A pair of Parents in mainland China wanted their children to develop the habit of saving and establish a correct concept of money, so they took their 6-year-old son to do simple work in a factory together. Over Time, the son really learned the importance of saving, but also deviated and became penny-wise and pound-foolish, unable to buy even a lollipop, and now it has become even more aggressive, and will stop his mother from getting a hair perm, making his parents quite troubled.
The company’s parents let him earn his own money. (Photo: taken from Red Star News)
The company’s first and foremost goal was to get the company to make the best use of its resources. Mr. Gan later felt that children should share the household chores, so he told Doudou that he could go to his own factory to label and earn money, and be paid by the piece.
Mr. and Mrs. Gan’s intentions are good, and really let their son know the importance of money, but the Family found that Doudou has a tendency to become increasingly stingy, take him to the movies to buy a box of 15 yuan popcorn, Doudou think it’s too expensive, because it accounts for 1/3 of his assets, it takes two days of work to earn, and then want to buy 50 cents of lollipops also too expensive, so Mr. Gan felt very outrageous. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem. (Photo/ Reprinted from Red Star News)
The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem. But some of the “legitimate needs” of children may not be suitable for this approach, because children will feel that they are not getting the parental love that they take for granted.
Experts also reminded that if Doudou’s parents often scold his sister in front of him for spending money badly, the child is likely to develop the habit of not spending money in order to get the appreciation of his parents over time. Experts believe that if it is influenced by his sister, then Doudou is likely to belong to the overkill, now instead of letting him develop the correct concept of money, it is better to give up this parenting method, the current behavior of Doudou only affects the family, should not be overly worried.
Experts suggest that it may be possible to use wishes, affirmations, rewards and other “tokens” to do these things, such as wish cards, toy cards, rather than real money, may allow children to avoid such narrow ideas about money or the rewards of labor, further entrenched.
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