Ma Jin Yu, a Chinese journalist who has worked for Southern Weekend and Xinjing News and won several awards for her in-depth reporting, recently posted a long article through her WeChat public website claiming that she was abused by her husband for a long Time. Ma Jin Yu met Xie Decheng, a beekeeper, while covering a story in a Tibetan area, and married him 47 days later in a flash, after which they jointly opened a bee farm and had children. Now Ma Jin Yu has revealed that she was severely abused by her husband, her eyes were beaten and her eyesight was lost, and she was nearly aborted during her pregnancy, which is a far cry from the loving scene they had at the beginning. However, Ma Jin Yu’s husband said the opposite in an interview, which was a shock. These “stories” have been hotly debated on the Chinese web, and the movement behind them is subtle.
On February 6, the WeChat public website “True Story Project” published a long article written by Ma Jin Yu, “The Other “Ram,” describing how she and her husband were constantly subjected to domestic violence during their years in Tibetan areas and eventually fled the region with their three children.
The 5,000-word essay begins with the domestic violence in 2015. Ma Jin Yu writes: “In 2015, after a drunken session, he came back in the middle of the night and started looking for trouble, asking if there was something with his Tibetan friend (man), the violent beating started suddenly, my eyes were blurred at the moment, my fists kept smashing on my head, my hair was grabbed and I couldn’t move, I only heard the child crying out, the child’s father shouted. ‘You look at your ama! The moment my head was hit, I was incontinent.”
Ma Jin Yu wrote that she was beaten until morning and then went to Qinghai Hospital, where she was examined for a hematoma in her eye and a fractured brow bone, while she found out she was pregnant with her third child.
Less than a month after the beating, she caught her husband with a Tibetan woman worker, and when she confronted him, she was kicked in the stomach again and began to bleed. She then hid at the Home of a friend who is an ancestral Yi doctor, and despite the constant bleeding, she was able to keep the baby.
Ma Jin Yu said her husband always beat her when he was drunk and frequently asked for the password to his online store. 2017 Chinese New Year, Ma Jin Yu’s husband cheated on her with a Tibetan female university student and she wanted a divorce but her husband refused. “I was never able to take the child away, and the child’s father threatened several times, writing on WeChat: ‘Let’s die together.’ ‘Hang all the children, let’s die together on the grassland!'” Ma Jin Yu recalled.
In 2018, she finally couldn’t stand it anymore and left her husband with her three children. Before she left, she wrote a long letter about how her husband beat her, how he treated the children with the nanny, and why she took them away, “The calves of the three children, on their waists, by this time had been smashed with belts and belt buckles by their drunken father, purple bruises “, she sent the long letter to an acquaintance of the County Federation of Literature, entrusting them to the County Women’s Federation and the Public Security Bureau.
Ma Jin Yu’s Marriage to Qinghai for love alone was then widely reported by several media. The media personality, who had worked in China’s most prosperous city, gave up her cushy job to marry a beekeeper in a Tibetan area with her husband and live a paradisiacal Life, also became a hot story for a while. Now the incident of domestic violence against Ma Jin Yu has aroused a lot of attention, some netizens left messages saying: “As long as there is a first time, there is a second time, from the moment he hit, it can not be changed”, “Why not call the police? For the sake of the child to hold back? The child is also suffering because of your patience”, “the police may also regulate, there is no use”, “when pregnant with the third child why go back to it? Although very helpless, that can not go back to be beaten ah”, “at first love beautiful and plump, real life is cruel and bone”, “marriage cooling off period really need, 47 days on the marriage is really too short”, “I thought it was poetry and faraway, but the child is also a victim of the victimization. “I thought it was a poem and a faraway place, but I didn’t expect it to be domestic violence and hell”.
But Ma Jin Yu’s self-exposure to domestic violence has also been met with some questions from the outside world. Some people found that Ma Jin Yu still preached her love fairy tale to the public between 2015 and 2017, describing her love with her husband, saying that his heart was “like a spring in the mountains”; she also said that her husband did not speak, but he was a “very spiritual person”, and even said that The two of them “are not only in love, but also connected by flesh and blood and dependent on each other”; Ma Jin Yu also went to the university to give a speech during the period, asking students to “believe in love” and “even if the next step is a cliff, don’t be afraid, jump! “The next step is a cliff.
Previously she was interviewed by the Chinese Communist Party media CCTV, Ma Jin Yu said she would not leave the Qinghai-Tibet grassland, the Tibetan plateau retains thousands of years of beautiful traditions, “ewes will be sick to ewes chanting, ewes will be praying to ewes when they die, old ama shedding tears, that is the most basic human emotions.”
By 2019, Ma was interviewed by mainland media again, revealing that she and her husband had separated by then.
In an article on Phoenix.com, Ma Jin Yu said that she has a “literary disease” – even though she was beaten to the point of urinary incontinence, miscarriage and vision loss, she still talked about her husband in front of the media as being extraordinary, and still fooled college students into “jumping off a cliff The “pen” today, the husband became a ten evil demons, from the angel to the devil, all rely on her a mouth, a pen, emotional expression followed by subjective judgment, neither to discover the cause, nor to propose solutions – or neither to discover the cause, nor to propose solutions.
According to public information, Ma Jin Yu used to work in a number of media, then married her husband, who is a beekeeper, and is currently engaged in agricultural processing and e-commerce industry, she has also spoken at TED Talk as a businessman.
Ma Jin Yu’s husband: his wife is just for the hype
Ma Jin Yu’s husband Xie De Cheng responded on the 7th, the two have not seen each other for 3 years, until last night after the relevant article was sent out, only to learn about Ma’s recent situation, bluntly said: “Let me too surprised!” Xie Decheng said he is currently hospitalized, had been operating with Ma Jin Yu’s e-commerce products are temporarily on hold, “the night before yesterday to check the bees accidentally fell and broke two ribs.”
Xie said a few days ago he fell after a rib poked into his lung, he read Ma Jin Yu’s article, “the heart is particularly bitter”.
Xie Decheng said he did not have domestic violence, did not use the whip to beat the children, and did not cheat. In his story, the only thing that counts as “domestic violence” is the Dragon Boat Festival in 2011, Ma Jin Yu and her father had an argument, he was caught in the middle of a very difficult, so he gave his wife a slap.
“If you want to say domestic violence, she also domestic violence me.” Xie said he had a long gash on his face left by Ma Jinyu after domestic violence, and his nose had been knocked askew by Ma Jinyu.
Xie Decheng said that Ma Jin Yu’s eye injury was not caused by him, but was injured in a car accident in 2012, and he himself injured his ribs as a result of that car accident.
As for the cheating, Xie said, at that time he and female workers in drinking, Ma Jin Yu also with them a piece of drinking, “we are together, do not know why she said so.”
Xie said it has been almost three years since Ma Jinyu left with her children, and he did not have Ma Jinyu’s micro signal and cell phone number to contact her. “I still don’t understand where I went wrong, I don’t know why she had to walk away.” He said he and Ma Jin Yu never had a conflict, the only sign was the day after Ma Jin Yu’s mother died, she said, “the two of us however,” Xie Decheng thought she was joking.
“She can’t fire without me?” Xie believes that Ma Jin Yu’s move is to borrow him to hype, he said that Ma Jin Yu’s three times to become popular are related to him, once married to him, once interviewed by CCTV, this is the third time, “she went quite high ah.”
The person in question, Ma Jingyu, is not currently available for media interviews. The Qinghai Provincial Women’s Federation said it did not find a letter from Ma Jinyu in the letter and visit channel. The Public Security Bureau of GuiDe County, Qinghai, said that Ma Jin Yu has never reported to the Public Security Bureau before, and the police are conducting further investigation into the incident, the details of which cannot be disclosed at this time.
The so-called “love story” and “domestic violence scandal” in mainland China has received so much hype that it should be a deliberate act of the officials. Could it be related to the need for the Chinese Communist Party’s ethnic policy of “reification” in Tibetan areas? This Ma Jin Yu is from the CCP’s official media, which is good at propaganda and falsification, and the Women’s Federation and public security are the CCP’s stability maintenance departments, so the next step may be to continue to break the news in order to divert the crisis of the CCP’s current rule.
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