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One day in November 2014, Jiang Yan came running to the police station for help. She was crying in the duty room, saying that she was beaten out of her home by her mentally ill son and urgently needed police help.
I checked the person’s file on the police synthesis platform, and Jiang Yan’s son’s name was Liu Jin, then 30 years old, not a registered mental patient in the district. I asked Jiang Yan exactly what was going on. She said Liu Jin is not young, “neither work nor find an object, home all day playing games, today I said a few words to him, I did not expect him to swing the stool to hit me!”
After saying that, she took off her jacket, the right shoulder and both arms parts of several obvious injuries clearly visible.
“Are you sure your son is mentally ill?”
Jiang Yan was I asked a little confused, I explained that the platform temporarily no records related to Liu into the disease, if it is determined that he has a mental illness, we will assist her in accordance with the “mental patient disposal measures” to send to the hospital, if not sure, first according to the “general procedures” disposal.
Jiang Yan was silent for a moment and said that her son had been very eccentric and had been to the hospital psychiatric department before, but had not been diagnosed.
So, I greeted colleagues, with equipment, and Jiang Yan went to Liu Jin’s residence, according to the “general procedures” out of the police.
I went up to the 3rd floor, I knocked on the door, opened the door is a young man, dry and thin body, wearing glasses, looks and Liu Jin left on the police integrated platform photo consistent. For insurance purposes, I still took a step back, one hand pressed on the waist of the single police equipment, the other hand and he was separated from the safe distance, let him say his name.
The youth looked surprised and said his name was Liu Jin, and asked what I was looking for him. I saw that he looked normal, not like a psychotic episode, so I asked him if he had just hit someone? Liu Jin paused, nodded and said yes.
Liu Jin’s room is a set of about 40 square meters of old public housing, one room and one hall. The living room is full of old books, bundles of clothes, a few broken household utensils, and a dusty computer mainframe, several dirty cardboard boxes are a mess of miscellaneous items inside. The house looked like it hadn’t had time to clean up after moving, but from the dust and stains, it again seemed to have been moved in a long time ago.
I asked Liu Jin to tell me the reason why he beat up his mother, Jiang Yan. Liu Jin said that his mother came to get something today and saw him playing computer games at the door, so she slapped him without saying anything.
In the process of communication between Liu Jin and me, Jiang Yan kept interrupting her son, blaming him, aggressively, one sentence “your father has taught you badly”. I interjected and asked Jiang Yan, “What is your family’s situation?” and she said, “Divorced.”
In view of their mother-son relationship, Jiang Yan is the injured party, at first we did not stop, but we soon found that, if this continues, the two may have to fight again.
The colleague instructed me to take Jiang Yan out first, I did not have time to speak, Liu Jin over there on the emergence of a “you old ……”, copied the ashtray on the table, straight to Jiang Yan head smashed. His action is too sudden, I can only push Jiang Yan away, let the ashtray hit my shoulder, ashes and cigarette butts fell all over.
See no smash to the mother, Liu Jin back to get the glass on the table again. Colleagues while blocking and shouting to stop, I hurried to take the opportunity to push Jiang Yan out of the room, let her go to the police station first and wait for us.
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Back at the police station, colleagues took Liu into the interrogation room, I took Jiang Yan, who had returned earlier, to the 2nd floor office. At this time, Jiang Yan accompanied by a middle-aged man, introduced himself as Liu Jin’s uncle, named Jiang Tao.
“Officer, you saw it all, does this look like something a son should do to his mother?” As soon as I entered the room, Jiang Yan complained to me angrily. I poured her a glass of water and said comfortingly, “Your son may really not be in a good state of mind.”
“Not only is he not in a good state of mind, he is mentally ill!” Immediately afterwards, Jiang Yan used words such as “violent maniac”, “genocidal”, “heartless”, “worse than a dog or a pig “and other words to describe her son. As in the case of Liu Jin’s family, every accusation she made against her son was followed by the phrase “just like his damn father”. At the end of the scolding, she added: “He’s like this now, thanks to his son of a bitch father!”
I had to wait for Jiang Yan to vent enough and let her talk more about her son’s situation.
Jiang Yan said, Liu Jin also went to college before, but the sophomore year will be addicted to online games dropped out of school, and then sent him to study abroad, went for a year and came back, since then has been idle at home, so far more than 10 years of light. He also looked for a job, but did not do long, either too tired or too far from home, and some purely because he did not like, they simply left the job. Today, he plays games every day in addition to watching pornographic movies, the whole day to shut themselves at home not to go out.
Today, Jiang Yan came to Liu into the residence to pick up things, a door and saw his son in the bedroom bored to play games, suddenly angry, said a few words to his son, did not expect his son to talk back to her. Jiang Yan more angry, casually copied a thing from the bed to “education” son, do not want the son backhanded with her swinging the bench.
I asked Jiang Yan if Liu Jin was married, Jiang Yan more angry, “ooh” stood up from the chair and said, not to mention marriage she is not angry, a few years ago she had introduced a girlfriend to her son, all aspects of the conditions are very good, are going to talk about marriage, but Liu Jin’s father forced to break up.
Then, Jiang Yan changed the subject, from Liu Jin kindergarten, began to count the ex-husband’s faults in child care, other aspects of various “bastard behavior”, until she talked about their son in high school should choose boarding or walking and quarrel, I interrupted her – time has passed more than an hour, I advised her not to talk about useless, today’s main deal with Liu Jin beat her.
Jiang Yan was a bit dissatisfied, silent for a while, popped up: “Liu Jin was born to me, he beat me, I do not bother with him, but today this matter is definitely his father’s orders, this is ‘hired killer’! You have to arrest him!”
I froze for a moment, afraid I heard wrong, let Jiang Yan said again, Jiang Yan’s tone is more determined than the first time.
In the interrogation room, Liu Jin quickly recognized his mistake under the education of his colleagues, and he promised to give his mother a confession of fault and promised not to repeat similar incidents in the future.
But Jiang Yan kept on being unrelenting and strongly requested us to call his ex-husband. I called Liu Jin’s father, but the other side said “this has nothing to do with me” on the phone and hung up. Liu Jin also denied that the conflict with his mother was “instructed by someone”.
My colleague and I discussed the matter, I think there is no need to expand the matter, and advised Jiang Yan to stop here. Jiang Yan said, today, her ex-husband does not come to her “to understand”, the matter can not be finished.
Has been a stalemate until the evening, accompanied by the Jiang Tao first sulked. Before also help their sister to speak he changed his mouth: “Forget it, there is no need to make a branch ……”
See Jiang Tao said so, Jiang Yan immediately cried, said brother “elbow to the outside”. Jiang Tao later persuaded a few sentences, see no effect, they sighed and left on their own.
That day, the mother and son in the police station until 10:00 p.m., when leaving, Jiang Yan finally signed the “mediation agreement”, said with a huff “this thing is not over”, must go “to his father to settle accounts. After signing, he ignored his son and left the police station.
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I didn’t expect to see Liu Jin again less than 1 month later.
In mid-December 2014, Liu Jin was in the police station again for assault, and this time the victim was his father, the 57-year-old owner of a company, Liu Ping.
When we arrived at the scene, Liu Jin had been controlled by the community security guards squatting by the parking lot, and 120 took Liu Ping to the hospital first. We understand the situation at the scene, witnesses said, just saw Liu Ping first downstairs, a few minutes later Liu into also ran out of the building, holding a knife. The two argued for a while in front of the parking lot downstairs, Liu Jin then waved the knife at Liu Ping, who was cut in the confusion.
I took Liu Jin back to the police station, he also had injuries on his face, but not serious, said no need to go to the hospital. I asked him what was going on, Liu Jin said, today, his father came into the house, without saying a word to beat him, after beating still not relieved, and smashed the computer, and then turned his head and left. The more Liu Jin thought, the more angry, copied a kitchen knife from the kitchen and chased out.
A colleague who rushed to the hospital to understand the situation called back to say that Liu Ping’s down jacket was cut open several times, the more serious wound in the left side of the cheek, up to 5 cm, almost injured the carotid artery. But colleagues also said that Liu Ping is very difficult to communicate, in the face of inquiries, just tossing and turning and lamenting: “The son was raised for nothing, with the old man moved the knife.”
After the hospital bandage, Liu Ping in the company of colleagues to the police station, still very emotional: “No need to pull other, to Jiang Yan arrest on the line! Liu Jin is definitely instructed by Jiang Yan this time!”
I looked at him with surprise, remembering that Jiang Yan had said something similar to me three weeks ago, and asked him, “What does Jiang Yan have to do with it today?”
Liu Ping said that half a month ago, his ex-wife ran to his company, “insisted that I instructed Liu Jin to beat her, and asked me to ‘give a statement'”, and made a lot of noise, and finally was racked out by the security guards. After that, Jiang Yan went to Liu Ping’s parents, the family of more than 80 years old into the hospital.
“Injustice has a head, the ex-wife and you make trouble, you rushed son what fire?” I asked again, Liu Ping will not answer, just waved his hand and said that this prior to talk, Jiang Yan “catch” to say.
As this time moved the knife, to be on the safe side, colleagues called to inform Jiang Yan. Jiang Yan mouth promised to come, but has not seen anyone, and finally or Jiang Tao to the police station.
I asked him how Jiang Yan did not come: “Last time is not she must see her ex-husband? How this time instead of ‘inconvenient’?”
Jiang Tao said “forget it”, came to the two must be fighting, they know very well the sister family things, can handle on behalf of.
I thought the relationship between Liu Ping and his ex-wife, and his “former brother-in-law” relationship should not be good. But I did not expect, after the two met not only did not saber rattling, but very polite. Liu Ping also pulled out a cigarette from his pocket, to Jiang Tao point. The two whispered a few words outside the police station lobby, Liu Ping walked back to the police station lobby, with the police waiting for him to do the material said, “Let’s forget about it.”
Everyone was surprised and asked how to forget about it. Liu Ping still waved his hand, said the matter between the two men, said more is also embarrassing, not to pursue. I interjected on the side: “Then you can think carefully, this thing today said not to pursue, after the pursuit can not count, last time Jiang Yan from the police station ran to haunt you, we do not want similar things to happen a second time.”
Liu Ping spat: “The police do not worry, I will not be like that crazy woman.”
After signing the Mediation Agreement, Liu Ping did not even see his son’s face, so he took a taxi and left the police station.
After sending Liu Ping to the car, Jiang Tao turned back, said to take Liu into home, colleagues which took Liu into the interrogation room from the out. Unexpectedly, Liu into a see uncle, actually like a child, in front of everyone cried.
A pair of successful parents raised a crazy child
Jiang Tao while holding his nephew while walking out, see the two are about to walk out of the police station, colleagues called them back: “This time after processing does not mean that it will not happen next time. What is the situation of their family, we need to have a number in mind.”
Jiang Tao thought about it and said to send his nephew home first and come back when he had time.
Looking at the back of their departure, I asked colleagues, the police station every day this kind of thing happens, there is a need for him to come again specifically? The colleague sighed and said he was a police officer for more than 30 years, many big cases have signs before they happen, “early detection early solution, save after a big disaster”.
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Originally thought Jiang Tao said “time to come back” is just a pretext, do not want him to quickly return to the police station, said he also happened to encounter some difficult things, since the police asked today, he may also want to talk about, “to see what the police have no way”.
Jiang Tao told us, before Liu Jin and parents conflict, moved out from home, these years have been living in their old house, the daily life basically depends on him as an uncle to take care of. Originally, he thought his nephew just temporarily “hide a clean”, do not want to live in their old house is four or five years, Jiang Yan and Liu Ping before the divorce also occasionally control the son, and then divorced, it seems to be the son to forget.
I asked him if he was worried about the rent or something like that. Jiang Tao shook his head, said that in these years Liu Ping from time to time to transfer some money to him, more than enough to pay the rent, Liu Jin’s daily expenses are also basically covered by Jiang Yan. But since Liu Jin live in his house, see the situation is getting worse and worse, and now has reached the point of dancing with his parents, “my wife and I are worried about other things happening afterwards, so do not want him to live ……”
“This thing you have to discuss with Jiang Yan and Liu Ping, I’m afraid that the discussion can not go to court to fight the lawsuit, the police is estimated to help you nothing.”
Hearing me say so, Jiang Tao nodded helplessly, said he had asked before, but Jiang Yan and Liu Ping are unwilling to receive their son into their own home, and the two as long as they sit together to quarrel, simply can not talk. He is not good at forcing his nephew to go, always feel that this child has fallen to this step today is strange and pathetic.
I am a little puzzled: “Liu Jin more than 30 years old, how do you have to take care of? His parents are alive, even if the care is not your turn to be an uncle ah?”
Jiang Tao laughed bitterly, said the reason is such a reason, but the reality is sometimes not reasonable. Nephew grew up with their own relatives, now this look, he really can not look down. Before Liu Jin also went to the hospital, the doctor said just a little psychological problems, not to the extent of “mental illness”, but said no disease, Liu Jin’s current situation and can not be said to be a normal person – “normal children how will be with parents swinging a bench to move a knife?”
I asked, “Liu Jin is like this since childhood, or later stimulated by what happened?”
Jiang Tao said, should be the acquired causes, Liu into the childhood grades have been good, ten or so years old with him to Beijing on business, but also said that after growing up to Beijing to study in college. But when exactly Liu into the abnormal, Jiang Tao is not clear. He only remembered that when Liu Jin was in high school, because Jiang Yan and Liu Ping work busy, lived in their own home for a period of time, at that time he only felt that his nephew timid, shy, will not make friends with people, but also educated his nephew “to have the appearance of a man”. Later, Liu Jin went to university to go abroad, Jiang Tao is also in Liu Jin sophomore year dropout, only to know that the nephew had a problem. After that, Liu into the study abroad, did not stay long came back, said it can not adapt to the living environment abroad, back home, moved out from home, has been living in their old house.
Colleagues took over, said now it seems, between Liu Jin and his parents has not only “a little contradiction”, “and, your sister and Liu Ping in the end between what deep hatred, obviously a family, but make like enemies?”
Jiang Tao sighed: “What else can it be? Mutual anger, take the son as a gun! How many years has been like this, otherwise Liu Jin can not become this look …… now so, all thanks to his parents ah.”
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Jiang Tao family four siblings, Jiang Yan is the youngest, she and Liu Ping married in 1983, divorced in 2010, Liu Jin is their only son. The couple, who have lived together for 27 years, now even after the divorce, still find fault with each other from time to time.
Jiang Tao said, he and Liu Ping is a high school friend, so many years relationship has been good, Liu Ping and Jiang Yan’s combination is also their own set up. At that time, the two fathers are city authorities leadership, door to door, Liu Ping and their own friendship, Jiang Tao feel that the two should be a match made in heaven. Who expected the result is so, Jiang Tao also quite regret.
As for the two now to this point, Jiang Tao said, the direct cause should be or sister angry ex-husband married a new wife this thing: “According to my sister really do not need to be angry about this, but the key is, Liu Ping divorce the third day, they married a similar age to the son Liu into the woman, but also with the waving over the city, which indeed makes Jiang Yan very angry. “
I said, it seems that Liu Ping this guy is not authentic, it is clear that there is a “date” before.
Jiang Tao said, Jiang Yan has long known that Liu Ping has a lover outside, divorce Liu Ping also admitted that “there are faults in the marriage”, so a lot less property. What really makes Jiang Yan angry is that the divorce is her initiative, the external rhetoric is also “Liu Ping is not a good thing, I dumped Liu Ping”, the results of Liu Ping a divorce on a new marriage, which is clearly saying that Jiang Yan is “abandoned by her husband’s yellow face”. She wants to “fight back this breath”, so she has been pestering Liu Ping not to let go.
I said: “Since we do not want to live together, it does not matter who abandoned who did what? People live a lot of face to fight, why do not let go of each other in this kind of thing?”
Jiang Tao said, he also advised his sister, but useless, because Jiang Yan and Liu Ping live together for most of their lives, have been “fighting” with each other.
Jiang Yan is the youngest daughter of the Jiang family, Liu Ping is the youngest son of the Liu family, the two are the most favored one in their respective homes since childhood.
After the new marriage, the two people first of all, who is the father of the “energy” – the two masters are retired at the departmental level, nothing too big gap; later, and who is competing for “ability” – Jiang Yan in the unit is considered the main leader, Liu Ping went into business to earn a lot of money, and the two are a tie; and then, the competition is “who educates the children’s method” – now it seems that the two are all failure.
If the fight is a similar problem is fine, but on a regular basis, the two even “what to buy at home”, “what to eat for dinner”, “what gifts to buy for the family” are to compete, this life will not be able to go on.
The “divorce” has actually been on the lips of the two of them for a long time. More than ten years ago a late night, Jiang Tao received a phone call from his sister, said with Liu Ping can not go on, to divorce. Jiang Tao rushed to his sister’s home, after understanding the situation only to learn that the two are actually for the time Liu into a junior high school math problem in homework conflicts.
Math problems like Jiang Tao can not remember, but he clearly remembered that night, Jiang Yan and Liu Ping two people spent a full two hours in front of him, counted the whole process of the previous dispute. In the long narrative of the two, Jiang Tao suddenly realized that the crux of the conflict between the two, not at all in a matter of which is right or wrong, but in this matter should be “who said” – “in the end, they are fighting for the home The ‘right to speak’, right or wrong is not important, the key is to ‘listen to who’, the beginning of the matter, and then it is purely ‘right person not right thing’.”
“If two people are living like this, why don’t they divorce earlier?” A colleague asked.
“Not no mention, but finally dragged so long before leaving, on the one hand, the two sides of the relatives of discouragement, the elderly think that there is no principle between the two, just some trivial things, there is no need to get on the line to the point of divorce; on the other hand, the two have not been divorced, there is a ludicrous reason ……”
Jiang Tao said, before the sister proposed divorce, brother-in-law disagreed, after a while, brother-in-law proposed divorce, but sister again disagreed. Jiang Tao at first also did not understand, later learned that even the divorce thing, they are also fighting “who first mentioned” this point. “Liu Ping side I did not personally asked, but Jiang Yan said to me, ‘Liu Ping said divorce I have to divorce with him, that does not become I was dumped by him? That does not work, to divorce also has to be me to mention!
After saying that, Jiang Tao himself laughed.
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Jiang Tao said, “under the nest there is not a perfect egg”, in such a family, the child is living suffering. “To this step, is also the sister family ……” he may want to say “to blame”, but ultimately did not say.
The two couples have to “fight” for the right to speak, it is certain to win or lose, the winning party is complacent, the losing party will go to the children’s fault.
Liu into high school, Jiang Yan busy with the promotion of the unit, Liu Ping busy business, Liu into the Jiang Tao family lived for more than 1 year, but also to Jiang Tao told a lot of things about their own family.
Liu Jin said, he grew up afraid of parents quarrel, but also afraid of parents do not quarrel: a quarrel, a convenient to lose a quarrel in their own body to take the gas; not quarrel, the two are “full of energy” in their own body to find a bad place to do, so that to each other “fire”.
Jiang Tao is shocked, sister and brother-in-law will always tell each other’s grievances to Liu Jin – for example, Jiang Yan suspected Liu Ping and the company’s receptionist girl has an improper relationship but can not catch the evidence, will be directly in front of Liu Jin said: “Your father is a bastard, outside of the shoe. ” Liu Ping and Jiang Yan lost a fight, said to his son Liu Jin: “Your mother the son of a bitch, do other things can not, is that the mouth is good.”
Jiang Tao called Jiang Yan, let her not say such things in front of the children, Jiang Yan said, they do not say Liu Ping, it is difficult to guarantee that Liu Ping does not say himself – then, the son became “accomplice” with Liu Ping, he did not become a “loner”?
Although Jiang Tao feels that his sister is unreasonable, but he is difficult to interfere. Can only tell his nephew, study hard, do not mix with the conflict between parents.
Day by day, Liu Jin’s personality problems are becoming more and more obvious.
In 2003, Liu Jin was admitted to a college in the province, majoring in business administration, and was invited by the counselor to his parents for conflict with his roommate in the year of admission. Liu Ping and Jiang Yan both said they did not have time to deal with it, and asked Jiang Tao to do it for them.
Jiang Tao originally thought it was just a simple conflict of classmates, and only after arriving at school did he learn that it was the entire dormitory who beat Liu Jin one. Jiang Tao was very angry, questioned the counselor why this happened, the counselor first apologized to Jiang Tao, said their work did not do, and then several other students of the dormitory conversation records to Jiang Tao – the original, Liu Jin beaten cause is “provocative classmate relationship “.
“Let’s say, classmates Zhang San and Li Si in the dormitory point of contention, Liu Jin will quietly say to Zhang San, Li Si behind your back bad words, and then go to say to Li Si, Zhang San look at you disagreeable, ready to engage you. We are all classmates, originally there is no conflict, get together a gas, the results found are Liu Jin in the back to make bad, more times, not beat him up is strange …… “Jiang Tao some helpless.
He asked Liu Jin why do these things, Liu Jin said is worried about dormitory students quarrel, the conflict led to their own body. Jiang Tao crowed and asked him why he thought so. Liu Jin, however, said, “Ever since I was a kid, isn’t that what my parents are like?”
The counselor helped Jiang Tao to change the dormitory, Jiang Tao also educated Liu Jin to study well and communicate with the counselor more when things happen. But after only a few months, Liu Jin was again beaten by the entire dormitory.
This time, Jiang Tao and Jiang Yan, Liu Ping went to school together.
“That time he did not provoke the relationship between classmates, but as an ‘inside job’. He usually solitary, and never talk to the same dormitory students, but the dormitory students, who took his girlfriend back to the dormitory, who used high-powered electrical appliances, who ran out at night to go online, who browsed illegal sites in the dormitory, and even play poker, chess, he was in a small notebook recorded one by one to the counselor, the results were later found somehow, and received a beating. “
Jiang Tao quarrel with the counselor, blame him should not let Liu go in to do these things, the counselor face innocent, said he really did not send Liu in to do “traitor”, suggesting that parents take Liu in to see a psychiatrist.
That day on the way back, Liu Ping has been sarcastic Jiang Yan, said he had said that his son graduated from high school to study abroad, the money is ready, but listened to Jiang Yan’s words, have to stay in the country to study in college, otherwise there are so many problems. Finally, Liu Ping’s sentence “do not teach children, do not teach” completely angered Jiang Yan, she hysterically shouted at Liu Ping, halfway down the bus.
The university counselor later approached them, saying that Liu Jin only had some character defects and could be cured by the adjustment of a psychologist and the exercise of group life. Relatively speaking, the unfamiliar environment abroad is not conducive to the transformation of Liu Jin’s character, not to mention that Liu Jin himself wants to stay in school, “he himself said that there is no other problem except that he can’t deal with people”.
However, Liu Ping did not relent, saying that it did not matter that his son would not get along with people, and that life abroad was more independent than life at university at home anyway, and that “if you don’t know how to deal with people, then you don’t have to deal with people”.
On this issue, Jiang Yan finally did not argue with her husband. Jiang Tao said, “Then they quarreled several times, the final result is, let Liu Jin drop out of school, according to Liu Ping’s vision to study abroad, the results of Liu Jin also only stayed abroad for 1 year and came back, they both did not say the reason to me, but I can probably guess, I guess or can not get along with people.”
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In 2006, Liu Jin returned to China, and the family conflict then intensified.
Jiang Yan began to feel that she had lost face in the matter of her son’s college education, but when her son returned from abroad, she felt that she had regained some face and began to frequently use Liu Ping’s earlier sarcastic words to “return” to him. Liu Ping, on the other hand, spread all his anger on his son, and he punched and kicked Liu Jin at every turn, scolding him for “not fighting”, “no talent”, and “making your father I can’t hold up my head”.
Liu Jin came to Jiang Tao several times to ask for help, said he was about to be killed by his father. Jiang Tao helpless, to go to the sister’s home want to reconcile the relationship between father and son, but after going, only to find that the relationship between the sister and brother-in-law is the most need to “reconcile”: “sarcasm, sarcasm, scolding and even personal attacks, their family all have. All family, some words, I can’t imagine how they can say.”
Jiang Tao gave up the original idea and asked his nephew what he intended to do. Liu Jin said he did not want to live at home, want to change a clean place, asked him if he could put that empty old house “lend” to himself.
Jiang Tao sought the opinion of his sister and brother-in-law, the two did not express clear opposition, Liu Ping turned around and also dumped 5,000 yuan to Jiang Tao, said it was part of the son’s rent, after not enough to come back to him to get. Jiang Tao confiscated, glared at his brother-in-law, and took his nephew away.
Since then, Liu Jin has been living in Jiang Tao’s old house. After living alone, Liu Jin’s personality became more withdrawn and strange, in addition to shutting himself in the house to play games, never did anything else. Jiang Yan found someone to arrange a job for Liu Jin, Liu Jin do not go, Liu Ping let his son come to work in their own company, Liu into a few days, but also do not want to go out again.
At the end of 2010, Jiang Yan and Liu Ping, two “enemies” who have fought for half their lives, finally divorced, they can make this step, or because of their son Liu Jin.
This year, Jiang Yan and Liu Ping began to make plans to introduce a marriage to their 26-year-old son, and on this issue, as always, the two could not reach agreement.
At that time, Jiang Yan was already the main leader of a state-owned enterprise in the city, and Liu Ping’s business could have a net income of one million to eight hundred thousand a year. Jiang Yan was determined to find a girl for Liu Jin who was compatible with his family in all aspects, while Liu Ping felt that he should start from the actual situation of his son and find a girl who could accept his son’s current situation and was willing to live with him.
The couple argued again. Jiang Yan said that the son is now in this state, not to find a good wife capable of helping him, the family is finished; Liu Ping believes that the son is now in this state, the family conditions are similar to the good girl certainly do not see, and no one will “help him”, rather than looking for a marriage into the door after ” Eat clean” to get rid of, rather than find a real can live with him.
In this issue, Jiang Tao is in favor of brother-in-law. Jiang Tao said that the girl that his sister initially fell in love with is a female graduate student, a famous university graduate, divided into Jiang Yan unit to work, although the hometown is not local, but it is said that the conditions are also quite good. Because Jiang Yan is his own leadership, the girl promised to deal with Liu Jin, but later learned that the situation of Liu Jin himself, firmly broke up.
Jiang Yan is also quite angry about this, in the work deliberately to the girl wear small shoes, the girl directly naked resignation back home, I heard that later found a pretty good job as usual.
The later to Liu into the introduction of the object, Jiang Yan will deliberately conceal the real situation of Liu into the external claim that Liu into the “in the domestic university, but also in foreign study”. The second girl she fell in love with is the daughter of the leader of another branch of the group where the company is located, at the same level as their own, the girl was also working under Jiang Yan, for insurance purposes, Jiang Yan first contacted the other parent, who also expressed support.
The second girl met with Liu Jin, and at that time did not feel unusual. Jiang Yan is very happy, thought that this matter can finally be carried out according to their own “rhythm”, but did not expect, Liu Ping learned but strongly opposed, not only find the opportunity to tell the girl the real situation of their son, but also directly call the girl’s parents.
“Liu Ping did the right thing that time. Let Jiang Yan go on like this, not only the son’s marriage can not, she and the other parents will also turn against each other – she is clearly pit people girl ah!” Jiang Tao said. The girl naturally parted ways with Liu Jin, the other parents believe that Liu Ping is a “real person who understands things”, while Jiang Yan is a “bad heart” of the woman.
This matter eventually became the last straw that crushed the marriage of Jiang Yan and Liu Ping – Jiang Yan said that the matter did not become, is completely Liu Ping afraid of their son in the marriage issue “made the main”, if the two families were just in some things “can not reach a consensus”, then in the matter of son looking for an object, the husband is simply “intentionally bad”.
Jiang Yan and Liu Ping reintroduce divorce, this time, in addition to the two sides of the elderly still opposed, other relatives are in agreement.
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“In fact, from the heart, Jiang Yan and Liu Ping two people are able to.” Jiang Tao said, sister is the only one in the company to do the main leadership position of women, strong work ability, get all kinds of honors innumerable, the popularity is extremely high; brother-in-law grew up with excellent results, when resigned to the sea, from nothing to do a lot of money. Two people in the eyes of outsiders are “successful”, but where there is a person can make a step in the family, life will not be in this situation now, the nephew is not so.
“30 several people, not married and no work, all day in the house to play games not to say ……” Jiang Tao paused, said some time ago, he also found some pictures on Liu Jin’s phone, it seems that all of him in public places secretly took indecent photos of women. He was worried that his nephew was secretly doing something illegal, to Liu Ping and Jiang Yan said, but no one wanted to care.
After Liu Ping remarried, and his young daughter-in-law live a good life. Every time Jiang Tao speaks to him about Liu Jin, the only thing Liu Ping will do is to transfer money to Jiang Tao, “the mouth says he is busy with business, the actual is to spend money to buy a clean”.
Jiang Yan said his obligation is to raise Liu Jin to adulthood, now Liu Jin has long turned 18 years old, “is dead or alive by himself”. Jiang Tao let his sister take his nephew home, Jiang Yan said that he lives in the unit family courtyard, surrounded by years of old colleagues old subordinates, their own “smart and strong” half a lifetime, now “can not afford to lose this person. According to the age, Jiang Yan is also close to retirement, she said she intends to retire to Hainan, anyway, has bought a house there, if appropriate, and then find a partner, with Liu into the “inconvenient”.
Jiang Tao reprimanded his sister “dumping lump”, Jiang Yan said, Liu into the situation is Liu Ping single-handedly caused, he is now living free and easy, why let himself to carry this black pot? Also said Jiang Tao, “do not want to manage, then do not care about Liu into the matter.
I asked Jiang Tao after how to plan, Jiang Tao said, although the proverbial “mother and uncle pro”, but after all, uncle is not a parent, many things he is not good to do Liu Jin’s master.
I heard his voice, asked: “What does Liu Jin think of himself? Do you have any plans for your life afterwards?”
“What else can he have plans? These years, he is almost a waste of time.”
Before the Spring Festival in 2015, at the request of Jiang Tao, I reported to my superiors the situation of Liu Jin, the police station and the neighborhood committee decided to organize Liu Ping, Jiang Yan and Jiang Tao 3 people for Liu Jin things to meet to open a forum, but coordination again and again, the forum was eventually aborted – Liu Ping and Jiang Yan refused to participate, the reason is very straightforward: this is their family affairs, do not want too many people know, more do not want to alarm the police station and neighborhood committee for this.
Jiang Tao is angry: “neither willing to talk, nor solve the problem, are afraid to disturb their immediate good days, which is too fucking selfish!” Jiang Tao’s wife is more angry, said Jiang Yan and Liu Ping this time if not give a statement, she will take back that old house, Liu into the street to drive.
Or after Jiang Tao’s repeated efforts, only finally through the “family meeting” way, Jiang Yan, Liu Ping pulled together. After some bargaining, Jiang Yan and Liu Ping are hoping to rent Jiang Tao that old house at a price higher than the market rent, but Jiang Tao’s wife strongly disagree – she said, these two are clearly let her husband continue to take care of Liu into, “think beautiful!
Liu Ping later rented another house in the city, at least is considered to have placed the son. As for seeing a psychiatrist, looking for work and other things, Jiang Tao said he no longer want to care, and did not ask: “I am an uncle, my own father and mother are that attitude, what else can I do? What to do what to do.”
Then later, I occasionally still see Liu Jin wandering in the street.
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