There is a word in Japanese called Narita breakup, which is because many newlyweds come back from their honeymoon and just break up at Narita airport. So, good luck to all of you not to become a prophecy.
Every year, starting from the Qingming Festival, to May Day, to the Dragon Boat Festival, until the end of the National Day holiday, there will be several long holidays in this half-year period, many people should take this Time to plan a trip, right? Hey, of course, happy to travel – we rarely pass a negative energy – but also to remind you: ready to end the trip to flip or break up ready?
It is said that the original version of “lovers should travel at least once before Marriage” came out of “The Siege”. Zhao Xinfang’s original words: “After marriage honeymoon trip is reversed, should first travel together for a month, after a month of travel, the two sides have not yet seen each other, disgusted with each other, have not quarreled, but also maintain the original marriage contract, such couples are guaranteed not to divorce. “
If there are any unbreakable rules for human behavior in this world, this view of Mr. Qian Zhongshu is one of them.
Look at how reasonable he is! Sansho Jose like travel love is certainly fascinating, but the real-Life travel is always in the test of love in both sides: for the young couple who have not yet salt and vinegar, the usual life of the “toilet lid should be turned up or down The question of “should the toilet seat be turned up or down” is often magnified as “do you and I have the same world view” during the trip. The requirements for each other also silently increased: to be able to communicate, good temper, good physical fitness, love to eat, love to shop can stay up late, understand the local customs and humanities, do not lose three or four confused, the most critical thing is to know how to take care of people (me), will not be self-indulgent to do a lone wolf, must master the disaster and emergency handling methods. In short, it is best to be all-powerful.
This high-pressure environment, many people in the halfway point of the trip will inevitably “kill the heart”. For couples, it’s easier to get sparks flying because there’s an emotional element that prevents them from forcing the teamwork skills they’ve trained in the office.
“Disagreements on travel issues”
The first is about the travel division of labor. If the former is the case, then from picking the travel destination to booking the hotel to “should you bring this trench coat? “If the former is the case, then it’s worth a big fight, and if the latter is unfortunate, then the unfortunate thing is that probably no one will buy the tickets and never make the trip, thus avoiding more travel problems.
In addition, travel is a big test of habits. Usually, it may be just different from each other’s hot and cold constitution, for the air conditioning open a few degrees quarrel, while in the travel, should not use the hotel shampoo, dirty clothes should be washed on the day or take Home, and even can eat garlic, have risen to a philosophical height, “do not you think roasted garlic has the fragrance of basil? ” – at this point you repent, the man who usually loves to eat large loin, and you really are not the same way.
Travel is so dangerous that it becomes an excellent tool for measuring human nature. In addition to couples, the law of travel-tested relationships can also be applied to friends and colleagues, and even before you and your partner start a business together, you probably need a trip.
At the same time, travel can magnify the disadvantages. Because of the need to stay together 24 hours, we are fox tails out of the state, this time Ta if still adhere to the rules of life, early risers do not idle; 3:00 up early to drive dozens of kilometers eventually did not see the sunrise also frankly face, is an excellent friend.
Travel is also a special test of emotional intelligence. The plane is late, the restaurant daddy, the road up the mountain dangerous, swimming sunburn, each pile are annoying little things, at this time, if the peer is particularly reliable, will take the initiative to avoid similar to “I have long said so not ” “x x land people are too bad” of the horse’s back, choose to comfort the next person, laugh at life, when have to face the bad situation of sleeping in the airport When you have to face the bad situation of sleeping in the airport, Ta can also propose the hair tied to the luggage to avoid being stolen and other strange tricks. This kind of person could be a great business partner.
In short, the travel thing can be especially small to see the big, in the successful travel partner’s code of life, quarrel is not terrible, learning the travel process to develop and implement travel strategies, risk management, emotional management, money control, stop-loss and stop-gain skills may be more important, after all, hand in hand together to see the storm, together with the experience of being cheated thousands of dollars, chased by wild boars, used the super disgusting toilet, the feelings should have been more profound ah.
“Monsters in travel”
Travel, the following monsters may jump out at you at any time, which greatly increases the difficulty of friendly and harmonious travel together with fellow travelers.
01 Wake up early
Usually can not get up early may not matter, but the travel can not get up early often brings miss the local limited delicious, can not see the sunrise, originally a day trip into a half-day consequences, if in tropical countries, which also means you have to go out in the hottest time of the day, did not eat breakfast tummy is not ready to eat lunch, eat any Food has a feeling of opening the wrong way …… this time the pace of the peer is particularly precious, together at 2 pm wake up, eat a late lunch, and then go out together to see the sunset, in fact, is also very wonderful, right!
02 dumb attractions
The so-called “x x a great” results in all artificial stones, to walk countless mountain scenery but as their own county park, ready to wander in the bright spring light results encountered heavy rain nothing to see, spent hundreds of admission money 15 minutes to visit the end without any highlights – clearly is the home page to reveal, but lie to customers that is the focus of the larger picture, the daddy of the attractions are most likely to trigger peers between “I said do not come here! “, “Why didn’t you say so earlier! “, “Who let you do not care! ” such needless strife.
03 Differences in Perception between men and women
From the beginning of the guide, women are going through the ordeal: “Go to A country, right? No, it’s rainy season there these days. I’ll go to B, but I don’t have the right ticket. Or try C, which no friend has ever been to, but what if it’s not fun …… Forget it, it’s better to be safe in B! “Then …… bought a ticket to country D. Some people say “shopping with women will only carry the basket head of the men do not understand, people women’s hearts are actually changing, sometimes a flash, sometimes a thousand miles Jiangling, anyway, a day back. “Therefore, a man who can help women make decisions and can assume all the responsibilities and consequences and no regrets is great.
04 Poor travel
If it is said that many of life’s difficulties come from poor, then poor travel will best reflect this point of view, to the poor preferred tourist destination in Southeast Asia, throwing a lot of money to buy some sea melon seeds, razor clams and dead Eastern star grouper results in eating bad stomach, staying in a 50 yuan a night hostel because can not stand the American male bunk snore and did not sleep all night, take the bus but can not read the local text results in a tough folk style lost in a certain …… fellow travelers but one of them can not stand the pain, will break out the amazing contradiction – “Oh you are too delicate! “, “What’s the point of suffering all this! Ah! “
05 Spending habits
Usually it is difficult to travel like this minute are spending money at the moment (but you home Taobao seems to be the same), so consumption habits are an important factor to test the travel companion, sleep in a hostel or a fast hotel? Eat roadside stalls or must go to a restaurant? In the Shopping Mall for 1 hour or 3 days? Are you willing to go to a casino? Willing to spend a month’s salary to learn 3 days of cooking? Every now and then, we are surprised to find that people are subdivided into many groups by their respective consumption habits, who said there is no class in the motherland! Woohoo.
06 Strategy
There are two kinds of guides, one is the old guide like Lonely Planet, which includes stores that have become expensive and difficult to eat because they have been sought after by countless travelers over the years; the other is the UGC on major websites and apps, although the guide is written by everyone with their heart and soul, but it is hard to say whether it is worth the trek to find a certain store recommended on the guide. Is the same, the same “stinky tofu is good, slightly spicy”, Hunan people write and Fujian people write the same meaning can? In addition, it is clear that other people are just blind and randomly looking for food and fun, you have to copy the route, will also add a lot of travel, right? And whenever the food is difficult to eat, the road is far away and the weather is poor, it will bring a lot of trouble for fellow travelers.
07 World view
Travel to see the big picture means: a big booklet in the heart of the attractions stamped attractions and a person who likes to lie in the courtyard of the hotel and chat with people to experience the people’s feelings may be the fundamental difference, a person who likes outdoor projects and a person who likes to soak in the hot springs and watch the stars is also difficult to live together, because we have a different definition of the beauty of life. For example, you buy a pair of sunglasses that can set off a small and sharp face in a night market in a foreign country with great difficulty, but your partner tells you with disgust that these glasses are only worn by Lo when he dances.
“Mistakes in travel”
After arranging 10 sights for yourself in one day, flying around and visiting the Louvre in 15 minutes, your partner lies down with sore feet, and then you break up.
By all means, don’t do things that make your trip harder than it needs to be, and CNN has summarized some mistakes you shouldn’t make when traveling that I think make sense. Avoid these and you might reduce the risk of strife with your fellow travelers!
01 Taking pictures all the time and not appreciating the trip
Unless you and your travel companions are both photography enthusiasts and have comparable skills, taking pictures will add to the trouble. ” “Look how well I helped you shoot, why did you shoot my face? ” “Go to that hill to shoot just the sunset, walk over it is just an hour and a half, go. “
02 Pack too much luggage
Brought a lot of unnecessary clothes resulting in overweight luggage, a camera with four lenses resulting in a heavy backpack to walk a step are strenuous, loaded with a lot of food to climb because of the puffed food bulge explosion due to air pressure, with three or five books completely no time to read and all back, in the first day of a long self-guided trip to buy heavy specialties. If you make these mistakes, your companion is still willing to help you share part of the luggage, please always remember to spend the future time to love Ta.
03 Did not print the booking details, can not prove the booking after arrival
Mainly refers to just arrived, very tired, cell phone has not found Wi-Fi, this time no proof of booking and can not check in is very abominable! Or when the booking details were typed into Chinese, the Reception staff crossed their arms and said how could I understand this.
04 Regret after seeing something you like and not buying it immediately
Regret is their own business, the key is to regret so much want to go back and buy again, dragging your travel companion to go back to find, it is very troublesome to others!
05 Mobile phone forgot to open international roaming
Cell phones forgot to open international roaming, but also and the companion got separated, both desperately looking for a Wi-Fi marker in the big city. If it is in the jungle grassland, simply bitter to tears.
06 Underestimate the size of foreign airports, too late to the big airport to catch a flight
The wrong terminal, the wrong ferry, the wrong time difference, but also easy to trigger between the peers “I said go out early! “, “Why didn’t you say so earlier! “, “Who told you to mind your own business! ” such as unnecessary disputes.
07 Believing in the “near the city center” promotion of the hotel
Hotel ×× is located in the heart of the city, only 3.5 km from the lively Shopping Mall, and after staying at the hotel, I was desperate to learn that 3.5 km is a straight line distance. The worst part is that the hotel is right in the middle of two metro stations and it costs 20 euros to take a taxi to the metro station.
08 Don’t dare to eat street vendor food, miss local food
In a beautiful foreign country, the smell of barbecue is dazzling, the street fruit is green and tempting, but you have eaten McDonald’s for seven days. People with this kind of food cleanliness will not be able to stand any companion, huh?
09 with cheap clip feet slippers, walking to clip feet column and soles worn out
In the tropics, without a pair of wearable and easy to walk clip feet slippers simply with no long feet as inconvenient, in addition, slippers non-slip is also very important. And friendly attention to the companion slippers, the pace of the same is the best.
10 Attempt to play a place in a weekend, so as to go to the horse
A day for yourself to arrange 10 attractions, flying with 15 minutes to visit the Louvre, your companion foot pain lying on the ground, and then you broke up.
11 too hard to kill the price, so that the local vendors are very angry
Asking $50 for a dress and bargained it down to $1 – maybe a little exaggerated – resulting in the vendor almost hitting someone and needing to pull your companion out of the alley.
12 Didn’t cover the shampoo in the luggage
All the clothes became sticky and the camera batteries failed in water, becoming a lingering nightmare.
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