1, generally speaking, Parents to your choice, you are not too fond of.
But likewise, generally speaking, the parents can agree to the last will not be a big problem.
So you’d better find the ones you like and your parents agree with.
2, the more mature people, the more acceptable dating this way.
In fact, everyone in the beginning of the relationship, a lot of their own conditions to the table to discuss, but more real and reliable.
Some couples, in love when the love of death, vows, and finally will be because of the bride price of tens of thousands of dollars quarrel, or because of the real estate license to write the name of who fell out with each other, rather than this at the beginning of the face to say clear.
In the material conditions are not shameful, shameful is obviously care but do not say, have to boast their own noble, and finally in front of the reality of the torn face, low dead.
3, will come to the matchmaking people, not necessarily character defects, poor looks, bad conditions, some are simply a narrow circle of human interaction, less contact with the opposite sex.
These girls, on the contrary, there are many very worthy of interaction, because they are more conservative, self-respecting and down-to-earth than those girls with a bunch of spare parts and countless ex-boyfriends.
After really walking into their lives, you will find that they actually have a lot of advantages, but also a lot of places to like.
4, the reason why many people can not find objects, is the positioning of their own bias.
Obviously general looks, but feel that they look more than 8 points.
Obviously the Family conditions are not good, but feel that they are girls, so the family is not important.
Obviously their income is not good, but always think that the income of boys should be several times higher than girls.
They will not be able to find the right person, until one day they recognize themselves, or meet a blind.
5, the introduction of the handsome, beautiful, good family, you listen to it, pay attention to the digital information on it.
For example: this man, a graduate of a prestigious university, 185 tall, handsome, good family conditions, motivated, very good, humorous and funny, annual salary of 100,000.
This is in fact only height and income is valid information.
6, matchmaking with what girlfriends to come, generally are not too serious, the success rate is generally lower. Just like when you brush the knowledge, many people just know a casual look at the answer crossed away, but do not know the little secret of double-clicking the screen, but also miss a lot of important information!
7, two people feel that the conditions are suitable, many times to meet but never find what kind of topic, in fact, because two people circle and experience is different.
Do not force, in fact, is not suitable for the meaning.
8, even to “the age of Marriage“, do not have the mentality of getting married.
No matter how old you are, no matter how many times you go on a blind date, it is better to get married together than to continue to be single.
Because people’s feelings are actually very difficult to cultivate, poor results, is to end up living very unsatisfactory.
9, in addition to the introduction of a very unreliable situation, two people will meet in a blind date, in fact, because the overall rating of two people is basically in a segment.
So, if there is a party that is particularly outstanding in some way, you should not be overly amazed, it may be because he has great defects in other areas.
For example, a girl who is particularly good-looking may tell you that she is a homosexual.
For example, a guy with a very high income may tell you that he has squatted for two years before.
For example, a university professor, may tell you that he had 8 previous marriages.
In short, there will not be a good thing that you did not expect.
10, there are many people who come to dating will say that their parents forced themselves to come, which is mostly women.
But you do not take it too seriously, because they themselves just to cover up their embarrassment, I believe – she died not to come, if the parents will not kill her.
11, the match between people is very low, if there are many pre-determined conditions, most of them are very difficult to find the right one.
For example, before I went on a blind date, I first gave myself pre-set conditions, I want to find a height of about 165, weight 110 pounds, the system work, sunny and cheerful.
The surface requirements are actually not high, but in the end you will find – 10 people in not necessarily 1 can meet these four conditions.
12, there are some things that must be said in advance.
Especially when it comes to the concept, fertility, ethical issues, not to say is the same as fraud.
For example, some people can not accept premarital sex at all, some people are dink, some girls have to shave every day, some old men have a hobby of wearing stockings.
These things if not said in advance, and finally this love and marriage are a waste of Time.
13, since to dating, the mindset must be set right, either you simply do not come.
Two people is a mutual choice, who do not see who are normal, do not feel their own conditions are good superiority bursts, the other party does not see you when the mentality collapses.
14, dating, a short period of time multi-phase nothing wrong, but must not consume several people at the same time.
Especially the kind of people who do not feel much, but also do not refuse, but also a long time and more than one person to maintain an ambiguous relationship.
This kind of garbage operation once the word gets out, who do not love to take care of you such people.
People can not be greedy, can not be too selfish, to make a decision in time.
15, the other party’s family relations are harmonious, how the parents’ character three views, these things are easy to ignore.
After marriage you will understand that the two of you can not get rid of parents and children these family relationships and live, parents to a large extent determine whether your future days are good.
16, kindness this condition, often ignored, but in fact this is the bottom line of the bottom line.
Whether your three views are the same, the final marriage is happy or not, as long as the other party is kind, there will be no major problems, nor will there be Life threatening.
17, do not lie to yourself, do not because of some expectations, for each other’s many actions to find reasons.
Always do not reply to you, in fact, is not like.
not come out after two appointments, in fact, is not like.
Talk a few sentences and then go to bed, actually is not feeling.
If you really believe that she is in the shower, in the dinner, these days busy work, then your IQ may also have to polyphase point pro.
18, the material conditions if too much difference, the final marriage is mostly a deformed state.
19, after the real contact down, you will find that love at first sight thing is not much reliable.
Many people’s performance and the first look at the blind date feel a big gap.
Some people wear suits, like a business elite, said also very high-end, but contact for a long time you find that he is just a social gangster, driving a BMW debt.
Some people do not seem to be how colorful, but contact for a long time you will find that he is only to strangers so, in front of familiar people outgoing and cheerful, humorous and funny.
20, slowly you will admit, not to meet their favorite, is not their own ideal look.
So, don’t be anxious to meet the right one, and don’t get married for the sake of marriage, just go and become a better version of yourself.
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