The boy who can really eat soft food, the reason may be more complicated than we think.
This afternoon when the party met a friend, is the only one of his classmates to eat on the “serious”, “real” soft rice boy.
The young man is certainly good-looking, like to stay an inch clean, next door to the well-known school of financial accounting class, senior year and the current wife, five or six lines of freight forwarding company’s female boss married, older than his whole 11 years, not a particularly large gap.
Although the size of the business in general, but because it is the family heritage, so the wealth is basically free, raising a man is still more than enough, married life you and I look very happy.
But ah, the boy freshman ~ junior when he talked about a girl, also older than him a two or three years look.
According to him, he still likes this girl, but with her there is a “sense of oppressive powerlessness”, so he can not bear.
What do you mean? He himself confessed that he was very weak, for example.
The girl is bullied by the leader of the internship, the boy will feel powerless.
The girl and the boy in the class conflict, the boy felt no need to let him “take the lead” for this small matter, the conflict escalated.
When a girl complains to him about how difficult her job is, he can neither solve the problem professionally nor relieve his girlfriend’s difficulties financially.
Once the girl was scared by the fetish of exhibitionism in front of the school, so she wanted the boy to accompany him home every night, but in fact, the boy himself is thin and weak, also afraid of perverts, every day walking at night also fearful.
You know what it means?
The boy thinks that from the point of view of “social function”, he should do something for the girl.
But in terms of “practical ability”, he could not do anything, one is not able to, two is not able to “do something” of that step.
It is this “oppressive” sense of powerlessness, so he felt unable to fall in love with ordinary girls of the same age, and therefore broke up.
His current wife, whom he met during his internship.
The strange thing is that they met through their parents’ “relationship” to introduce internship opportunities, the purpose is to find a job to mix up the time.
According to him, with this sister, he was able to return to a child-like state of zero stress, and there was nothing for him to worry about at home.
The woman’s business finances are very standardized, family finances and business finances are separate, business bankruptcy does not affect their quality of life.
The family has a nanny, the career of the woman herself can do, the company has security, do not need him to train how strong to “head” to do what.
The only thing he has to do is to help the woman with a 9-year-old child, to give him tutorials to help him with his homework, 211 graduate this useful, and occasionally have to cook a meal, the routine that so and so, right?
The boy himself said, and his wife to get along with these years, is his most anxiety-free years.
It’s enough to be single-mindedly good to the woman in front of you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
This state of life makes him very satisfied.
You can understand this mentality, right?
Yes.
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