Preface
On May 22, 2018, a video of a teenager about to jump from a building began to spread online. The video was shot by a resident of the opposite building, and the camera followed several times as the teenager made dangerous moves, interspersed with the shrieks of people around him. This day, from early morning, the teenager stood on the balcony outside the 16th floor, and all the people standoff until noon. In that place about 50 meters from the ground, the whole 6 hours, he did not raise his head, only a few words sporadically, in addition, it is from the air conditioning unit to pull down a piece of iron, has been scraping their arms. Eventually, the teenager was rescued by fire fighters, the entire rescue process, he has been struggling, the iron piece in his hand fell downstairs. “If you fall, it’s meatloaf.” The police told me.In late June 2018, I got in touch with the teenager’s aunt and came to Jiangxi Province to find him. The teenager’s aunt had already given me a precautionary note: “He probably won’t want to talk to you, he doesn’t even talk to us much.” Still, I wanted to give it a try.
1
The teenager’s last name was Li, and when I finally met him, the 14-year-old was like a fish that wanted to slip away at any moment – he had just slipped away once this afternoon, before we had officially met.
Earlier that day, I had made an appointment with his aunt ahead of time and rolled around to find the neighborhood, who came downstairs to pick us up and said the kid was home.
Upstairs, into the house, the aunt also shouted at him to open the door.
Once inside, I saw two teenagers, one sitting in front of the TV, the other figure flashed, went into the bathroom and casually closed the door. Aunt pointed to the teenager in front of the TV and said, “That’s cousin.” And nodded: “The one who went into the bathroom is the one you are looking for.”
We sat down in the living room, the aunt was very enthusiastic, pouring water, and ran to the kitchen to cut watermelon, while cutting said: “This time of year, the watermelon is delicious and cheap ……” Xiao Li stayed in the toilet for more than ten minutes, during which time I have been standing in the kitchen, and the aunt had a chat.
A few minutes later, suddenly came the sound of heavy closing, and then the sound of footsteps from near and far. Before I could react, the camera teacher said, “He ran away.” Auntie put down the knife to go upstairs to look for Xiao Li – the family’s greatest fear is that he will go upstairs again, and then what happened to the danger. We also followed, and after a few steps felt wrong, did he see us feel resistant? After that, we did not follow.
A few minutes later, the aunt came down and said there was no one upstairs: “Several times he ran to the roof again, and we were all a little worried. He actually has very little guts, but the words he says come out sounding gutsy.”
The incident on May 22 happened in Quanzhou, Fujian province, when he followed his mother. After it happened, he was sent back home.
I asked my aunt if she had seen the video of that day, and she said she hadn’t. No one in her hometown had seen it. After Xiao Li came back, his aunt also asked him: “I said you are standing on the 16th floor want to do, is not want to jump? He did not say anything. I said you jump down you jump, have to wait for others to come. I said you make so much trouble why, all the people came over, just for you alone worry. He did not say anything. I said you are not afraid? He said yes.”
In Quanzhou, the teenager also destroyed his room to a mess, these things relatives back home do not know. The aunt said, “He also will not say that this messed up that messed up, will not say see what is not satisfied to break it smashed, this kind of violence are not.”
In the aunt’s home, the reverse side of the door and the front of his room, are written in white chalk “peace”, “keep safe”, “safe journey” words, the aunt said that he wrote.
The doors and walls of his home in Jiangxi were written by Xiao Li “keep safe” (Photo by the author)
Auntie told a lot of little Li when he was young good and lovely side, recall the nephew when he was a child interesting things, she will laugh, but finally sighed: “I do not know how to control him. You do not know how to control, I do not know how to control, we can not control. Just don’t give him a computer or cell phone, that’s all.”
2
A month after the incident, I went to Quanzhou to interview, many passers-by saw us tilting our heads in the shot, but also immediately understood our purpose, talking to describe the scene that day. An aunt showed me the photos taken in her phone: “I was buying food down to see, really scared to death, oh, so many people here that day.”
At the fire department, I saw a clearer video: Xiao Li, dressed in black, was standing on the outside of the ledge, moving his hands around. 50 meters, a height that made the air cushion played by the firefighters better than nothing.
We finally learned that the trigger for the incident was related to Xiao Li’s stepfather.
Stepfather said that at about 4:30 a.m. on May 22, he got up to go to the bathroom and heard the sound of playing games coming from Xiao Li’s room. “I just turned the switch off.” The bathroom was near the main electric switch, and the stepfather turned off the electricity.
Apparently upset, Little Li argued with his stepfather across the room.
“As soon as I turned off (the switch), I heard the sound of cups and pots smashing inside. The more I say, the more he knocked, I said you knock again I want to call the police, he said you report ah, you have the courage to report ah! He also said, “If you go out today, I will smash all your things.”
Stepfather is too angry. He said that although the two were under the same roof with Li, but at that time they had not seen each other for most of the month. Little Li’s mother also hid back home, the stepfather said, “the equivalent of being forced back by the child.” Little Li has been hiding alone in his room playing games, not out of the room, nor to open the door, when he guessed that his stepfather went to work during the day, will come out to cook for himself – because the kitchen can see signs of movement, and, the kitchen knife was also somehow taken into his room.
During this time, there were also complaints from downstairs residents that Xiao Li was urinating down on the balcony. But even if the property came, Xiao Li did not open the door to everyone. The stepfather guessed that Xiao Li was afraid that the computer in the room was taken away.
After the stepfather called the police on May 22, Xiao Li still did not open the door to everyone. The police were prying the door when the neighbor saw Xiao Li from his own window sill there turning the balcony. The first image captured by the police’s law enforcement recorder was of several police officers peeking out of the neighbor’s window at 7:34 a.m. and pulling Xiaoli’s clothes. The SWAT officers were urging him, “Move over slowly on your own, listen and come.”
After a minute, Xiao Li began to climb along the railing to the inside, and several police officers let go of his hand.
But Xiao Li was just a false alarm, once the police officers let go, he climbed out of the cut protective net at a very fast pace. Soon it was against the outer wall of the building, holding the outer tube of the air conditioner in his hand, who could not reach him. In the law enforcement recorder was the catching of all the police officers by surprise:.
“It’s over.”
“Too late, too late ……”
“Kid listen to me ……”
“Come here come here!”
“Fork, fork there?”
What followed was a 3+ hour long negotiation.
“You’re sour like that, come on down.”
“Any comments you have, or anything you want to say, you can say.”
“Your stepfather cut you off is his fault, we criticized him.”
……
The police asked Xiao Li’s mother and aunt to call and persuade him, and his mother said on the other side of the phone, “I can give you anything you want, and the phone is also for you.”
But none of this moved the teenager, who didn’t even look up.
Throughout the process, the only thing that caught his attention was the fire fighters downstairs hit the air cushion, the “burst” sound attracted him, he looked down and asked the police: “What are they playing downstairs?” The tone of voice is so relaxed that it seems to be out of the way. The police told him that it was an air cushion, nothing useful. And asked him: “Are you scared?” He said “afraid”, and then did not speak.
Previously Xiao Li played a whole night game, has more than ten hours without food and drink, and no rest. But he was still grinning, in a series of discouraging several changes of posture, but also tried to climb farther. The police threw water and Snickers far to him, and he only drank water.
At 10:30 a.m., fire fighters prepared to carry out the rescue. They got to the 18th floor, in the time of turning the ledge, Xiao Li looked up and saw, subconsciously to the far side. Police who had been persuading him immediately reassured him: “Do you want me to call the fire fighters to help you? If not, I will let him withdraw back.”
Li said, “No.”
The fire fighters retreated, and Li continued to keep his head down. After a while, he said he wanted a knife, the police, of course, did not give. He then peeled off a piece of iron on the air conditioning unit and began to take turns scraping the arms of both hands.
Seeing that he was unlikely to cooperate, the rescue plan gradually became clear. Fire fighters have been watching upstairs, looking for the time. Close to 12 noon, see him less alert, a fire fighter hanging rope, from the 18th floor down to the 16th floor.
When the two were close to the distance, Li still saw, apparently stunned for a few seconds, and then began to climb farther, hands still holding the air conditioning pipe. He did not climb much farther, the fire fighters held him, Li let go of his hands and began to stomp. Both men were hanging on the outer wall, relying on the rope tied to the fighter’s body to ensure life.
“It’s too dangerous!” People around were shouting. At this time, a special police officer across the balcony, reaching out to hold Li from the inside. Even pulling and tugging, hard into the balcony, and tied a safety rope to his body.
Fire fighters take off their helmets, revealing a young face – that is only a young fighter born in 1997.
3
In the hours of rescuing Xiao Li, the special police pried open the door to his room. The moment the door was opened, everyone was taken aback.
“The room was a mess, the remnants of food were everywhere, and the smell was terrible.” Stepfather said he finally knew why Xiao Li took the kitchen knife into the room – Xiao Li used the knife to chop the closet, cut the table; the mattress was also cut and burned several holes with fire. Stepfather judged that these are not the day Xiao Li got: “that day to get sure there is the smell of smoke, should be before the inside to get.”
Little Li was rescued, his arm has been scraped out obvious blood marks. He is still very disobedient, stepfather to the police to find a belt, they put the child restraints, “during which he also smashed the ground with his head a few times.”
After that, the police took Xiao Li to the police station.
That afternoon, Li’s mother also rushed to Quanzhou from his hometown, in the mediation room and Li chatting, talking about what the police do not know, they gave mother and son water and food.
Mother and son chatted the whole night. Little Li’s mother told me that she mainly opened up and talked to her child about the future. She said she found two schools for Xiao Li, “and he agreed, all agreed with me, to go to the school in Xiamen.”
The next morning, the mother and son left the police station.
“Just out of the door of the police station, he ran away again.” Little Li’s mother said, the child ran, she simply can not catch up, she was very discouraged, “he wants to go on the go, I do not want to chase.”
Early in the morning of May 26, three days after Xiao Li ran away, the police station received a call to the police. A communications store owner said his store had been traced by someone picking the lock, “but the lock was not damaged, the store items were not lost.” The store owner retrieved the surveillance, locked the suspect and showed the photos to the police. The police station chief who persuaded Xiao Li for several hours recognized it at a glance: “It’s the kid who wants to live lightly.”
Video shows that day at 3:00 a.m., Xiaoli took a wooden board in prying the door. That store has two doors, he pried open the first, the second glass door did not pry open. He then sat on a cold stone bench from 3:00 to almost 5:00, before leaving.
A day later, the police found Xiao Li. He was fine, just said he was starving. The transcript recorded that “theft because I wanted to buy food and drink, away from home are no things to eat and drink.” He also said that in the past three days, he also broke the door of another cell phone store.
Little Li is not yet 14 years old, not enough to the age of criminal responsibility, and attempted theft, the public security authorities criticized and educated him after contacting his family to collect. But this time very embarrassing, the police phone call to his mother, the mother said she could not control the child. And then call his father, the father only said, let the child back home.
Finally, the Quanzhou police handed Li to the rescue station, which sent Li back home to Jiangxi.
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Xiao Li’s grandmother told us that she thinks the child is a good seedling, to blame only Xiao Li’s mother: “You yourself have ruined him, you can not blame others.”
Xiao Li’s parents divorced early and custody was awarded to his mother. At that time, just in the fourth grade, Li stayed in his mother’s old home, by his grandparents took a year to live. After that, Xiaoli’s mother insisted on going out to work, “I’m at home to earn a couple of thousand a month, not enough to spend”.
The child has no one to take, she sent Xiao Li back to his father’s side, Xiao Li has since followed his aunt and grandmother.
This situation is not uncommon in the local area – the young and strong workforce went to more economically developed counties in Guangdong and Fujian to make a living, and the children and the elderly were left behind in their hometowns. This is not a big deal for Xiao Li’s grandmother, who originally cooked for the rest of the family, just one more pair of chopsticks and one more bite of rice.
But Li didn’t just mean a pair of chopsticks.
According to his aunt, Li was quite well-behaved earlier, although he never liked to read much: “You asked him to read as many English words as he could in the morning, but he wouldn’t read. You say if you don’t read them at night, don’t eat them, then he memorizes them in the afternoon. You have to force him.”
At that time, Xiao Li will also communicate with his aunt, from time to time, said to go to earn big money, said in the future to grow up to buy a house to send her, “let me help him with the children, ha ha.”
Little Li also told his aunt: “I have observed, open a store is very profitable. The first floor to open a supermarket, the second floor to open a cafe, selling Western food, steak.”
Xiao Li also asked his aunt if she had ever eaten Western food. “I said I have not eaten, so high-level places I can not afford to eat. He said then when I grow up, I’ll do it for you to eat.” Even if it was a laughing matter, the aunt still felt relieved.
At that time, Xiaoli’s parents gave the aunt 350 yuan a month each as their son’s living expenses. This matter Xiao Li also knows, sometimes temper up will choke with his father, “he said to my brother: ‘You did not raise me.'” This time, my aunt also criticized Li: “I said your parents are getting money, without money you eat what ah?”
I’m forever running away from this family
The aunt clearly felt the change in her nephew, which started when he got a cell phone.
In sixth grade, Li asked his mother for a cell phone, saying it was convenient to contact, and then adults found that the child had been playing games with the phone.
“Originally said Saturday, Sunday use a little, usually do not use, but he used every day. You call him to eat, he also ignored you, I’ll throw him that phone.” The aunt later thought that it was probably because of this incident that Li began to have a confrontational mood with the family. She said that sometimes she naps at noon, and Li went to beg other cousins, saying “turn on the computer, give me to play. The family knew there was a ban, so they said: “We don’t know the password either”. Little Li just laughed: “You know, you do not tell me.”
Then it was Little Li who started going to Internet cafes.
The adults couldn’t remember exactly which night Xiao Li started staying out all night. They were worried, of course, and their aunt went to the Internet cafe: “He was still sitting there playing games when I went there. I went from this side, he saw me, and ran away from there, a back door.”
Children “love to run” also from that time on, adults simply can not catch up. Occasionally stay out all night, hungry and tired will still come home, but the whereabouts of the family can not figure out the pattern. Grandmother said, until late, even if the child does not come home one night, they can only go with him, “you asked me to find where to go”.
In order to prevent Xiao Li to go to the Internet cafe, the family began to strictly control the money, no longer put the change randomly. But even if there is no money, Xiao Li is not willing to stay at home.
Once Xiao Li went out for quite a long time, after returning home, his aunt asked him where he went, Xiao Li said he went to the stadium. The aunt did not believe, said the stadium are square dance moms and kids, where you have such a little boy. Later, a relative told his aunt that he saw Xiao Li, indeed, is a person in the stadium, stayed until the closing.
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In 2016, Xiao Li went to the first year of junior high school, the beginning of the school not a few months, it is non-sense to go to the mother.
At that time, Xiaoli’s mother was living in Quanzhou, Xiaoli asked adults to buy him a ticket, adults began to refuse. I didn’t expect that Xiao Li would call his mother and say, “You give me the money for the train ticket, or I won’t support you when I’m older.” For this statement, Xiao Li’s aunt is still worried: “His mother thinks that we taught this, I can only say that we did not tell him this, he will think for himself.”
Little Li eventually went to Quanzhou. His mother enrolled him in a martial arts school so that he could more or less continue his studies. The stepfather said Xiao Li attended the class for less than 20 days and clashed with the teacher, “The teacher was lecturing on top and he was in the back saying very difficult things, then came back and refused to go.”
At that time Xiao Li’s mother and stepfather work during the day, there is not much time to manage him, he played “King of Glory” at home, and soon stabbed a small hole. “The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem. Seeing that his mother was angry, Xiao Li called Tencent himself. The mother did not know how he communicated, and after a few days, returned a few thousand.
After this incident, the mother sent Xiaoli back home to Jiangxi, or let his aunt manage. Little Li said he did not want to go to school, the aunt they think they can let the child to learn a trade. “First let him learn to shave his head – in fact, he did not want to. He said he wanted to go to work, I said you have no craft, you know what to fight?”
Xiao Li twisted and learned to cut hair for ten days, did not continue, the family asked him to learn cooking. Because the aunt felt that Xiao Li usually like to cook, before noon Xiao Li early after school, but also fried food to her to eat, “he did better than we do are delicious”, and, “weekend also do not go out, at home to watch TV. I told him to watch the news, he watched those stir-fry”.
But when it comes to learning how to cook, Li still can’t stick to it.
Adults say “this child’s soul was hooked by the game”, the aunt once happened to find the cell phone WeChat just charged a few hundred yuan is gone, the first suspect is Xiaoli did, asked him, “I said strange, how no longer? He did not say anything”. A few days later the aunt felt wrong, and went to the postal bank to check their own and WeChat bound bank card, and found that the card stored in more than 6000 yuan are gone.
Seeing that it is impossible to hide, Xiao Li said that he took his grandmother’s ID card to register a WeChat, bound to the aunt’s bank card, “as long as the first time to lose the verification code, the future is not used. Xiao Li said from time to time to call with his mother, borrowing his aunt’s cell phone, money, so a transfer away.
“I said when did you start this? A long time, he said a long time. I don’t even know.” The aunt said that Xiao Li later also proposed, to call Tencent to get the money back, but in the end, too much time has passed, did not succeed.
At that time, Xiaoli’s father also returned home, for this matter, the father was furious, beat the child.
“Just that time, he also and I sparring.” Xiao Li’s father said that the child in front of him only made him feel strange.
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In March 2018, when Xiao Li once again proposed to go to his mother, the whole family disagreed. The mother wouldn’t even tell Xiao Li where she was; she only said she wasn’t in Quanzhou.
She didn’t want the child to come to herself: “He followed me mainly because he wanted to play games.” The mother said that Xiao Li played the game without any restraint, she felt that maybe she had spoiled the child too much over the years, “I always felt like I had to make up for him, and he felt that I owed him.”
Little Li was certain that his mother should be working in Nanjing, and he told his aunt, “My mother is in Nanjing, and I’m going to Nanjing.” At that time he also stopped going to school, three days at home, and finally his father had to buy him a ticket to Nanjing, and he got on the bus alone.
On the car, Li called his mother again, his mother also a little panicked, can only tell her son she was in Quanzhou, and then rushed to Nanjing friends to pick up his son, take him to dinner, and then buy him a ticket to Quanzhou.
So, Li took a bus from Nanjing to Quanzhou. The child came after all. Little Li’s mother said she began to still hold new hope, another rented a house, “that house is so beautiful, so warm”.
Little Li this time to Quanzhou at the beginning, stepfather also said the child also performed well, “will also make tea to me together”. But after that, when Xiao Li saw his stepfather’s computer, he took that computer into his room and began to play day and night. The mother shouted at Li to come out for dinner, he ignored. The mother had no choice but to call her aunt, who asked her in return, “Why did you give him the computer?”
Then there was a time when the mother felt she could not stand it anymore and hit Xiao Li. “After this time, he never opened the door again.”
Discouraged to leave, the mother was at the door of Xiao Li’s room: “For a week straight, I said I’m leaving, do you want to come with me. He ignored me and didn’t say anything.”
Then, the mother really left, after that is Xiao Li and stepfather did not meet for more than twenty days, until May 22, he wanted to jump.
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This time back home, the family felt that Xiao Li understand a little more.
Xiao Li’s father told us that his son was finally willing to go back to school, and that “this time there are not as many complaints from the school. In the past, he received phone calls from teachers from time to time, saying that Xiao Li had stolen chargers to school or was playing with his cell phone.
I asked Xiao Li’s aunt if the child was still playing games during this time. “No more cell phones to play, only watch TV.” The aunt answered me.
Shortly after the jump, I also showed the video to psychologists, who believe that Xiao Li suffers from depression. “99%, I’m sure of that.” The expert also guessed that “the course of the disease is about a year and a half.”
When the reporter found Xiao Li a month later, the traces of his arm scratches (Photo by the author) When the reporter found Xiao Li a month later, the traces of his arm scratches (Photo by the author)
However, Xiaoli’s family said that Xiaoli’s performance in his hometown was not well behaved, but not very abnormal either. “In Quanzhou, his heart is just not happy with the man (stepfather), he would like his mother to take him two people over.” The aunt said. Grandmother also think that because of the life with stepfather Xiao Li feel awkward, there are all kinds of abnormal performance. Even Xiao Li’s mother also said that she can actually feel Xiao Li’s dissatisfaction with his stepfather, but, “I have my life, I can not for my son I do not want to work life.”
The aunt thinks Xiao Li is like this, one because he is addicted to games, and then “make bad friends”. She said that for a while, Li went to the Internet cafe to go hard, may therefore make friends with “people who do not study on the street”. Later a group of teenagers in the street to steal a motorcycle was found by the police, the family went to the police station to collect Li. The aunt said that on that occasion, Li also with a little smug look. “He said the traffic police saw it and asked them where they got the car. The man then said it was stolen, if not, it could not be caught. I said you steal people’s things, it is not possible to never catch, so hold a fluke mentality is not right.” Xiao Li seems to know wrong. His aunt asked him if he was involved in stealing the car, “he said, I did not steal. They stole the car and taught me to ride.”
The aunt added: “My brother has a bad temper and used to beat him. Now the divorce rate is so high, it’s the children who suffer.”
Little Li’s grandmother has been lamenting that children are now very badly brought up: “I used to bring up several brats (children). And also go to the mountains, but also to plant vegetables, but also to raise pigs, but also to come back to engage in the little children, and now alas, do not have children well.”
After returning home from Quanzhou, Li’s mother deliberately did not contact the child, not even a phone call. “Because if I call again, he will be distracted, and want to come to me, and not subject to his side of the tube.”
The mother asked me if I had seen Li, how the child was, and finally the voice on the other end of the phone choked up: “Another year or two. When he understands a little, he misses me, naturally he will come to me.”
8
That afternoon, after Xiao Li slipped away from us, I talked with his aunt, father and grandmother for a while. At 9 p.m., I came to his house again, thinking he would have returned.
Little Li was indeed home, eyes on the TV. I was suddenly willing to believe that all the outbursts were out of a teenager’s unspeakable heart.
I asked him, “Why did you climb over the wall that morning?”
He didn’t look at me, his eyes were still fixed on the TV, and he spat out three words to my question: “To see the sun.”
I said, “I don’t believe you. Tell me the truth, why?”
He said again, “To blow the wind.” Still not looking at me, his tone was teasing.
I asked again, “Then why did you burn out the mattress?”
He said, “Roast the fire.” He couldn’t stop himself from laughing, and then held his face.
I asked him again, in Quanzhou is not more than 20 days did not go out in the room to play games. He said, “Out.” He said that when his stepfather was gone, he would sometimes go out for a walk. He said he would go far away, walk for hours, and be alone all the time.
I asked him again if he had ever sneaked off to an Internet cafe, and he retorted, “No sneaking.”
Little Li was not tall and his face was tender, so I said, “People see you so small, why would they let you in?”
He had a bit of a lively look and retorted, “Where am I small!”
On the side, Xiao Li’s grandmother and cousin all lost their laughter, so the atmosphere was somewhat eased. I asked him, “Wasn’t that the first phone mom bought you?”
He suddenly became impatient and raised his eyebrows. I asked again, “Did you?”
He suddenly stood up to leave.
I pulled him back, and it was already 9:30 p.m. His grandmother, sitting on the sidelines with a fan in her hand, also stopped him: “No, you said you wouldn’t go out at night.”
The teenager said vaguely, “I really want to go out to play.”
Seeing him like this, I said, “Let’s go.”
And he was still saying, “I want to go too when you go.” Grandma and cousin persuaded him again and pulled him into the room. His voice, which was deliberately pulled up, quickly dropped, and he seemed to be persuaded.
Before I left, I wanted to say goodbye to Little Li. I went into his room, which was a very modest room, with clothes haphazardly hiked. He was lying on the bed, face in, his back to me, the mosquito net half down.
I suddenly thought of his grandmother said that he was very “beautiful”, he went down to the river to catch lobsters and then go to sell them, after working hard for most of the month to earn four or five hundred dollars, to buy nice clothes.
I stood by the door and said, “We’re leaving, you rest.”
The boy finally took the initiative to speak to me and said, “Bye.”
9
It was late at night, and on my way back, I was still desperately trying to figure out what I had said wrong in the interview that made this teenager suddenly want to leave again all of a sudden. My last question mentioned his mother, and I wondered if I had prematurely hit his no-go area.
There were many more questions that just rotted in my stomach.
I couldn’t ask if he was hungry during those late nights wandering around Quanzhou, but even so, he refused to go home; I couldn’t ask if he felt the same way as his mother, who had looked for her and sent her back to her home, who had raised hopes for him and lost them; if he had hopes for his relatives and was disappointed; and I couldn’t ask if he felt aggrieved that his mother hadn’t contacted him this time.
Before I met Li, I saw his video and saw how he was at a standstill with a group of adults for six hours, without skipping a single frame. I still have a picture in my phone of him just being rescued, his hands and arms are bloodstained.
But after seeing him, I seemed to have a belief that he would be “safe”. So many questions, there is no need to ask or not to ask anymore, right?
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