In Life, no one can escape the encroachment of the years, everyone is inevitably getting older.
Are you afraid of getting old? When Cai Lan talks about his old age, he has no fear at all, but is relaxed, witty and very instructive. Let’s see what he has to say.
01
Old age does not play, sorry for themselves
Birth, old age, sickness and death are all inevitable processes.
Since we know there are so four things, why don’t we go and have fun?
No money can also play well, do not play sorry for themselves. Play, do not need to have any conditions, watching ants moving can also watch a long half day. Raise a cheap goldfish, plant a pot of worthless flowers, you can play enough.
Play chess, plant flowers, goldfish, do not have to spend too much money, buy some daily necessities to make yourself happy, and not too broke, definitely not play things to lose heart, but play things to raise the will.
“Play with things to nourish the will? What’s wrong with that? “Mr. Feng Kang Hou said, “can be attached to the elegant, even better, modern people just can not play, even refuse to attach to the elegant. “
Human beings live until they die of old age, not playing sorry for themselves. Life is not fair to us, we are born crying, life worries literacy begins, after growing up is not as good as ten often eighty-nine, only play, to get a mental balance.
02
We will not become older, only better
Each person can only be young once, and everyone sings the praises of youth’s pricelessness: the little bird of youth never comes back! La la la la la! Ah! Don’t waste it!
But each person can only be middle-aged once and old once. Every stage of life is precious, so why presume to be young?
To be honest, I didn’t like the younger me, I felt I was not fulfilled enough back then, lacking in appreciation, arrogant and ignorant, with countless flaws. When I look at my old photos, I only feel a little nostalgic for my tall, thin body and the rest of the cynical melancholy.
All humans get old, and getting old is not a terrible thing, but getting old and stubborn and getting old and annoyed is not worth living. We have a physical age and a spiritual age. My father said that after he turned 50, his birthday began to count down, so he is only 20 years old this year.
On the contrary, when you see young people who live a rigid, unsmiling life and have no hobbies, they are really old.
Old, must be old to solemn.
Old, must be old and clean.
Old, to be old and fragrant.
Whether the clothes are brand-name or not is no longer important, but wash and iron straight every day. Dress is a respect for others, but also for yourself.
Wrinkles are pride, but the root of the beard should be scraped clean, to do a beautiful beard can also be, the daily finishing, more costly work.
Young people say: you are old.
No, no, no, no, we will not get older, we will only get better.
I wish I could be like wine, the older I get, the better I get. A fragrant and strong, tempting young people to turn around. Everything look open, let go, life is open and cheerful, how good is that.
03
Do not wait when you are old, think of something to do immediately
“Do it now” truth, to know.
Anything that comes to mind should be dealt with immediately, otherwise, once you turn your head, you will forget. Forget today, do it tomorrow! Then a delay, it is decades. And people do too much in life because they don’t do it immediately! Even regret later to say, in order to offset the boredom.
At Home, squinting and groping, the day is quickly wasted. Therefore, from now on, learn to do what you see, what you have to do sooner or later anyway, do it first and then do it later.
The beard on your face is always unsightly because you wait to shave it for the sake of laziness and forget about it when you go out in a hurry. When you look in the mirror, you stop and shave, but you have to do the same thing because you are delayed in other things!
Instantly do can be extended to immediately learn. Do not know how to use the computer? Learn it! How to input Chinese in cell phones? Train until you’re familiar with it. Can’t write well? It’s never too late to start practicing calligraphy. My handwriting has only been transformed since I was 40 years old, and my old handwriting looks like a ghost.
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What’s the point of living a long life if you’re not happy?
I’m halfway through my life, and nine out of ten things are not as good as they should be. By now, you can avoid as much as possible to avoid, deeply not worth the trouble for trivial matters.
To live a better and simpler life is the meaning of life. What’s the point of living a long life if you don’t live happily?
The length of one’s life is not under one’s control. Look at the people who went a little earlier than us, what a pity it is! The billionaires we know together, eating the same abalone and chopped shark’s fin every day, are making everything boring.
Being rich or poor, as long as you pay attention to every detail of life, small joys, can already be enjoyed endlessly. I repeat, the length of life is not under our control, but the quality of life is something we can improve ourselves!
What is the meaning of life? Eat better, sleep better, have more fun, don’t envy others, don’t listen to discipline, save more life experience, and die without regret, that’s the greatest meaning, right?
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