all of these stories, literally. In each case, it is saddening and sad.
It is because of the fluke, so it will think “a gamble, in case not found it”, so that the mistake again and again.
The gambler’s mentality is really harmful.
As the saying goes, “people are not saints, who can not be faulted”, life is a life, there are always mistakes, it is not terrible.
Fear only if you know the mistake does not change, repeatedly wrong.
You see those who expect to live by chance gamblers, which escape from the struggle, filthy cage?
The more you get lucky, the more unfortunate you tend to be. Gambling with your own future, life and family will only end in failure.
After all, there are millions of roads to happiness in this world, but none of them are called “fluke”.
As Feng Menglong said in “The Eastern Zhou Kingdoms”, “A benevolent man does not take advantage of danger to invite profit, and a wise man does not take a chance to succeed.”
Live well, work hard, earn money, life will have unlimited possibilities.
A common encouragement.
Reference
Phoenix.com “Dr. returnee steal courier such as demolition of blind boxes, claiming that “not bad money” to find excitement
Southern Metropolis News “Couple failed to invest in bitcoin, killed their three-year-old daughter and dumped her body after jumping into the sea”.
Surfing News “Quanzhou collapsed hotel,” “the incident had a precursor
Yangquan Radio and Television “Drinking and driving into people to death, harming people and themselves!
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