More than three hundred dollars of divorce in lieu of robbery, she thinks “really worth it

On the first day of February, the first batch of divorce applicants had already passed the legal “divorce cooling-off period” and could go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get their books.

On this day, #scalpers grabbed the divorce quota and the news of “divorce quota” spread rapidly. The news of “divorce quota” spread rapidly, and the question of “will divorce be a lottery in the future? The question is like a magical realism joke, reflecting people’s fear and anger about “divorce is not free”. It reflects people’s fear and anger that “divorce is not free”.

In 2021, will Chinese people still be able to divorce freely?

Peach is one of the clients of “divorce scalper”.

On December 29th, 2020, two days before the New Year, Taozi found out that her husband had cheated on her.

While the annual romance was still brewing throughout Shanghai, Momoko was forced to choose whether to give up her old stability and happiness.

The next day, she decided that she wanted a divorce.

“The decision to do a divorce inside to perform, tell yourself a quick fix, can not be dragged to next year’s divorce cooling-off period of 60 days in long-drawn-out mode. “

But divorce is not a matter of a shot in the dark. 30, peach to the Shanghai Civil Affairs Bureau official website ready to book divorce registration found that the earliest appointment on the official website has been scheduled to 1 month later.

This is not an ordinary month. To be precise, the divorce cooling-off period became official only two days later, on January 1.

The Shanghai Civil Affairs Bureau has changed the former “divorce registration appointment” to “divorce registration application appointment” to coincide with the introduction of the divorce cooling-off period. The Shanghai Civil Affairs Bureau has changed the former “divorce registration appointment” to “divorce registration application appointment”. In other words, the registration numbers on the official website after 1 month are actually divorce registration application numbers. If Peach can only make appointments for these numbers, she will have to wait 30 days before she can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for a divorce and then spend a 30-day cooling-off period with her husband before she can finally receive her divorce certificate.

This is the best case scenario, and if something happens in the process, the battle line will be stretched longer.

Peach can’t wait that long.

From the Taobao bought on behalf of grabbing tickets she thought of scalpers. The first thing she did was to go to Taobao to search for sellers of divorce on behalf of about, but Taobao almost always represents lawyers who litigate divorce, asking for about 50,000.

The company’s main focus is on the resale of second-hand goods, and the keyword is “appointment on behalf of lihun”, and she found a scalper.

The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. A few hours later, around 5pm, the scalpers sent a message that the appointment was successful.

Two months later, I still feel that the cows have “kindness” to themselves. “The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services. After the successful appointment, she handed over a total of 370 yuan to the scalper, which contains more than 30 yuan of expedited fees.

Today, two months later, the Idle Fish seller’s appointment price has risen to 500 yuan. At the same Time, there are more and more sellers of divorce booking services on idle fish and microblogging agents, with service areas spanning Guangzhou, Shenzhen and Shanghai.

“Help pick up the slack, once someone cancels, can immediately help you get an appointment. “Charges 500 yuan scalper Julie wrote in an automatic response on idle fish,” generally can be booked within the next 7 days, if close to the holiday before, may be more nervous. A conservative estimate of 10 days, no charge for unsuccessful appointments. “

Another scalpers on idle fish charges are much more Buddhist in comparison: “Designated area is 80, random area is 50.”

Even the scalpers have no way to guarantee a successful appointment, different scalpers can be about the days vary, largely relying on the “others cancel, immediately on the appointment” The logic of “picking up the slack” to make a reservation.

One seller who charged 50 yuan told me at 5 p.m. one day that he could only get an appointment for March, but by 11 p.m. he could already get an appointment for February.

“I have software to keep an eye on it, so I can tell whenever someone cancels. “Julie told me that her appointments are basically successful, unless the buyer is particularly demanding about timing, such as having to make an appointment on a certain day. “Otherwise, it’s basically a good appointment. “

The company’s main goal is to provide a service that allows you to make a reservation for a Marriage or a divorce in Shanghai, at least since August of last year. In October, she started to develop divorce appointment business in Shenzhen and Guangzhou, and the price gradually rose to 100, 300, until recently 500 yuan.

In the past six months, she has represented at least 27 buyers for divorce appointments, with Shanghai divorce appointments being the most common.

Divorce scalpers are not a recent profession, and divorce appointments are not a rare phenomenon in recent months.

In May last year, Shenzhen was in the news for its difficulties in making divorce appointments. At that time, all the divorce appointments from May 16 to June 16 were fully booked and “no one was left”.

The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.

In fact, perhaps not. 1 on the news that “Guangzhou February divorce quota has been full”, 4 when I logged on the Guangdong Province marriage registration online reservation system, the earliest in the The first time I logged on to the online marriage registration system of Guangdong Province on the 4th, there were still 9 remaining slots as early as February 18.

The first thing you need to know is that this (divorce quota) is very easy to grab. “A divorce scalper said,” the online news that it is difficult to about to grab, are bullshit. “

The “easy” and “want to divorce on the divorce “is not the same thing. For peach like this, a moment is not willing to delay in the marriage of more people, more waiting for each day, is undoubtedly torment.

The “hard to get a ticket” refers only to online reservations. According to a report in the Southern Metropolis Daily, the Guangzhou Civil Affairs Bureau said that if online appointments are unsuccessful, you can also make an appointment on site or by phone. “If you wait at the site, you can also do it directly. “

“The main reason is that nearly half of the marriage registration parties who made an appointment did not go to the site and did not go to cancel the number in time, which led to the resources being occupied. “The person in charge of the Guangzhou Municipal Civil Affairs Bureau explained this to @XinJingDailyWeVideo. In December 2020 alone, more than half of the 4,716 couples who made appointments for divorce registration in Guangzhou City were late, and only 2,372 couples showed up for their appointments.

To solve the problem of wasted resources for those who missed their appointments, an additional “180-day blacklist” guideline was added to the Home page of Guangdong’s marriage registration website today. “One of the following behaviors will be included in the appointment blacklist, 180 days will not accept appointments: ① 180 days to cancel 2 times; ② 180 days to cancel 5 times; ③ 180 days to cancel once, cancel 2 times; ④ 30 days to cancel 3 times. “

But the big guys don’t seem to be buying this. The “180-day blacklist” along with the “divorce appointment The “180-day blacklist” together with the “divorce appointment / divorce number” has ignited the public’s newly extinguished anger against the “divorce cooling-off period”. “The “30-day waiting period + 30 days of calmness + 180 days of blacklisting”, a total of 240 days of divorce waiting period, is expected to directly To the marriage put on a tight spell.

For us, there is only one mantra recited by the monk: to reduce the divorce rate.

Although not high compared to countries like Europe and the United States, the divorce rate in China is indeed on the rise. According to a document released by the Ministry of Civil Affairs last year, the divorce rate in China was 3.4 per 1,000 in 19, up 0.2 thousand points from the previous year; at the same time, the marriage rate fell by 0.7 thousand points.

The divorce rate has been rising year after year, and the tricks to “curb impulsive divorce” have been changing year after year.

For example, in 2012, Cixi City, Zhejiang Province had a “pilot” divorce cooling-off period. For example, in 2012, Cixi City, Zhejiang Province, had a “pilot” divorce cooling-off period, in which the Cixi Civil Affairs Bureau required couples to spend a cool week after making an appointment before registering for divorce.

Similarly, in 2016, Shanghai’s Pudong New Area Marriage Registry implemented a “divorce limit system”, accepting only 50 numbers per day during working hours and considering developing An online divorce appointment system was considered to “reduce the waiting time”.

After each similar document was issued, there was a small public outcry; in May last year, the consultation draft of the marriage law section of the Civil Law proposed the establishment of a “divorce cooling-off period”. In May last year, when the draft of the Civil Law on Marriage proposed the establishment of a “divorce cooling-off period”, the voices against “nibbling on the freedom of divorce” finally gathered in small waves to form a big tsunami.

From the data, the divorce rate varies from region to region after the impact of the divorce cooling-off period. For example, Henan Business Daily reported that the number of divorce appointments in Zhengzhou New District in January this year was nearly two-thirds less than in December last year; however, at the same time, there was no significant change in the number of divorce appointments in Guangzhou, which was “basically full every day” since the introduction of appointments in 2018 “.

“My constitutional law teacher said something like: the divorce cooling-off period only damages the right to be impulsive, not the freedom to divorce. ” a law student at the University of Political Science and Law relayed to me, and went on to explain that he did not approve of the divorce cooling-off period, “although it seems to only delay the divorce and is not an absolute impairment of an absolute impairment of freedom, it seems that individuals in civil law are increasingly seen as irrational people who need the law to be extremely restrained and protected, and that the kernel of liberalism has changed. “

At the same time, there are also legal bloggers who oppose the divorce cooling-off period, clearly stating that it is an infringement on the “freedom of divorce”.

Peaches apparently shares the same view. “The divorce cooling-off period to control the divorce rate is bullshit and anti-human. Although divorced with great efficiency, Momoko still has a huge grudge against the “divorce cooling-off period “The divorce is a very important issue.

Peach also needs to take care of her 6-year-old child after work, so chatting with her is often interrupted and she is slow to reply. Only once, as if she remembered something, she eagerly sent me several messages.

“Your side will not report the idle fish seller, right?”

“Honey you must not report that scalper ah”

“Otherwise, I will be a revenge.”

“I don’t know how long I would have suffered if she hadn’t helped me make an appointment.”

I naturally didn’t report it, but I don’t know if it’s because the news is still hot, but now in the idle fish search keywords such as “generation reservation lihun”, has been empty. I can’t search for anything.

The divorce scalpers may have gone underground, or to more obscure corners.

The last day of divorce at the end of the year is still a lucky thing in Peach’s opinion. Although she cried uncontrollably the moment she walked out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, she told me two months later that the divorce was “a relief and a rebirth” for her.