At dinner, my new colleague told me stories about his Time at the investment company before he came here, and how he followed his former boss to some high-class occasions. Unfortunately, the company could not continue to work, and the boss sent him away. According to say, those experiences are able to raise a person’s level. But it should be understood that all the “according to say” will not become reality. Although he had been close to his former boss, often going in and out of various private clubs and golf courses, but later on, after a breakup, his former boss changed to someone else to follow him, while he still shared a low-cost apartment and squeezed the bus to and from work every day, living the Life of a typical ant Family.
The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re getting into. The actual fact is that you’ll be able to find out that there are some experiences that really don’t play an important role in your life. It is just a few embellishments, a spice, which momentarily stimulate your senses, so that you feel that there was a prosperous heavenly beautiful experience. But these experiences are like a spring dream, after waking up, you still have nothing. You can “One Night in Beijing“, but Beijing will not belong to you because of this night, but you will probably fall in love with Beijing because of this night. –You can’t tell the difference between reality and illusion, and you can see a very distant distance as if it were close at hand. Just like a loser every time he thinks he will soon be able to get his hands on a girl, he doesn’t know that there are a hundred thousand miles between them.
The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. Now, they still often drink together, but no longer talk about life ideals and other topics. I think that story maybe none of them have forgotten, but no one will mention it again, just as everyone has forgotten. Because those topics will always belong to the young, a luxury.
The cruel thing about life is that what seems like two or three steps away may not be finished in a lifetime. And the fascinating thing about life is just the opposite: the distance that you can’t finish in a lifetime can give you the illusion that you can reach it in two or three steps. For example, I saw a post on the Internet, said those children from the rural areas on the University of Peking and Tsinghua, Parents and relatives always think they can immediately after graduation, they think that the graduates of Peking and Tsinghua University have entered the Central Office, mixed with the most minor also went to the major ministries. Talking about them just in the company with a few thousand dollars of salary, working hard for the capitalists, relatives back Home refused to believe it.
It is understandable. What the relatives back home saw was only the hill they were on. After leaving the hill, all they could see was the sky and the moon. In their eyes, the moon is probably closer to the hill than they themselves are to the hill. So, they take it for granted that if you can walk from here to the hill, it’s not easy for you to reach the moon?
A netizen asked me to recommend books on Chinese studies, and I told him that “what to read” is not important, but The important thing is to “read on”. The most difficult thing about doing anything is not how you do it, but that you keep doing it without stopping. Only at this time, the scale you understand is the closest to the real scale, you will not see the distance of 108,000 miles as a somersault so close, and will not see yourself as Sun Da Sheng. I recommended a few books, he was not very satisfied. I said: then you first read the Four Books and Five Classics. He said confidently: Good! When I finish reading, we’ll do the exchange! I looked at the two exclamation marks he made and was a little speechless. Because I knew that it was almost impossible. But I couldn’t bear to discourage him and said back to him, “Okay. Although it seems that the Four Books and Five Classics do not have as many words as the Tomb Raider, but when you really read on you will know that it is not that easy to finish.
Every child, there are times when they see the moon very close to them, so close that it seems to climb a tree to be able to. One day, when he knows how far away he is from the moon, it means he has really grown up.
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