The three mountains above the middle class in big cities: house, children’s Education and work.
Let’s start with the house.
Hangzhou’s house prices over the past five years, is a rapid rise in the momentum of the theft of the bell ringing a bell, without turning back to the kind. Every Time you feel almost almost to collapse to collapse, dang again to a wave of capping, directly to your stomach, top to your doubts about Life doubt their own intelligence.
Do not say that the speed of money can not catch up with the speed of rising prices, and even the time and opportunity to respond did not leave you. The whole process is even a little humiliating color: nah, 13, 14, 15 are cheap ah, gave you a lot of opportunities ah, is your own not cherish ah, life bitter do not blame the government good wow [hands].
So many of the houses around me bought late, and now the vast majority of Family income is taken to pay off the mortgage, although there is no annual salary of a million bitter so exaggerated, but buying a house does profoundly affect the quality of life of everyone. Colleagues around, two couples a year before taxes 1 million, in order to buy a house this year back 5 million loans, in his words, now let alone the quality of life, the days are feeling a little magnificent [laughing cry]
The house thing, really is a bottomless pit, especially the middle class, buy a house is their mission. The general path is to buy a small want to change the big, buy the self-occupied want to buy investment, buy a large flat also want to buy the school district, their own buy after want to buy for their sons, anyway, is stalking endless torture you. Not to buy can not, because everyone is buying, I do not buy is not a fool?
And Hangzhou now buy new houses are all lottery, cost-effective properties are single-digit winning rate, you have money is useless ah. The governor’s wife wanted to buy a large flat, the results shook a year shook a lonely, anxious to scold the governor at Home every day: you a capital brain West refused to listen to me in the past so cheap still do not shake the number, the sales lady begged you to buy you do not buy, now well, really when the cheap ah you, pig-headed three bala bala.
There will certainly be people who say this is the middle class asked for it, do not buy it is not over, adjust their own mentality ah. I’ll be honest, people are always herd animals, when you are in such an atmosphere, many actions are subconscious. For the middle class, it is impossible not to buy a house, you can not pretend, but it is absolutely impossible not to buy a house.
Then come to the children’s education.
That’s really a wow cry out. You say the house problem can also be solved with money, children’s education, only really called the oil and salt not into the money useless ah.
The middle class investment in children’s education is really beyond imagination, buy school houses, private, enrollment classes such as not to mention, money on the line. Getting along with the teacher is the ultimate extinction. Kindergarten worry about being beaten in school, elementary school worry about being isolated in school, raising children a hundred long worry about 99 that really is not cover.
The most powerful corner, in front of the child’s classroom teacher, one is humble to the dust. Two days ago in the elevator heard the office director and the child kindergarten teacher on the phone, a thank you teacher thankful teacher let the teacher trouble, while also online smile nodding like mash. You know, this big sister is usually the unit’s famous mother tiger wow, scolding people for three hours without water female vajra, not also fallen in the kindergarten teacher’s skirt.
Then, if the child is excellent in all aspects of performance that there is still breath, but not who have such a good life, ah, there are always people to do school dregs. You see those middle children of our bank, the dregs are produced by the ton, a crop of dregs grow faster than leeks.
This time you will be overwhelmed with anxiety, on the one hand, is worried about the future of the child, you say even a second sub-category can not take your old man this meager social relations can not be used ah; on the other hand is really can not afford to come from the school and the teacher’s mental torture, three days a phone call five days to invite Parents, anyway, all the pots to your parents to carry, cervical vertebrae are bent off to you.
Another point is the most damaging is that the middle class often have a dream of continuous class crossing. Especially those small-town do-gooders, when they succeed in changing their fate through knowledge, they will continue to strengthen this set of experience to the next generation, and hope that the next generation on their own basis to achieve further class leap.
This concept is not wrong, but the social environment has changed dramatically (omitted 10,000 words here), so when the implementation of this concept does not go well or does not achieve the expected results, the anxiety is directly full, tormenting the strong and fragile heart of the middle class day and night.
Many people around me say they regret having children, because the comprehensive sudden entry is increasing at the same time, uncertainty is also increasing, utilitarian point, is not proportional to the input and output.
I personally like children very much, I think the best thing in this world is to welcome new life and accompany this life to grow, especially when the child has your own shadow, this happiness is how much money and house can not be comparable. But there is one thing to say, the current social environment, the birth of children is a cost-effective thing, so people who choose to dink, is the economics of the absolute rational people.
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