A multiple-choice question: to look good or to have fun, you can only choose one of the two. Close your eyes, think about it, and give me an answer.
Most of my idols were movie stars, singers, talented and successful people. When I was young, my choice was: a beautiful face and a good skin. It made me confident and inflated.
Now that I’ve gone back in time and experienced the world, I will choose without hesitation: interesting.
Wang Xiaobo said: “Life is a lonely road, and we need an interesting book to pass the journey. The journey is long, boring and tedious, and will consume all the will and confidence. And an interesting soul will make the ordinary and unexciting years colorful and vivid.
Wang Xiaobo is an interesting book, and I have read him again and again.
Sincere Humor Wins Love
Wang Xiaobo was even uglier than Gao Xiaosong, with a black and yellow face, messy hair, and a hangdog look.
Before getting married, Li Yinhe thought that Wang Xiaobo was not good-looking and had psychological barriers, and the two of them almost died over it. Later on, Wang Xiaobo said unconvincingly, “Then I’ll go to the zoo and compete with him in the crawling house. He said, “You’re not very good-looking either,” and the two of them got even.
Wang Xiaobo said to Li Yinhe: “When I think of you, my ugly face smiles.
If you are willing, I will love you forever; if you are not willing, I will miss you forever.
I will give you my whole soul, along with its peculiarities, temper tantrums, flickers of light and dark, and eighteen hundred kinds of bad habits. It is a nuisance, and only one good thing, to love you.
Simple words, sincere, heartfelt, only deep love will be so heartwarming, heartwarming, he mocked himself, no lies forced, no oppression tied. This kind of love is heavy and easy, sweet and comfortable. Li Yinhe is always thinking about the corners of his mouth and smile on his face, I think, must be!
Wang Xiaobo protests with his actions, ugly can be unattractive, but the right to love is unrestricted. Wang Xiaobo’s love is sincere, humble, and dignified, and it is interesting to fall in love with such a person. His romance has become a model of love for many people.
Uninhibited Love and Freedom
Wang Xiaobo’s father was a serious and high-ranking intellectual, and he demanded from Wang Xiaobo that he be the best in everything. But Wang Xiaobo likes to do his own thing freely and does not think much of fame and fortune. The father-son conflict index rises, and Wang Xiaobo is spoiled and foolish in front of his mother to resolve the conflict and preserve his own identity.
He keeps trying to prove that I’m worthless, really worthless, and he doesn’t want to, so I don’t know what he wants from me. Thirty years ago, I was a spermatozoon he shot out.
What a jerk two words that illustrate a father’s good intentions towards his children! He understood his father.
In his father’s eyes, we are all children who will never grow up. He was always afraid that reality would slap his children, so he had to constantly sound the alarm that we were worthless. The truth is that he wants to see the blue outweigh the blue.
In response to his mother’s forced marriage and childbirth, Wang Xiaobo said: “I don’t have the energy, I want to be an academic, I want to be a professor and earn a big house. He said: “It’s all because of you that I was born without a heart and without a father. Wang Xiaobo’s relationship with his mother is close, harmonious and equal, and he is like a friend to her.
Wang Xiaobo and his mother have been playing a game of cat and mouse, the police and the thief, he has to hide, hide, his mother wants to arrest, to solve the case, they have fun.
In “Thirty by Thirty,” the mother gives a message to Wang Xiaobo: Don’t listen to your father, he is boring; you can do whatever you want, first be an honest person, and then be a happy person. The first thing is to be an honest man, and the second thing is to be a happy man.
This passage with the help of his mother’s mouth, in fact, is Wang Xiaobo’s view of life values, integrity and happiness is more important than anything else, life is short, let yourself go, no need to compete for those misty fame and fortune, do what you like most important, their own life has nothing to do with others. Wang Xiaobo is really not too cool, I like you so free and unrestrained!
It was with these values that Wang Xiaobo dared to break the iron rice bowl more than twenty years ago, resigning from college to work as a freelance writer with no guaranteed income, he was fearless, he was doing what he loved, and he was happy!
In the eyes of his co-workers, Wang Xiaobo is somewhat irrelevant and unreliable, and most talented people are rebellious, which will be understood by ordinary people only after many years.
The good news is that Wang Xiaobo is neither lacking in love nor friendship. He is like an over-powered, witty and charismatic broadcaster of wisdom that attracts the masses. Liu Xinwu, Gao Xiaosong, Lin Shaohua, and Feng Tang, for example, said: “He is a miracle, a beginning of something very good. I’m glad that people with few friends are still on the same channel, which is one of the great blessings in life.
Life is colorful and interesting.
Living a rich and colorful life is what makes it interesting.
Wang Xiaobo has done many things in his life: he has worked in the countryside, joined the army, gone to college, gone abroad, studied economics, written programs, worked as a screenwriter, and has been called a “true master outside the literary world.
His experience of going to the countryside and working as an interloper has led to the creation of “The Golden Age”.
I was twenty-one years old that day, in the golden age of my life. I had so many extravagant hopes. I wanted to love, I wanted to eat, and I wanted to become a half-light, half-dark cloud in the sky in an instant. Later I realized that life is a slow process of hammering, and as one gets older, one’s extravagant hopes disappear.
Life is a game, and both pain and pleasure are part of the game. Only by seeing it through can we accept it and play it, not be played by it. Wang Xiaobo plays this period of imprisoned misery with springtime, boldly and sincerely loving, and boldly and frankly talking about sex. This spicy little yellow essay invites love and hate, but not hate.
Wang Xiaobo loved to write novels when he was an interloper in the countryside, but when he took the college entrance exam, he applied for science, and he passed the exam very smoothly after only one year of secondary school.
Most people know that Wang Xiaobo is a novelist, but few people know that Wang Xiaobo can be considered an early programmer in Upper China. There was a saying in the industry that Wang Xiaobo’s programming ability was absolutely as good as Lei Jun and Ma Huateng’s at the same time.
However, he decided that writing was more interesting, and immediately gave up programming to focus on writing. He is unpredictable, maverick and unconventional, and his storyline is always unexpected.
He reads a lot of books, travels a lot, meets a lot of people, has a lot of interesting stories, and writes a lot of interesting words. He is rebellious in his bones, rational in his head, and interesting in his heart.
Finally, back to the question at the beginning of the article: what’s your answer to the choice between looking good and being funny?
My answer is: interesting! A rich and interesting soul hidden under a not-so-pretty skin is easy on the eyes, such as Wang Xiaobo, who is tall, with white teeth and lazy eyes, and is obviously a handsome yuppie gentleman.
Wang Xiaobo died of a heart attack in a Beijing apartment on April 11, 1997, at the age of 45. Twenty years later, his words are being read and celebrated by more people than ever before, and every time I read one of those interesting chapters, I can’t help but smile at it …….
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