You tell me how good and outstanding someone is, I may not be interested yet, but when it comes to her having a different trait I will be interested. Because these are the things that can be learned. The most important thing to learn is not other people’s success, but what she is constantly doing small and insignificant things.
The Nobel Prize winner Monroe, a housewife, began to write only in her middle age, but she wrote, every day. Never stop, four children at Home, busy with children is writing, and do not think they write much better.
She said, “Life is trivial, writing is also an outlet, I have a daily quota for the number of pages I write and force myself to finish. It has to do with getting older. People become compelled to do certain things. What goes along with writing is walking five kilometers a day. If I know there’s a day when I’m not going to be able to walk that much, I have to make it up at some other Time.” It’s actually protecting yourself, she says, and doing so makes you feel that if you follow all the good rules and habits, nothing can defeat you.
I don’t care if she wins the Nobel Prize, and I haven’t read her work before this, but I really applaud her for her good habits.
Haruki Murakami is over half a century old and runs long distances every day, rain or shine, without ever breaking. He just does it to exercise his endurance. He said that you can do a lot of things when you run, you can think, you can listen to Music, you can relax aimlessly, you can get some fresh air …… He wrote “When you run, what are you thinking”, I don’t think I like Murakami’s book, but I do appreciate his way. I’m not sure I like Murakami’s book, but I do appreciate his approach. At a certain age, I realize that people really need to hold on to something to “fight” the powerlessness of life.
No one is born a wonder, but they must have good habits that make them seem less of a failure. They have their own way of fighting the world and reconciling with life, and this way is not to complain or be cynical, but to quietly change themselves.
The famous Writer Kafka worked as a small company employee all his life, but this did not prevent him from becoming a writer, Kafka did not work as this employee, perhaps write more, but also may write less, nothing to achieve. So, what position you are in, it does not really matter, the important thing is just a personal brand. There are only failing businesses, not failing individuals. Kafka is just a small staff, spare time to do something you like, do not interfere with each other, he does not complain or entangled not all day to complain about the world, as if the world owes him.
Mr. Cai Lan mentioned a small incident: he went to a restaurant to eat, saw a guy dressed as a clown, with balloons tied out all kinds of animal figures, every child who came to eat are very happy, twice a week for an hour each, once 700 yuan. This is only his side business, the main business is to deliver, Mr. Cai Lan asked him how to learn this skill, he said with a smile, self-learning, buy books, self-learning, try a few times will ah, can add income, but also very happy, why not do it? Mr. Cai Lan admired. If he only complains that his Parents can not compete with others, work too hard, all day long, then his life can be imagined how to live. He has his own way of “fighting” the world.
Mr. Mu Xin said, if you study a mahjong, insist on studying for five years, you will be different. Try to drill one thing to try? To fight against life, you have to find other ways than using your mouth.
Another insignificant thing, a friend of mine said that her father looked particularly young, why? He took a handful of cooked peanuts with him on his daily walk after dinner, and has done so for decades. Peanut rice, so simple, but you try eating it every day? Repeat the boring thing a thousand times and try it.
The other day, a friend recommended that I watch Tan Yuan Yuan’s ballet video, she said she had to watch such a segment every morning when she woke up, to enjoy the feeling of the whole pores being awakened, Tan Yuan Yuan’s fame I do not know much, but I remembered a quote from one of her interviews: “For example, you take two days off a week, but if you take more than two days, on the third day you will feel that something is wrong up. By training every day, your muscles develop a memory for your movements, creating a natural response. Once you stop, this muscle response immediately weakened. So the hardest part of dance is not the movements, it’s doing the same movements day after day, over and over again, that you’ve done countless times. That’s all.”
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