This statement was told to me by an older sister many years ago. I used to be very persistent, or stubborn, all right! I was very aggressive then. In fact, the older sister also said at the Time that it was better to fight a fight with someone who understood than to talk to an asshole. I guess the subtext of what my sister said to me at that time was that if I didn’t change, I would be completely ignored.
I remember hearing a lecture about how the people around you now determine your future, about how friends affect your attitude, your Life, and thus your Destiny, and I thought nothing of it at the time, but the more I thought about it, the more it made sense. When I was in my youth, my aunt once told me that a girl looking for an in-law should not only observe the boy, but also observe the boy’s Family situation, if the father-in-law beats the mother-in-law, then the husband will have the possibility to beat the daughter-in-law. If the mother-in-law will not live, then even after the door, but also to live alone. The arm can’t twist the thigh, to live in someone’s Home, it’s too difficult to change their family, but it’s easier for them to change you.
We can’t choose our Parents, family, classmates, but we can choose our colleagues, friends, future partners. When we grow up, we spend most of our time with our colleagues and partners, and their influence on us directly affects the rest of our lives. In a place where there is a lot of positive energy, you can’t say that you are necessarily happy, at least the probability of happiness is a little higher, just like in a market where more than a thousand stocks are rising, you have more chances to buy rising stocks, the probability of making money is high. In a market where more than a thousand stocks are falling, you have less chance of buying rising stocks and lower probability of making money, this is called following the trend. This is called following the trend.
One is the story of girl A, A’s person is very good, but a little confused, to put it directly is not enough to do things, but over time, we found that she is quite smart, is a lack of organization. Later, a sister introduced her to a company as a receptionist, six months later we saw her again and found that there were changes, asked, that is, the leadership of the administrative department where she works likes to think subordinates, the administrative department colleagues are also intelligent. For example, when Miss A first arrived at the company, someone always checked the courier phone number, and when Miss A checked it and told people, they walked back to their work station and forgot about it, and her colleague instructed her to print out the common phone numbers and post them next to the computer, so that when people asked, they could write a note to them. Then slowly A girl also affected, began to use their own brains, arrange the work, and really exercise the logic of thinking, clear organization, to do things with half the effort.
Then tell a story of Mr. C, Mr. C belongs to the young ambition, young luck, earn money, and some friends fooling around, every day are spent on alcohol. The good thing is that Mr. C has a good wife, his wife is afraid that he always drink and gamble with these friends will be unable to extricate themselves, and began to take him to play with other friends, we walk together at night to drink tea, weekend driving excursions, talking about the latest information business opportunities, reading experience, management experience, slowly Mr. C with these people than their own experience, strength, experience together, but also no longer complacent, began to slowly He began to explore his new potential and start a new development. The first time I saw him, I found a friend in a small store who used to drink and gamble together, and after talking to him, I learned that the friend had lost most of his fortune in a big gamble and had to start a new business to make money.
The beauty of life is that you can’t always be alone, you must get along with people and walk hand in hand. We interact with people, that is, influence others, but also be influenced by others, and the attitude of these people around us, life, and even experience will be enlightened to us. Choose your friends carefully, because friends are people who support each other on a very long journey. Once While reading the Sphinx mystery, I read the quote that we also lay the groundwork for our future when we help others. The beauty of life, then, is in the giving of roses.
Better to swallow chaff with good people than to eat with bad people, here the good people, does not mean rich people, bad people are not talking about poor people, but refers to the character, those who take you to eat, drink and gamble no matter how rich are to be considered, take you to chisel the wall to borrow light no matter how poor he is beneficial to you.
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