Many nights at 10:30 p.m., pack up your school bag, pedal alone, and come out of study hall. The road was chilly, and the sycamore trees were shivering in the evening breeze. When I got back to the dormitory, I would usually gossip with my roommates for a few minutes, and then I would either complain about not finishing my deadline and continue to torment at my desk, or turn on the computer and play games for a while. Sometimes the roommates would bring back all kinds of food and drinks, and sometimes they would be criticized for not being moral and not bringing their roommates a share. The day ended in this way, crawling into bed, lying quietly, flashing this or that image in front of the darkness, and then going to sleep at some point.
This is how college life is portrayed. This kind of life seems to be quiet and peaceful, seemingly uncontested like a peachland, but only one of them will experience the taste of it. A person’s rhythmic life, after a long time, will also make people feel lonely and uninteresting, uninteresting so that people somehow feel lonely.
The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who have been in contact with you for a long time and want to open the window to catch up on the past and talk about the recent changes, but you think about it, and finally did not bring up the conversation, because there is actually nothing to say.
The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Often open a story, want to read, and then feel that the evening may be able to do more, and read a text is nothing special.
Often you will also play the game with guilt, while confessing that I can actually brush it a few more questions, while cursing teammates pitfalls, game bugs.
This is the state of affairs now, you have to choose your studies alone, you also have to choose your life alone, and, no one will make a decision to stop you.
The change is that there is no teacher to tell you about the homework again and again and again, and only a few questions in the book, which may not be useful in the exam; change, there is no mom and dad to rely on, and you can get a cup of hot milk when you get home from the evening study. The company has become independent and will take care of itself, but it feels as if there are fewer things to share in life, and they are all just your own. You can’t find the kind of elders that you can rely on for moral support, so that when you feel in trouble, you can throw yourself into their arms and let them give you the warmest care.
Alone, even if you have a wonderful time, you will inevitably feel lonely.
Will complain: why fall into a rhythm of life that I do not want, but become a habit that can not be extricated?!
Read a saying: Every successful person is an ascetic. Only they themselves know how much loneliness and incomprehension there is on the road to success.
It’s like when you are caught in the rhythm of your own nasty life, what rings in your ears instead is the voice that says
Your grades are not very good, how many people envy ah!
Or: Look at your many friends, how wide your circle!
Or: I heard that you won that competition again recently! That’s great!
In fact, you know best in your own heart, they are the expression of this appreciation, but only to the eyes of the spectator to see your life, as you look at them, the same.
So the university is a self-written script, should not be lost because the watcher did not read the lines in a scene, but should be because this is to play for their own eyes and feel free to splash ink.
You see others trying hard to brush up on the night, you go try and try to catch up, but you are not only likely to catch up, but also feel more unhappy.
You see others in various organizations around, you think you can, but you can not spare so much time, so you feel very weak.
You see others have a speciality like a crane, you can not do, you think they shine you can not reach.
But, this is someone else’s life.
You, on the other hand, have a life that is exclusively yours.
Try to learn to get along with yourself, because it is part of a complete life.
So, listen to your heart and don’t be afraid.
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