The Spring Festival Gala is, in effect, an educational conference promoting values, filled with all sorts of look-shaming, age-shaming, and single-shaming to PUA people across the country.
Today (note: yesterday) is the first day of the Lunar New Year, so let’s start by wishing everyone a Happy New Year!
2020 has finally been sent off to usher in the Year of the Ox 2021, and I hope it’s a better year for everyone.
However, when I returned from shopping on New Year’s Eve, I swiped through Weibo and saw that the Spring Festival Gala had been mocked by the group.
Not surprisingly, the familiar theme, the familiar recipe, or the rush to Marriage, the rush to birth. “Single is a dog” has also become the mainstream value of the Spring Festival Gala.
This theme is repeated year after year.
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The Spring Festival gala singing, dancing or magic, acrobatics and other performances, reflecting the aesthetic. The stage and costumes of the Spring Festival Gala are so red and green that the color scheme is so bright that it makes people blind, which has not been less scandalous; on the other hand, the stage of the Spring Festival Gala has not had new songs with popularity for many years, and the level of its singing and dancing programs is not convincing.
The language programs, such as skits and comedy, appear in the context of the Spring Festival Gala, and are a reflection of values.
Some people round up and say that these skits are just entertainment and not to be taken seriously. What are you kidding? The Spring Festival Gala programs, especially the skits, layer by layer review, at least also review a few dozen times, how can just for your amusement (really as an entertainment, it will not be so difficult to watch), they assume the function of edification.
In other words, the skit is the relevant departments to the people to see the educational film. If you are not used to hearing it, change the term, you will get used to.
Edutainment.
This year there are two sketches that have attracted more attention. One is “Happiness in the Spring”, about four couples who, for different reasons, spend New Year’s Eve on a high-speed train. The other one, “Urged to get married every festive season”, is about Parents forcing their daughter to get married and forcing her to find two blind dates at Home.
Jia Bing, a high-speed train conductor, and his colleague Bao Beier have this conversation.
“I heard that my sister-in-law is very beautiful. “
“You’ve seen her remove makeup ah? No eyebrows! ” “She sat across from me in the dinner, that light, take a pair of chopsticks, I thought Voldemort it! “
Let’s see, such Jia Bing, called himself “beautiful man”. And his wife, is a flight attendant, Ni Ni
Jia Bing often said he was busy working, no Time, Ni Ni is not satisfied, he said.
The old man must have his own business ah, must not earn money ah. “
“Then earn so much money for what? “
“For what? It must be for you women to buy a bag, buy a mink, buy a delicious fat, to meet your small arrogance? “
In this story, after Ni Ni had a fight with Jia Bing, she had to lower her voice and try to please Jia Bing in other ways.
How is this a marriage?
Beautiful as a fairy, wearing a GUCCI coat air hostess, and an ugly can be her father’s poor conductor, married.
But can not see each other a few times a year. This conductor, in order to avoid seeing his wife, constantly on duty for his colleagues, including New Year’s Eve. When his wife asked, he said it was for his career, in order to buy bags and mink for women.
A man so ugly, nothing to say to his male colleagues that his beautiful wife is ugly without makeup, so ugly that it scares him.
The wife’s words resolutely do not listen, resolutely for colleagues on New Year’s duty. After exasperating his wife away, or his wife changed his ways, whining to coax him back. Jia Bing lamented, “New Year’s Eve, I reaped the benefits of love! “
I would like to ask, people Ni Ni, in the love of what has been gained? A ugly husband, ugly genes? A husband who endlessly PUA’s her and tells onlookers how ugly she is? A husband that she doesn’t see more than a few times a year? A husband who despises her and looks down on her? And this man is low-paid, just a train conductor? (There’s nothing wrong with a conductor, but who is he to look down on a flight attendant? Listen to the tone of voice also thought he was a billionaire high above.)
Jia Bing this, is a typical “honest people”.
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Yangasa said “ordinary but confident”, is not true, these men, is “ugly but confident”.
In fact, not only the skit, a large number of Chinese Film and Television dramas are also this routine, ugly men with beautiful women. The latter, Zhang Yuqi with Yang Di, is also an ugly man with a beautiful woman (only Yang Di coaxed the beautiful Zhang Yuqi, slightly better). Last year’s hit “love me not to think too much”, is also Chen Jianbin with Li Yitong to form a “grandfather love”, but also must be the woman in various ways to prove that “did not look at my money”.
This kind of woman are required to go hang ophthalmology.
And, advise women a little: if the woman’s conditions are many, many times superior to the man, but also with the man, the man, not only will not be grateful to you, will not see you as saving the suffering, precise help for the poor sister Guanyin, on the contrary, this will give them a sense of confidence:.
I am so ugly, so poor, so lame, you are willing to marry me, that I must be “something”.
How great I am ah.
They will grasp the PUA woman to prove: you are beautiful, you are ugly in my eyes. You are rich, your money is also from your parents, you are nothing. You are capable, high position, your age is not young, not me you can not get married ……
That’s what Jia Bing did. In his eyes, Ni Ni without makeup is very ugly, he is the beautiful man. He told his male colleagues that he could “stomp her out” at any time. The scary thing is that Ni Ni also accepted this setting and accepted this PUA.
The question is, why do we only see ugly men with beautiful women and hardly see handsome men with ugly women? Ni Ni can match Jia Bing, Zhang Yuqi can match Yang Di, why can’t we arrange a fresh meat male star to match a female star who is fifteen years older than him and weighs over one hundred and fifty pounds?
Unfortunately, although there are a lot of strong female and weak male sibling relationships in the show business, but the woman is beautiful and decent, richer and more capable than the man. The man is still taking advantage of the situation; there is no such thing as a strong man with a handsome young age and a weak woman with an ugly age. Impossible.
Yes, someone will say that Chen Lihua is also married to the “monk”. But, why only the richest woman in the country has this qualification? In the skit, but an ugly train conductor, an ugly male nanny, are married to a beautiful woman, but also look down on people’s qualifications Oh! And Zhang Jiayi, played a middle school gym teacher, was small more than twenty years old beauty Wang Xiaochen pursuit; played a middle-aged male driver, was a female boss Yan Ni and beautiful white-collar Jiang Shu Ying wild chase ……
That is to say, a random no money, no talent, no appearance, no youthful male, there is no shortage of money, look and youthful big beautiful woman wildly pursued, not hesitate to polyamory, not hesitate to be a stepmother.
Think about it again, also in this year’s Spring Festival Gala skit, 38-year-old Jia Ling, has given adult women as mothers.
What is the idea conveyed in the literature?
It makes men think that no matter what they look like, they can find a wife as beautiful as a fairy. This is why there are so many male “haters” in society who think they are worthy of fairies.
The work behavior, not to rise to the actor, these actors are playing the right role is very good; but when they do not think about these unjustifiable, contradictory role, and such high exposure, they have to accept the consequences of being criticized.
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Another question is, why is there an ideological push for marriage only for women, but not for men?
Because, men who don’t get married are those who can’t get married; for example, in rural areas, for example, those who have hard conditions themselves. But women don’t get married, they don’t want to get married. In the current “fertility first” society, women are not welcome to make their own choices.
The result of only pushing women to get married is that women’s standards for choosing a spouse are infinitely lower.
In the “Being Urged to Marry at Every Festival”, Wan Xi’s parents said, “My daughter is 28, one person earns money and one person spends it. Next year’s daughter is 29, hurry up to find a boyfriend”, and also a banner.
“Single is a dog”.
The parents separately identified two blind dates for Wan Xi, for fear that she would not agree, they did not tell her before the meeting, so that she could not refuse in person.
What’s more, Wan Xi’s father introduced her to her elementary school classmate, a fat man close to 300 pounds, Rong Rong. Both parents were not satisfied with the “future son-in-law”; but even so, they tried to sell their daughter.
But the mother did not like the invited “match” and said in front of RongRong that he was “You can’t be a whole ‘airbag’ back right! “RongRong good-naturedly said, I heard what you said, it is better to scold me to my face! They still do not know to restrain.
Later, borrowing the words of another guest, he mocked RongRong.
“With your ‘posture’, the The word ‘excellent’ is a bit too much, isn’t it! “
The absurdity of the parents’ problem is this: you can’t see RongRong and not go near him; but when you invite him over for a blind date on your own initiative and hold him as your guest, you have to face someone face to face for appearance shaming. It’s really too cheap.
Also, in both of your minds, your daughter, can only be with her fat classmates whom she has long ago explicitly rejected and never came to see again? Is your daughter still a poverty alleviation worker, so good that she is rushed to clean up like garbage by you guys? She has long since stopped eating your Food, is it necessary to push her into the fire?
But such parents, will also say that they love their daughter; and even bla bla bla out of the previous for the good of their daughter’s little story. There are not many similar parents. They will do their best to force their excellent, capable, career, independent daughter must be married, or even force her to marry a man who simply do not see, appearance like Rong Rong, character like Jia Bing so bad; even said to his daughter, as long as you get married, even if later divorce, but also to forget our wish.
But there will not be parents, forcing their excellent, capable, good income, good-looking son, married a class, income, status, age, appearance are very poor women. Only when their son is in a particularly poor condition will they find a way to help him get married.
The essence of the marriage rush is that, women should marry low.
RongRong unfortunately became a suitable “low marriage” invited by someone else’s Family, but was humiliated in every way. In other words, the parents feel that their daughter is in the same class as RongRong, they are despised and deserve to be humiliated.
Returning to the question stated at the beginning.
Spring Festival Gala, in fact, is an educational conference to promote values.
It is filled with all kinds of appearance shaming, age shaming, single shaming, PUA to the people of the country.
Women are meant to marry early.
Even if you are Ni Ni, you are still ugly in the eyes of your husband, and will tell the world that you are ugly.
There is no future for the “fat”.
Women are Gold-digging, couples do not meet several times a year, are blamed on women to buy bags, buy mink above.
Mom and dad can force you to marry a man they despise in the name of “for your own good” ……
Single is a dog ……
The desperate thing is that the Spring Festival represents the real majority of people; the criticism of the Spring Festival is only a small group of people in the crowd.
Every year, it is hundreds of millions of Chinese people, honestly in front of the television set, learning this full of daddy flavor of the Spring Festival Gala, little by little to eat through this spirit, and finally, become the values of the whole country.
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