The 24-year-old girl Luo Luo came to Hangzhou to work alone for three years, in the company as an artist, more than 10,000 monthly salary, the surface cheerful and optimistic, open Luo Luo’s microblogging a look, all the human misery. Family Time and again to force her to death, the company colleagues said that her father always asked her to borrow money. What kind of borrowing? Her father wanted to borrow 10,000 yuan, the daughter said I only have 7,000. Dad said then you give it all to me.
Sounds better than the TV Fan Sheng Mei, her Parents at least did not let her go around to borrow money, and then to help the family.
The next female colleague jumped up and said, which has such a family, other families are mothers with their daughters’ old phones, her family is the mother with a new one, the daughter with the old one.
The family’s uncontrolled demand is quite depressing and more than once reveals the idea of suicide. A certain time after drinking to Qiantang River to take a break, a big wave shot over, people were swept in. The police station qualified that it was not a suicide, because when the wave came, she tried to escape, but it was too late.
It was an accident, and it seemed to be an accident that followed the wishes of the little girl. The parents were hysterical, just to get more money. This is when I realized that this scene is so familiar, it is simply the classic operation of most Chinese people after an accidental death, the family, for short, must find a place to get money.
The beginning of the book, “Fusheng Fuyi,” a study of rural women’s suicides, is almost identical to the scene in the police station where the girl’s own mother has a hysterical fit. The book is a bit more cruel. In May of 1998, the children of Nyangmiao Middle School were terrified because “in the middle of the two school buildings, there was a coffin” and a A middle-aged woman next to the coffin all day long mute voice wailing: “My son, you died so tragically ah, you ask mother how to live ah? “
Why did the high school student commit suicide? No one knows, the Public Security Bureau has done a very careful job, first of all, to prove that he did commit suicide, and secondly, the school does not have a direct relationship with the death of students. In this case, the parents initially did not do anything, only to prepare for the funeral as soon as possible. A relative soon gave them the idea that things shouldn’t end so unexplained,” the book says. “According to the local saying, unexplained understanding, belong to admit bad luck. “In the eyes of savvy people, this is too nasty and not the best way to deal with it. “
How can people die for unknown reasons? Since he died in the school, then ask the school to ask for an explanation. Luo Luo died in the Qiantang River, but unfortunately the Qiantang River can not make a scene to the money, or Luo Luo parents must be crying and howling at the river. They looked for Luo Luo boyfriend, the boyfriend said I only have 12,200 yuan, the police station mediation police said that the parents are still kind, only take 10,000 yuan, but also boyfriend left more than 2,000 it. Looking for the company to discuss, although people did not die in the company, but the company is always responsible, you are so big a business, you have to give a statement.
Luo Luo relatives desperately looking for the company’s loopholes, her uncle is probably one of the savvy people, constantly put forward, the young girl said, the work is very stressful, this depression is not related to the company? The company boss took out the attendance records and said look these months she never worked overtime more than the time stipulated in the Labor Law. The uncle also said, the little girl said that your company is going to be on a big project, is it because of this pressure? The boss said helplessly, unfortunately, this big project has not started yet. We had wanted to promote her, you can’t say that because I want to promote her so she went to lighten up.
This pile of messy pleading, according to the book, is to use this opportunity to knock a good amount of money, but also not just knock a good amount of money, but the child died too aggravated, to take a breath for the child. You can’t think that this is just a good opportunity to make money.
The key is that after looking through the microblogging the truth comes out, Luo Luo is in a bad mood, the vast majority of the reason is because the family forced too hard, and even friends suggested she go to the police, she did not think it was feasible.
The parents of Luo Luo are exactly the same as in the book, and at first they intended to settle the matter, bargained for 60,000 yuan and left. After three days, they came back, repeatedly in front of the company, even to the TV station, but also to make a mess of money. 60,000 is too little. 60,000 is enough for what?
They don’t care about why their daughter died, they only care about their daughter died in vain, I want to get a statement, the program peacemaker said you don’t cover up, you just say how much money you want?
How much money do you need to not go to the company?
The point of the boss explosion is that the girl’s parents are so unrelenting, lion’s share of the money, straight out of the gate is to pay a down payment for their son.
When born, to the family to keep playing money to buy things, dead, surprisingly, there is a role for the brother to pay the down payment, or you as a daughter is not in vain?
This is when I sighed up, an educated girl out of work, in the city is an independent woman, hard work, free love, feeling sad, eat, drink and play, looks very urban and modern. But as long as the old family is involved, she is no different from the women of decades ago, the daughter can do whatever she wants, the son must gather the whole family to give a suite. The father did not have the daughter’s phone number, the mother heard that her daughter was going to commit suicide, and there was nothing extraordinarily concerned about the action.
Even she died, but also in accordance with the accidental death of women in rural areas, parents plus a host of friends and relatives in front of the company to make a fuss, why? A lot of money for the down payment for the son.
This generation of independent women, how so miserable?
There was a hot topic on Weibo a few days ago, “should independent women receive bride price”, some said they should, some said they shouldn’t. I find it ironic that independent women, how modern and powerful, have the style of a young daughter-in-law when it comes to receiving bride price. But if you don’t, you’ll lose the respect of all your relatives at Home, make your parents lose face, and make yourself lose face.
If you get married when you insist on independent female style, bride price is something? You don’t need to insult me with this kind of broken wind and customs. The result is that every time someone mentions it, ask you to receive confiscated, heard a confiscated, the other party will certainly put on a teasing smile, said so-and-so’s daughter to junior high school, also received 200,000 it. The implication is, look at you cheap, a dime can not be asked?
This feeling is like, obviously have been buying Starbucks coffee every day to drink, thought with the young women in New York Paris, did not expect a headache, parents stuffed over a handful of ashes, said, you eat it, eat it is good.
The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem. They said over and over again, I raised a daughter, how much money it cost.
This money, must be earned back.
It’s hard to imagine that this is a 24-year-old girl. 96 years old, growing up in the 21st century, and still struggling in the quagmire of patriarchy.
Westerners commit suicide, and there is always a world of peace after death.
But Luo Luo died, she did not get peace, her parents persistently begging for an argument, who called you a rural origin?
I can’t help but sigh the atmosphere, if really patriarchal, why verbally say what the heart meat, and let the girl read the university, you simply tell her from childhood, read the compulsory Education, hurry to find someone to marry, so as to earn a bride price to buy a house for his brother.
Why do you have to let the girl receive higher education, come out to work, so that she has all the ideas of an independent woman, and then cruelly tell her that you are a girl, you have to remember your part, your brother’s house did not buy, which is your responsibility.
This an independent woman, eventually sent out the last microblog, “the original night of the Qiantang River so beautiful”.
Her hesitation let a big wave do all the judging.
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